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Solemn ceremony honors war dead

Posted: Wednesday, April 08, 2009 1:09 PM

DOVER AIR FORCE BASE, Delaware - The widow stepped gently off the small blue bus, dressed all in black.  She was surrounded by family members and several uniformed members of the military. She looked stunned and frail.

She was at Dover Air Force Base to witness the "dignified transfer" of her husband who was killed in Iraq.

Image: Members of the US Army Old Guard serve as the carry team for US Army Specialist Israel Candelaria Mejias from San Lorenzo, Puerto Rico
Paul J. Richards / AFP - Getty Images
Members of the U.S. Army Old Guard carry the remains of Army Specialist Israel Candelaria Mejias shortly after his body was returned to the U.S. from Iraq on Tuesday.

Tuesday evening was just the second time in 18 years that members of the media were allowed  to witness the solemn ritual surrounding the return of remains of fallen U.S. service members; the first time was Sunday evening.

Secretary of Defense Robert Gates ordered the military to lift the ban on media coverage and allow the public to witness the homecoming of America’s war dead, if the family allows it. 

But while the family witnesses the event just a few yards away from the media, the Dover rules strictly prohibit the media from taking any photos of them. Even though we all do our best to avert our eyes and give them their privacy, their presence is palpable and heartbreaking.

VIDEO: Solemn ceremony marks 'sacrifice' of war dead

‘Present Arms’  
On Tuesday evening, Army Spc. Israel Candelaria Mejias’ remains returned in a large metal transfer case, covered with an American flag. 

Mejias’ was killed when a mine detonated near him while serving outside of Baghdad on Sunday.  He was from San Lorenzo, Puerto Rico, and was  28 years old.

An eight-person team carry team marched into the back of the cavernous C-17, where several more soldiers and airman stood at attention.  The carry team paused as a military chaplain said a quiet blessing and then they carefully raised the transfer case. 

The carry team, in this case soldiers from the Army’s Old Guard, slowly marched to a waiting truck.  After the case was placed in the truck, the soldiers backed up.  As the doors closed, the officer presiding over the ceremony gave the command, "Present Arms."

And in perfect unison, the eight soldiers gave a steady salute to honor the fallen soldier.  After a few moments, an officer gave the command, "Order Arms," and their arms went back down to their sides.  As the police escort led the truck away from the flight line, the carry team marched behind the truck.

And with that, the brief ceremony was over.  It lasted less than 15 minutes, but in that short time the reverence and honor bestowed upon the fallen soldier was palpable. 

Mourning for someone they had never met
And then something remarkable happened.  I turned toward my silent colleagues and saw raw emotion from the press.  Reporters were wiping away tears, some turning away from the huddled group. 

Journalists take a lot of criticism for being detached from a story, and unfortunately sometimes that is a necessary defense mechanism when you are surrounded by images of war and stories of suffering.  But in a few brief moments on the frigid flight line at Dover Air Force Base, I saw my colleagues mourn for someone who they had never met and really knew nothing about.   

The story at Dover was supposed to be about the media finally gaining access to the solemn dignified transfers at Dover Air Force Base.  But in a brief moment I finally saw that the story was not about the media at all.  It was about honoring the heroes who sacrifice their lives to serve us all.

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There has been much debate about whether or not media representatives would be allowed to attend the return of our dead, and I have argued for such presence, knowing that the media gives us, as a country, the ability to mourn for those who have given their lives to their duty.  I'm glad to see that the misguided policy of a media ban has been changed.

Michael Sledge, author of Soldier Dead: How We Recover, Identify, Bury, and Honor Our Military Fallen
We cannot honor our fallen soldier's enough. "Taking Chance" was an extremely powerful & moving HBO movie. My hat is off to Kevin Bacon for bringing this story to the screen. My son's fiance's dad is also in the Patriot Guard.Kudos to them as well. Anythign we do to honor our fallen heroes is never going to be enough.  
Thank You for a very touching article that captured the spirit of this solumn event.
I can only hope that seeing these heartbreaking images will help us honor the brave men and women who pay the ultimate sacrifice for all of us to enjoy our freedoms.  
I was disappointed in the procedure.I am a former US Marine and believe strongly tjat any society can be judged by the they care for their dead.An Honor Guard should of had troops in a full dress uniform.A Marine comes home to Full Dress Blues!!You could bet that if some high ranking official was coming back they would have been the full treatment.I thank those troops who gave their lives for us but believe they deserved more than utilities (work uniform).Semper Fi
The reason press were heretofore denied access was the main stream media and many politician's very biased negative political views on the wars
"Taking Chance" was phenominal...I sat and cried for all of our fallen heroes....May they rest in Peace...thank you for your story..
This ceremony wasn't hidden "for dubius reason".  It was out of respect for the families.
Present Arms Rest In Peace
As an active duty Soldier I hope that Iraq also  appreciates what we have done for them.  I have lost good friends in this war.  And to the familes of the fallen I will never forget the sacrafices you have made as well.
Something should also be said for the fine men and women who work at the Dover Port Mortuary. I had the opportunity to work with and get to know some of them recently and I can tell you the level of pride in what they're doing and the professionalism and compassion they display in a very difficult job is nothing short of amazing.  God bless them and our fallen heros.
The actual costs of war should always be seen by those who do not fight. It is appropriate that the family has the final say as to media presence. The populace of our country needs to realize that there is a cost to everything. All give some, some give all.
I too, saw Taking Chance and I had tears from the beginning to the end, I am grateful to all of those who serve and have given their life for me and my country.
To those who who endure the pain and sorrow my condolances. As a Vietnam Vet unfortunately to many checks are cashed at the highest amount." Definition of a Veteran" A Veteran- whether active duty,retired,national guard or reserve- is someone who,at one point in their life ,wrote a blank check made payable to "The United States fo America"for an amount up to and including my life"
 That is an honor,and there are way too many people in this country who no longer understand it. FREEDOM is ours thanks to those who serve.
I too, saw Taking Chance and I had tears from the beginning to the end, I am grateful to all of those who serve and have given their life for me and my country.
Lets honor our soldiers at all times, when we see them at the airports, thank them for serving, when we see them at home in our communities, thank them for serving, when they have finished their tour and are looking for a new job, help find them one.  Let's support them as they did for us. And their families too as they did for ours. Their ultimate sacrafice can not be repaid but witness and dignify we can.
If you have ever carried a casket you cannot imagine the weight. Not the real weight, the real heavy-ness of that responsibilty.
The people at Dover do an honorable task every day-They respect those who gave all for us.
Good on them in their difficult duty.


I am a naturalized citizen and work as a professional civilian for the USARMY corps of Engineers and is very emotional for me to see our young kids during their training at our base, and leaving for the war front. Your report touched me. We need to honor and cherish their heroic and sublime sacrifice, and that of their families. Thank you for touching our lives and making me feel again so proud to be an american citizen. God bless them and their families.
As a mother of 3 U.S. Navy service members. I have a deep heartfelt regard for the families of "our fallen heros"
My son has returned safely from a deployment in Iraq 6 months ago, and is now preparing to leave for Afgahnistan. My daughter is also in the process of preparing for a tour of duty somewhere in the Middle-East. My youngest daughter is on a warship, that at this moment is somewhere in the Meditarrian.
I thank all of you who pray for each & every service member who is proudly serving our nation. Because, I know my children are receiving 'extra' prayers from the grateful people of the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA!
God Bless & watch over our children, husbands & family members who bravely put themselves in harms way. So that all of us on the homefront can live & sleep in PEACE!
An honorable and touching report of one of our fallen, but it makes me wonder how the remains of those I knew in Vietnam were treated upon their return.  We know how the rest of us were treated.
I was in tear reading this article.I think its not only a solemn occasion & the sense of loss that people have, I think it brings out the patriotism in a person--shown by emotions. Its hard to describe.
Thank you President Obama for allowing us to publicly grieve as well as honor those who made the greatest sacrifice for our country.  I recently cried during most of a movie about the preparation process and training of the military escorts used in bringing these heroes home.  

Its about time America started honoring our war dead and truely understand the cost of war.
Thanks Mr Gates.
Just another example of the media making money off of the dead.
Never forget the fallen, these colors will never run. our country will never forget. we will fight for freedom. rest in peace, you will be remembered.
I am a Canadian and I know the painful procession down the Highway Of Heroes, from CFB Trenton to Toronto, is not about us, but about hearts and heroes. The unfailing gathering of Canadians on every bridge across the highway for 150 miles is something we Canadians are proud of. We are grateful that those ordinary people show the love and pride for our dead that the rest of us across Canada would like to do but can't visibily. One mother of a fallen soldier was totally overcome by the crowds along the highway and through Toronto. She tried to find words and couldn't. Finally, through tears, she said, "Thank you for respecting my son."I am so glad the American peope now also have a chance to recognize  and respect their heroes publicly as we do.
This same degree of honor and dignity has been given
to every service member each time our dead are returned home.  Of course, a President who never served a day in any Armed Service of our oountry would not know that.  He is too busy reinventing the wheel and apologizing to terrorists. Democrat party used to help the people. Now they blame others for the actions they took.  helrgeinreintushcwcwountrseeivi
Very touching...My son is stationed at Dover AF Base. He is currently deployed. I and others have been remembering our Fallen Hero's for a while. I guess because we have sons/daughters/spouses/family members serving.
I want to say that all that you are seeing isn't being put on for the media. Our Fallen have always been treated this way. If my son wasn't deployed, he'd be in the police car escorting our Hero from the plane.
I think some of us were afraid to have it in the media because of what happened with our Vietnam Hero's. I don't think that will happen this time.
Thanks to ALL that have served.
I must add my thoughts to those before me whom I agree with. As a vet who served in both Viet Nam and Desert storm eras, I can only say that maybe now folks can understand the fellowship people in the military share with each other. We not only share the trust of guarding each others lives but also the stewardship of guarding the life we have back home. If only the thousands of vets who sit in our VA medical facilites now would know that there is a recognition of the sacrifice our brothers in arms make.
What is being missed here is that the MEDIA was NOT allowed to film or photograph by ORDER of the GOVERNMENT since the first Bush Administration during Desert Storm in 1990.  The media has always wanted to photograph and film our returning Fallen Heroes.  I served 2 tours in RVN. I sit and wonder why we do not see more of what our Service Men and Women have to endure daily in the War Zones. It is especially important that we honor those who have fallen with Grace and Dignity. We as a Nation sent these folks in Harms Way and We as a Nation should be allowed to witness our Fallen Warrior's return. Giving our SUPPORT and GRATITUDE to the Loved Ones that are suffering this grievious loss, and the knowledge that Our Nation mourns with them.
While I fully understand the need for the country to share in the return of our honored fallen, there have been those in the MSM who would have used these images for political purposes. I played TAPS for US Marines that came home from SE Asia 1965-69 (high school years) and I wish the "Freedom Riders" had been around then. But that is why they are here now!! Semper Fi! (It is a two way street!) Thank you for your coverage of this honored return, with the clear understanding that the family gave permission. May no one ever push a family to agree. The reasons in the previous article from Sunday are valid. As a current chaplain, families need less stress, not more.
I am a mother of a soldier in Irag, and all my son keeps saying is "Mom I hope the people in the US know
the sacrifice that we make for them everyday. It's no
longer about the War, it's about these brave men and women who allow us the freedom to view and voice our opionions, Please remember all our heros.
A soldiers mom.
The media should be happy now, they get to show our dead coming back from Iraq. Such a great site isn't it, seeing a young american man coming home in a casket. If you journalist are so interested in seeing the death of an American soilder, then why don't you chicken cluck pissants join the military yourselves. Then your stupid fetish will surely get your feel of it. Its sad. Leave my brothers alone.  
As an old army Sgt. I had tears as I read your article
A military coffin carries all of us.
A program on Fox News ridiculed the Canadian army and dishonoured our dead recently. Yet, at the ramp ceremony in Kandahar, when Canadian fallen soldiers are put aboard a Hercules plane for home, American soldiers line up along the runway and salute the casket as it passes by. I wonder what those American soldiers would say about the totally unacceptable behaviour of members of the Fox News show. Do the comedians' know Canadian soldiers (three regiments, six months at a time) have been there for seven years, with two to go? Yes, they need a break. Our soldiers are also serving now in more than 20 other countries as Peacekeepers. Our's is a small army with a proud history. American forces know that. The Canadian army deserves respect. Our dead deserve respect just as your's do. Why are the 'comedians' still on the air?
Yesterday, now, and evermore feel and practice the deepest respect for those who serve our Nation in life and in death.  Simultaneously, never upon ever trust the media.
I agree with Mr. Smith. The remains should be greeted by an honor guard in dress uniform. Easy enough to do, and a trivial inconvenience to show appropriate respect.
The story should never be about the media.  The media are simply intermediaries.  Thank you for realizing this in this story, and thank you Secretary Gates for lifting the ban.  It's time we honored the sacrifices of our volunteer soldiers publicly and as a nation.
I am saddened by this exploitation of our fallen warrior.  They all deswee much more respect than this.
Well said, and well done by Secretary Gates at overturning the decision to hide this solemn first stop of returning heroes on the soil they pledged to defend.    
I believe now  that the ban has been lifted we are now Honoring our FALLEN HEROES . They are now coming home in the open PROUD not silently in shame. I feel the pain also when I see the honor guard  carry the casketoff the plane, but we need to see and feel the large sacrifice that has BEEN GIVEN BY EACH FALLEN HERO.God Bless them and may their families find peace.
what is gates thinking? the families don't need our shallow and insignificant well wishes and now legalized morbid voyerism. Pres. Obama and gates will live to regret this invasion of privacy.

how sick to you have to be to WANT to see the funeral rights when you are not invited and are nothing more than a grief chaser? the movie Taking Change was a docupic about the rigts and dignities military KIA's receive from their military equals.

and shame on you who film and then comment on things your or the nosey nation business.
As the father of one of the fallen from Iraq I would like to thank the troops at Dover and at all locations where our  family members come to. I can't think of a harder job that has tobe dopne.
 As for the press I have seen the times when they were very respectfull and other times when they should have been banned from the area or stood against a wall.
We should point out the fact that a family is given the choice whether to allow media access.  This is fitting.  When the ban was in place, the families had no choice.  We want to respect the decision of each family who is faced with such a sacrifice.
As a native Delawarean I frequently ride by the Air Force Base and hear the C-5's as they take off and land.  Over the last 18 years many of us have lost sight of what valuable cargo some of those planes are carrying.  This article reminds us of those who gave everything for their country and that they should be honored by all of us.  It seems that the men and women of Dover Air Force Base have always made the effort to recognize their fallen comrades-it's about time all Americans did the same.
Much respect for those who died fighting for their country. I don't think there's a more honorable way/honorable reason to die than fighting for your country. Exception for martyrdom to whom it may apply.

I plan on joining the Royal Marines hopefully this year.

God bless the coalition troops.
Where was the escort?  The fallen never, ever, travel without an escort.  My experience is that the escort is always in very close proximity to the fallen if possible.
Bob Smith, how true. For two years I carried the weight at Fort Sam Houston and cemetaries throughout south Texas when in the Air Force. We were in our dress blues and proud. I was a little surprised to see the soldiers in their utes. The public probably should see a perfect ceremony such as we gave to the fallen. Eight men holding our flag firmly over the casket while it is perfectly folded. Riflemen some yards away then firing. Then the cries and tears from family and presentation of our flag. God it was awful for us.
As a former MARINE!! SEMPER FI!!!!!!!!
If you've ever ran a Marathon, you notice how many supporters come out to cheer for their family and friends. Not having one out there for you while running can make you feel left out. Thank God we now have the whole nation watching our brothers and sisters-at-arms complete the ultimate marathon.


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