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Solemn ceremony honors war dead

Posted: Wednesday, April 08, 2009 1:09 PM

DOVER AIR FORCE BASE, Delaware - The widow stepped gently off the small blue bus, dressed all in black.  She was surrounded by family members and several uniformed members of the military. She looked stunned and frail.

She was at Dover Air Force Base to witness the "dignified transfer" of her husband who was killed in Iraq.

Image: Members of the US Army Old Guard serve as the carry team for US Army Specialist Israel Candelaria Mejias from San Lorenzo, Puerto Rico
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Members of the U.S. Army Old Guard carry the remains of Army Specialist Israel Candelaria Mejias shortly after his body was returned to the U.S. from Iraq on Tuesday.

Tuesday evening was just the second time in 18 years that members of the media were allowed  to witness the solemn ritual surrounding the return of remains of fallen U.S. service members; the first time was Sunday evening.

Secretary of Defense Robert Gates ordered the military to lift the ban on media coverage and allow the public to witness the homecoming of America’s war dead, if the family allows it. 

But while the family witnesses the event just a few yards away from the media, the Dover rules strictly prohibit the media from taking any photos of them. Even though we all do our best to avert our eyes and give them their privacy, their presence is palpable and heartbreaking.

VIDEO: Solemn ceremony marks 'sacrifice' of war dead

‘Present Arms’  
On Tuesday evening, Army Spc. Israel Candelaria Mejias’ remains returned in a large metal transfer case, covered with an American flag. 

Mejias’ was killed when a mine detonated near him while serving outside of Baghdad on Sunday.  He was from San Lorenzo, Puerto Rico, and was  28 years old.

An eight-person team carry team marched into the back of the cavernous C-17, where several more soldiers and airman stood at attention.  The carry team paused as a military chaplain said a quiet blessing and then they carefully raised the transfer case. 

The carry team, in this case soldiers from the Army’s Old Guard, slowly marched to a waiting truck.  After the case was placed in the truck, the soldiers backed up.  As the doors closed, the officer presiding over the ceremony gave the command, "Present Arms."

And in perfect unison, the eight soldiers gave a steady salute to honor the fallen soldier.  After a few moments, an officer gave the command, "Order Arms," and their arms went back down to their sides.  As the police escort led the truck away from the flight line, the carry team marched behind the truck.

And with that, the brief ceremony was over.  It lasted less than 15 minutes, but in that short time the reverence and honor bestowed upon the fallen soldier was palpable. 

Mourning for someone they had never met
And then something remarkable happened.  I turned toward my silent colleagues and saw raw emotion from the press.  Reporters were wiping away tears, some turning away from the huddled group. 

Journalists take a lot of criticism for being detached from a story, and unfortunately sometimes that is a necessary defense mechanism when you are surrounded by images of war and stories of suffering.  But in a few brief moments on the frigid flight line at Dover Air Force Base, I saw my colleagues mourn for someone who they had never met and really knew nothing about.   

The story at Dover was supposed to be about the media finally gaining access to the solemn dignified transfers at Dover Air Force Base.  But in a brief moment I finally saw that the story was not about the media at all.  It was about honoring the heroes who sacrifice their lives to serve us all.

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Thank you.  I also saw on a replay of one of the transfers tears on the cheeks of a soldier.  I caught myself wanting to stand during the ceremony in my den.  This is something that this country has been missing since the war in Iraq started - honoring those who have given their lives.  We need never forget the sacrifices of the fallen heroes and their families.
From my perspective, it has never been about the media and their lack of access.  It has always been symbolic of the public's lack of a visible ceremony acknowledging the soldier's final return to the country he or she gave their lives to protect.  Without a public ceremony of some sort, it's like saying their life wasn't worth celebrating.  Personally, this restriction, coming from our own government, has been a slap in the face to all service members living and dead.
Ms. Kube--I spent 23 years in the Army serving this nation.  I was touched by your article and thank you for your comments. Now you understand.
Amen.
Amen...
I think it's incredible that you can turn on the TV and watch Canadian channels showing not only the return of their dead, but the ramp ceremony overseas and the trip down the "Highway of Hero's". I think we should be like Canada, it should be a national experience, with all of the accompanying tears, pride, and remembrance. Their returning dead are met by thousands of citizens, every overpass on the 150 miles or so are full of those Canadians sending off their soldiers. I have heard it is an incredibly moving, not only for the family of the dead, but the country as well. It's sharing the nations grief, something we should do here!
"I saw my colleagues mourn for someone who they had never met and really knew nothing about."

When you cry for and mourn a fallen soldier (especially one that you didn't know), I believe that you are really mourning all of the soldiers who have given their lives for our freedom. I think that witnessing and really feeling these moments allows us to realize just how much the sacrifices these men and women have made actually mean to us.
It's about time the media recognized the sacrifice that these soldiers and their families make for our freedom! The Patriot Guard Riders have been protecting and Honoring them for about 5 years. (For free) We will continue. NEVER FORGET OUR HEROES
Multaply by 4,941 of our young men and women who have returned home the same way.
This story was very touching and appropriate. It brought tears to my eyes.

thank you
I think it's incredible that you can turn on the TV and watch Canadian channels showing not only the return of their dead, but the ramp ceremony overseas and the trip down the "Highway of Hero's". I think we should be like Canada, it should be a national experience, with all of the accompanying tears, pride, and remembrance. Their returning dead are met by thousands of citizens, every overpass on the 150 miles or so are full of those Canadians sending off their soldiers. I have heard it is an incredibly moving, not only for the family of the dead, but the country as well. It's sharing the nations grief, something we should do here!
"Taking Chance" is a great movie, starring Kevin Bacon, that gives the full details of delivering a lost service person home.  
What a great story - well written and received!!
HBO recently produced a film called "Taking Chance" which covered the solemn and dignified treatment given to America's fallen military personnel.  It, too, brought those of us watching to tears - almost from the start of the film.  Many of us, the "public", don't really seem to "get" the impact of the war we are fighting in Iraq or Afgahnistan.  To my way of thinking, for those of us who don't have to face the reality of the return of the remains of a family's loved one, either the opportunity to experience the ceremony these reporters saw, or the viewing of that film, should be required watching for the Nation as a whole.  These fallen heros have paid the price for you and me to be able to live in this country with it's unprecedented level of freedoms.  I am humbled by their sacrifice and they have my undying respect and appreciation.
Nice to finally see the public recognition our soldiers deserve that's been hidden away from view for so long for dubious reasons.
Hope it helps the living who remain.
God bless these heroes. Seeing these images breaks my heart because these young men and women have given there lives for us still at home. I pray that this war ends soon and I pray for the souls and families of these dearly departed.  I pray that these deaths will cease soon.  God Bless, Janese
Please always remember that no matter how good of a story something like this is that a loved member of a family will never return to their family.
Their sacrifice helped to insure that the freedoms we cherish are allowed to prevail
My heart goes out to all families who have lost a  loved one during war. It should be kept a private moment for family members only. If you have not watched the movie "Taking Chance"  on HBO, I urge you to see it. The fallen soldiers are treated with repect and dignity upon their return to Dover and to their final destination. Do we really need to invade a private moment that is meant for family only?
The media's heartless but for reasons other then they talk about. The stalk people they harass people especially soldiers they write stories and make things up to fit their views & own agendas & what sells ads or papers. They distort the truth and always talk negatively about the war & soldiers why praising someone like Osama Barak a coward & traitor who in less then 100 days has not only bankrupted the US but weakened us not just in defense but in caving to our enemies and bowing to their demands. He's like the ACLU more worried about protecting criminals even when the criminal commits a crime then in protecting the victims or better yet preventing crime to begin with. The media shouldnt taint the solemn event at dover or anywhere because the media is not remotely at pair to be in the presents of such rare value & honor. It's like the old days you had to be noble to look at a king or a priest to talk to god. Only one person was able to look at inside the ark and supposeably only one person can talk to god in any of the major religons. Watching the event let alone standing near a fallen soldier especially a hero who gave selflessly for others without asking for personal benefit few can & should be able to stand in that kind of presents. Osama Barak & the media treat our troops like toilet paper.........
Thank you for your article and for the compassion that you and your colleagues displayed.  In the shadow and honoring our veterans as it should be for the honor of the soldier and the family.  May the gaining of access to the somber ceremony be used as you have and not used for other (......) hateful reasons. And again I thank you.
Ms. Kube,
A wonderfully written article, very moving. All Americans should respectfully view these ceremonies so they can better appreciate the sacrifices our men and women in uniform make for us every day.  
Thank you Courtney for the piece and your honest emotion regarding our war dead.  You are credit to your profession and a true talent for NBC News.
A vet and retired police office is proud of you!
Amen.
What a touching story...as a Canadian police officer who has particpated in the "Highway of Heroes" repatriations in downtown Toronto, I have been most touched by the families waving and videotaping us as we stand at attention and salute their loved one, treating us as if we were the heroes! Your nation, our nation and the fallen soldier's families should be so proud of the men and women who have paid the ultimate sacricfice so that we can get up and do the things that we do on a daily basis.  Welcome them home, they deserve it.  
I found your article both respectful and very tastefully done. For that I thank you.  All too often all we hear about in the media is the body count or the protests that go on during the private services for those fallen hero’s.  Thank you for sharing this and the reactions of those there.
I found your article both respectful and very tastefully done. For that I thank you.  All too often all we hear about in the media is the body count or the protests that go on during the private services for those fallen hero’s.  Thank you for sharing this and the reactions of those there.
Thank-you for telling this story and allowing us to grieve for our fallen hero's the way we always should have.  God bless the military and all service members.
It is a very moving and touching scene.
In Canada we have always allowed the media to cover both when the fallen leave Afganastan and when they return to Canadian soil.
Also on the trip from the Air Force base to Toronto for the coroner people line the highway and all of its overpasses to pay tribute. The section of highway that all the fallen take to Toronto has been renamed in their honour.
This trip and the ramp ceromonies are well covered by the media as are the funerals if the family allows.
God bless our fallen heros, the least they deserve is America's public acknowledgement of their ultimate sacrifices. Thank you for a great article, we all appreciate it.
My deepest sympathy to all those who have lost a loved one killed in the line of duty.  I also saw the HBO special "Taking Chance".  I will never forget it; the young man who was killed was indeed treated with dignity and respect on his journey "home" to his family. I cried many hours afterwards....for all the men, women and civilians who have died in Iraq, Afghanistan and all foreign soils.  It's the least we can do for their ultimate sacrifice.  God Bless.
During my tour in Iraq, we treated a fallen soldier in my aid station.  I and one other had the honor of watching over his body through the night awaiting transport the next day to the main base for transport home.  Varies people throughout the night stopped in the tent and sat in silence and prayed next to his body.  One person ripped the American flag patch on his shoulder and pinned it to the outside of the covering.  Another individual pinned the Combat Infantry Badge next to the flag, gave a salute and then quietly walked out of the tent.   Not a single person who came through the tent that night left it without shedding a tear.  I think that the people back home need to see the fallen being brought home to show them the real human aspect of the war and not just the numbers that you hear on news broadcasts, read in papers or hear on the radio.  I know that I will never forget that night nor will I forget the others that I treated in my aid station who had fallen.  
Thank you to the families who are willing to share this very private and heart wrenching moment with us.
It allows us to pause for a moment and give thanks for the lives of these brave men and women. It serves as a reminder that freedom is not free. God bless the United States.  God bless these special people and their families.
Everyone should watch the movie "Taking Chance".  You need to watch it when there are no distractions so you can watch it from beginning to end.  When you do watch it, don't even try to hold back the tears.  I do believe that the media should not interfere, just stay back a reasonable distance and let the family morn their loved ones.  GOD BLESS AMERICA!
I am Iraq veteran and currently serve in the USAF Reserves..>Reading this article and peoples comments made me tear and choke up.  I have seen this ceremony in person and let me tell you you will never get that image out of your head.  Remember there are only two people who have given their life for you, Jesus Christ and the American G.I.
Thank you for a great article.  One of the other posters mentioned the Patriot Guard Riders, a group that has been honoring our fallen soldiers for the last 5 years.  I would like to add to his comment that anyone can join the Patriot Guard Riders: you do not have to be a veteran or ride a motorcycle; you only need the desire to honor those that deserve it most.
"Posterity: you will never know how much it has cost my generation to preserve your freedom. I hope you will make good use of it." John Quincy Adams
I know exactly what all this feels like.
During the Vietnam Era I was the Armed Forces Bugler for the Northwest area. It is always a sad moment even after you did over 60 Funerals.
I lost my nephew and sister in law to this war and am opposed to allowing the viewing. The reason I say this is the media was all over the family at the funeral and had it not been for the Army Survior Assistance officer keeping them at bay we just wouldn't have made it. The media is only out for a story and tries their best to glorify it, leave the families alone.
I was there, in your same shoes on July 5th, 2007.  I flew my son's remains back from Iraq, where he was killed in action.  My younger son was also at my side.  We both were serving in Iraq at the time.  All i can say is that i will never forget that moment, and I still holding on to the flag that was draped over his cascet.  I called the "angle fly"...my deepest condolescents to you and your family.  Heros from war will never be forgoten
As a mother of a soldier in a war zone, I hope we will never have to make the decison that this family had to make. I agree that it was a moving ceremony and appreciate for the sacrafice that was given. My one concern is that someone will take these honorable and moving moments and make it into a political movement. May we never forget the sacrific of all those who have fallen for the service of their country.
May the Lord God our Savior provide a seat on His throne for all those that have sacrificed their lives to protect and serve our Country. May He also provide closure and peace for family and friends of our unsung Heroes. Hopefully, the media will print the truth of what is going on an d quit trying to persecute those that have done their jobs well. They don't have any idea what our Heroes are going thruough. Amen.
Thank you for this article. I served in the Navy, am married to a US Navy Submariner on his 18th year of service, and my little brother is in the Army and has been to Iraq several times. Although, I still have mixed emotions about allowing such access to the press and the civilian sector. I know that sounds terrible, but let me explain. There's mixed emotions about this war and I wouldn't want someone to try to exploit such a dignified ceremony. We in the military community take care of our own, and you are now able to see this for yourselves. I don't see that it's anyone's right to bear witness to such a tragic time in a family's life. So, I can only hope that as our fallen heroes come home that Americans will continue to pay their repsects to those that have paid the ultimate price, regardless of one's views of this war. This isn't about the press gaining access to these ceremonies, this is about a Nation that's become numb to the fact that war has a price and always has. This is about brave men and women who volunteer to serve their country and swear to protect millions of people they will never personally know. It doesn't matter how you personally feel about the military. This is about the selflessness of these brave individuals. Please do not turn this into rhetoric in order to defend your stand on the war. To do so is disrespecting each and every American that has ever fought and died for this country.
My nephew, who was also my godson, was killed in Afganhistan on Feb. 10th, 2009. He was only 22 yrs. old with a young wife and 5 month old son. The Dallas Morning news did an excellent job covering the story.  There were over 300 people at the Addison Airport for his arrival and all the major highways in Dallas were completely shut down while my family, friends and strangers made our way from the church to the Dallas Memorial Cemetary.  Just seeing the amount of support that we received was mind blowing.  Cpl Peter John Courcy deserved every bit of it.  He paid the ultimate price for our country.  Every solder who fights and dies for our country should receive nothing less for his/her sacrifice. If anyone would like to see the news coverage or just view the website put together to honor Peter please go to www.petercourcy.com.  He will be greatly missed.  God Bless Our Troops.
It is good that my American neighbours can now collectively render honours to their fallen soldiers when they come home. I'm one of the Canadians who goes to the bridges. I know how important it has become to honour our fallen heroes and show the family the support of ordinary Canadians. It's sad but important.
I honestly believe that if the American people had witnessed over 4,000 fallen soldiers returning home in caskets, the war in Iraq would be long over by now.
Yay for the ghouls in the media. You got your pictures of coffins. Thanks for your wonderful contribution.
A ver similar ceremony takes place when those soldiers are carried away from the CSH or the place where they lose their lives... After paying my respects to every single one of them in Baghdad, i had to go away and hide so that i could let go of the feelings of emptyness and impotency to change their fate... We as soldiers don't figth this war expecting public recognition... we figth it for our families and ourselves... still, it's nice to see the media recognizing our death, now let's see when they will give proper recognition to our wounded...
This is the best article I have seen from any form of media in years. It should always be about the bravery and sacrifice of great warriors and for the ideals of freedom and liberty. Thanks to all who serve.
It is time that the Nation sees the dignity and respect that is rendered to those who have given their all for this nation. We all should attend funerals in our area for those who are brought home. We need to show the families that we stand by them and show our respect to the fallen.
Thank God our President Barack Obama is not hiding the fact that our fellow citizens are being killed in George Bush's illegal war.  What an insult we have all been enduring in not being able to see the return of our beloved dead who have served and given their lives for our country.  Hiding our dead has been grievous.


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