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Susan Thompson — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:14:41 GMT

beautiful love story.

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Y. at Seattle, WA — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:23:12 GMT

What a touching story - thank you for telling it.

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Barb Winston, Amarillo, Texas — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:32:15 GMT

This woman is a very devoted wife. She has strength that we could only pray to have in her place. I am amazed by this story and her life. She had to have faith and so much love from this man that it has sustained her all these year. I am truly glad that we have had men like her husband to fight for what he believed. May she now have peace in her life.

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Darlene Khan — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:32:45 GMT

I am happyshe was able to finally bring her husband
home. As the wife of a Viet Nam veteran, I know how
I would feel if he were the one that was missing in
action.
God Bless Mrs. Scharf and God Bless her husband, Col.
Charles Scharf for his service to his country.

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cin, florida — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:36:50 GMT

I think this was a wonderful story. We forgot those
who served us. My thoughts are with these families.
This showed a trus love and our country bringing home its own.

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Les S — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:39:21 GMT

Welcome home Col. Scharf. Your service is appreciated, your sacrifice not forgotten.
Our condolences to Patricia in the loss of her husband and daughter.
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Also appreciation and thanks to the great people who work at JPAC in Hawaii. The work they do is nothing short of incredible. We are the only nation on this planet continuing to search for all our missing heroes, from all conflicts. All gave some, some gave all, in service to Freedom.

Les/Aleida
USA-1971/72-78

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Lenora Lafky, Prineville, OR — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:41:10 GMT

This story, like so many, is heart wrenching. My Uncle, a Platoon Sgt. was injured on Saipan, died 2 days later from burns and was buried at sea. He had been married only six months to a woman from New Zealand. Over the years, my Mother lost track of "Pat", and I assumed she would have remarried. Now, three years too late, I discovered I probably could have found her as she never remarried.

There is nothing greater that true love.

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S. Cooper — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:42:44 GMT

I cried just reading this short article. I hope they make a movie.

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p cardella — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:54:16 GMT

I'm at a loss for words. This story is so touching. It's another reminder of the great suffering so many military men and women and their loved ones go through. We as a people should never take that for granted.

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Yolanda Wright, Ft Drum, New York — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 18:57:11 GMT

Wonderful story "Thank you" for sharing this story. It would make a great movie.

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Jack Inkoff, Fort Meyers, Fla. — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:00:05 GMT

Tis amazzzing. I love it to no end.

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Jan NewOrleans, LA — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:01:41 GMT

How sad, to lose both her husband and unborn child, and never to remarry. There are not many women like that, that marry one man, and remain devoted to him.
I wish her well, and hope she has some close friends so that she is not totally alone.

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Charles Palmer, Port Orchard, WA — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:11:25 GMT

The husband of but one wife and the wife of but one husband. That is the way our God intended it to be. But there is sin in this world and not all things things are as they should be. God bless them both for loving each other the way that they have. They are a blessing to all believers.

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NANCY — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:17:59 GMT

I JUST RECENTLY LOST MY DAD AND HUSBAND. THEY DIED WITHIN 4 DAYS OF EACH OTHER. JUNE 29TH AND JULY 3RD. MY DAD WAS BURIED THE SAME DAY MY HUSBAND DIED. I LIVE IN FLORIDA AND MY DAD LIVES IN MICHIGAN. I COULDN'T GO HOME FOR THE FUNERAL, I WAS TAKING MY HUSBAND OFF OF LIFE SUPPORT IN FLORIDA. i KNOW THE PAIN YOU MUST HAVE FELT, AND THEN LOSING YOUR CHILD ON TOP OF YOUR HUSBAND, I WOULD JUST LIKE TO KNOW, HOW ON EARTH YOU PULLED THRU IT? WHEN READING THE ARTICLE, I JUST CRIED REAL HARD. GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

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John Gordon , Cedar Park, Texas — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:22:43 GMT

Patricia, thank you for this story. May God bless you for your faithfulness and a desire to find Col. Chuck Scharf. We often forget the sacrifices our military husbands and wifes give for this country.

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Deborah Lucas, New Mexico — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:23:56 GMT

God bless you, Mrs. Scharf. Your husband made the ultimate sacrifice and I am grateful to him. I am so glad you received closure from this. You are a special lady! God bless you and God bless America and all of the men and women who are fighting for our country!

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mike — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:29:08 GMT

Yes,a movie would be nice,thanks for telling your story

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Fred Calhoun — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:33:44 GMT

It made me cry. I don't think that's bad.

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Bob Price — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:49:11 GMT

Welcome Home, Brother.

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Francis G. Furrie — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:59:30 GMT

God bless America and give us strength to continue to support our country and our military who keeps us free

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Dale Russom — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 19:59:49 GMT

This is very heart wrenching even now. My sympathy goes to Mrs. Schraf. I'm glad they were able to identify his remains and she could have some closure. This could have been me. My husband went to the Army in 1967; one year after we were married. I was blessed in that he was sent to Korea instead of Vietnam. I never knew why he didn't go to Vietnam, but I'm very thankful to the Army for that. So many of our friends lost their lives there. I have seen so many come back whose lives were shattered from being in that war.
May God bless Mrs. Schraf for her sacrifice.

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J LaBorde — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:03:16 GMT

To Pat with love Ialso am 74 there are many vets who gave all for us,Thank youfor sharing this love with us.Story is not right it isjust love God Bless.

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Donald Reynolds, New York — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:05:03 GMT

God bless your love.

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keith barton — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:07:05 GMT

wecome home sir welcome home

a vet

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wkares, Smalltown, Arkansas — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:07:18 GMT

Now that's true "LOVE". Only happens once in a life time. Thanks for sharing. This is a Blessing knowing there is still people in the world with a "HEART".

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Laura, Philadelphia, PA — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:13:32 GMT

Thank you to Mrs. Scharf for sharing your warm and touching story. It makes you remember that real losses in war are not only the brave soldiers that fight in them, but the broken hearts they leave behind.

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Kate, Topeka Kansas — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:30:10 GMT

I hope Mrs. Scharf reads this article with all its added comments. Then she may realize how blessed we all are to have been touched by her memories. And how lucky we are that she has chosen to share this sad yet beautiful tale with us.

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H C, VA — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:40:45 GMT

It's wonderful to hear of American soldiers finally returning home to their loved ones. I have an aunt whose brother went MIA in Korea and has never been found. She has given a DNA sample to the labs with the hope that some day her brother can be found and brought home, even if it is after her death.

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Gary Gable, Nolensville, Tn. — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:43:23 GMT

These people are the hero's that have made this such a great country. I hope the day never comes when we forget those who have served when their country called!

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W. Butler — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:51:40 GMT

Awesome, that is incredible love. Thank you for sharing your life with us and for the man who gave his life for us and HIS country!! Patricia you are truly a great woman with a love that lives beyond death Thank you for sharing it with us!!!

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John D. Stack Sr. — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:51:56 GMT

My Aunt, and her boyfriend came over for dinner when I was just 5. He was leaveing the next day for the Army Air Core. He became a gunner on a B-29, A year into the War his plane was shot down and his body never recovered till 1946. She too never married. She loved him so much there was never anyone that could take his place. They are buried together in Elyria, Ohio So many sad stories but so much love. We don't see that much these days.

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linda starr needles ca. — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:57:45 GMT

This story from the part where she finds out he is lost in action just tears at my heart, and then toward the end where we find out her only child also died, alot to take in. Please accept my deepest sympathy Linda Starr

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linda starr needles ca. — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 20:59:12 GMT

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Traci Freeman — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:06:45 GMT

What a lucky man he was to have you in his life.

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Margaret Pascuzzo, Quesnel, B.C. Canada — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:07:00 GMT

A touching story even to your neighbours way up in Canada. God Bless Col. Scharf as he returns to the country for which he fought so gallantly but, most of all, bless him as he returns to his loving and devoted wife.

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donna fort worth tx — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:18:46 GMT

i agree with s.copper i hope they make a movie it was so beautifull to read

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Karen, Ga — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:22:39 GMT

Very bittersweet. Love can stand the test of time. Wouldn't it be nice if we were all so lucky to find a love that would bind us until we reach the other side and meet again.

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Kari Reilly, Charlotte, NC — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:42:40 GMT

What a beautiful love story. How sweet that she has her beloved husband back with her and that she loved him all those years. This is better than "The Notebook" or any other "love story" because it is so real... To never remarry... Just loving her husband across all those decades is so touching and beautiful. What a lovely couple- a brave and courageous man and a devoted and inspirational woman. She is amazing to me and the love they shared makes a beautiful story.

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Clay Fossee Dallas. Texas — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:44:36 GMT

God bless you chuck and welcome home.

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Steve Cantonwine, Cedar City, Utah — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:48:23 GMT

I am a two tour Vietnam veteran. Welcome home Col. Scharf. The life of Patricia, and her love and dedication validates my feelings that being the spouse of a veteran is, at times, even harder than that of the vet. Much admiration and respect to you Patricia.

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J. Ortiz, Pequannock, NJ — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 21:54:12 GMT

Patricia, this is what I call true love. I thank you for sharing this with us. He was such a handsome young man. I am so happy that he was finally brought home where he belongs, with you. I'm sorry for the loss of your beloved husband and daughter.. I salute your charming husband for giving his life for us.
GOD BLESS

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Terry Davis, Amarillo,Texas — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 22:04:10 GMT

Mrs. Scharf,
May God bless you and give you peace. Thank you for the love story of perseverence, determination and faith. So many loved ones were lost and never found thru so many wars and they will never have closure as you were able to have. I'm glad we have discovered DNA as it has solved many stories of different types.
Iwish you peace and hapiness the rest of your days and may you be blessed.

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Jim Holt, HC30 Box 73A, Pelsor Ar. 72856 — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 22:06:55 GMT

What a beautiful story. If a person finds either a friend or a love that lasts a lifetime, there could be no greater treasure. To have had both and to have kept your love alive for all those years, what a beautiful lady you are. What a lucky man he was. We all spend a lifetime searching for such a love.

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Chuck Steen, Colorado Springs, CO — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 22:25:10 GMT

Thanks to Col. and Mrs. Scharf - both truly great Americans.

And thank you for printing this great story.

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Richard Walton — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 22:55:04 GMT

Sometimes words are just so inadequate to express our feelings. Thank you both for your sacrifice. We will never forget you.

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Shirley Ragland, Wichita, KS. — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 23:11:03 GMT

This was so beautiful that I cried. My husband was a marine in Vietnam during this exact time. Luckily, he made it home. God Bless both of them!

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CT St. Matthews, SC — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 23:30:13 GMT

And I am proud to be an American
And I wont forget the men who died
Who gave that right to me

I salute you Charles J. Scharf and your family.

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Homero, Tucson, Az. — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 23:35:34 GMT

Thank you sir, for your service and sacrifice...welcome home.

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Theresa Phillips — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 23:38:13 GMT

This story brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for sharing it with the world.

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BethD — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 23:39:24 GMT

Sweet story with a sweet ending. Thanks for bringing it to us.
My heart goes out to Patricia Scharf in that she lost her true love so soon; but I am glad that she was able to bring him home and put herself at rest.
God Bless You and the Colonel for your sacrifices.

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Patricia Fay 4 Glenridge Parkway Montclair, N.J. — Mon, 11 Aug 2008 23:56:51 GMT

This is a very touching story. My heart jumped out to Patricia when I read how she loves to go to the cemetary to be with Chuck. I knew just what she meant and just how she felt when she said that she loved being there because she knew where Chuck was - not in the mud somewhere, not lost forever. My daughter Marlis, just three and a half years old, was kidnapped and murdered in Germany. She was missing for a month. I have always been so grateful to the person who found her body - even though it meant that all my hopes were dashed. At least I knew that she was found - not somewhere out in the mud, not lost forever. For this reason, I, too, loved visiting her grave. Even though I could not hold her, I knew she was found and in my heart forever. Patricia F.

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Lani — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 00:05:36 GMT

Thank you for this beautiful love story. There's nothing greater and more beautiful than true love. Truely inspiring and touching.

Welcome home, Colonel Charles J. Scharf. God bless you and may you find peace. Thank you for all your services to this country. Patricia, you are one beautiful, strong individual. God bless you. May you find peace and eternal happiness.

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Richard M Dillard, MSgt USAF Ret. VietNam Vet. — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 00:06:32 GMT

When I read stories like this it gives me hope that maybe some day we will be able to identify and bring home 99% of the POW/MIA's. God bless those that are still looking.

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Joe Fordham, Saint Leonard, Maryland — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 00:40:04 GMT

Thanks to the guys from JPAC who excavate faraway crash sites and battlefields in order to bring our guys home. It is a great credit to our country that we never forget those who made the ultimate sacrifice for our freedoms.

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James T. "Sargent Jim" Avard — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 00:58:34 GMT

Welcome Home at long last. As a 2 tour Vietnam Veteran US Army a special salute to Colonel Charles J. Scharf and all the pilots who flew cover for us and made our lot safer. They were and are truly those "Amazing Young Men and Their Flying Machines!" Thank You Patricia for sharing your story of Love and Devotion. I recently attended the funeral of LTJG Donald Wolfe Navel Aviator in Harden Montana who took 40 years to come home from Vietnam but home he is as well.

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Rich Rodriquez, Retired Santa Clara PD, Sunnyvale, CA — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 01:07:58 GMT

God Bless you Colonel Scharf and welcome home. We are humbled by your sacrifice. You gave your life so that we in America could continue our way of life. Shame on us that we have not done a better job with the ideals for which you gave your life. Mrs. Scharf, words alone cannot express the extent to which you honor your husband with your love and devotion. Whomever TIME MAGAZINE selects as their Person of the Year - you are mine!

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Joyce Howe — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 01:08:26 GMT

Like all previous letters & thoughts on this blog, I, too, feel great dismay over this happening. Who ever said women aren't strong can now eat their words. My husband entered the hosp. on Christmas Day, 2005. He died 2 1/2 days later. Not a good way to spend the holidays but I continue to decorate the house, etc. because I know that's what he'd want me to do. We'd have been married 50 yr. in January. I know how much Mrs. Scharf misses Chuck to this day. Keep smiling anyway! They're watching us from above.

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H, Howe/Ex-Lt, USA. North Dakota — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 01:20:54 GMT

A beautiful, sad story that evokes all the "could have beens" for this couple..tragic waste because like our current, mad, war we went in because we were lied to and failed to understand the nature and extent of the lies. So many lives - here and there - were disrupted and wasted for something so pointless. May God, in the future, protect us from arrogant, stupid Presidents and other leaders - pray that we are not still writing stories like this in 50 years.
Apologies on behalf of my country to Mrs Scharf.

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Don Rogers — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 01:52:58 GMT

I cried when I read this and thought what a great love story.God Bless America and the soldiers who have made it great.WELCOME HOME CHUCK . Rest in peace

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Steffanie, Georgiia — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 02:00:24 GMT

Welcome Home Colonel Scharf. The sacrifice that you and your wife made is deeply appreciated. What a beautiful love story.

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FW,Greencastle,Pa — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 02:17:48 GMT

We need to thank our Heavenly Father for these fine men and women who gave their all,so that we may reflect upon their service and always remember that they went for us!Woe to anyone who would negatively comment on such a sacrifice.

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Barbara Ernst, Bloomington, MN — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 02:24:49 GMT

I too, lost the love of my life in Vietnam. Marine PFC Michael James O'Neill was killed in Thua Thien South Vietnam, on August 18, 1968. I pray for him every night, I cry for him often and I miss him every day.
Thank You Mrs. Scharf for sharing this beautiful story. And Thank You Col. Scharf for you service and ultimate sacrifice for our country. God Bless you both.

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A Vietnamese Air Force Pilot (Ret.) in Louisville, KY — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 02:47:47 GMT

Thank you for your service and sacrifice, colonel; and thank Pat for the really true love! What a beautiful love story!!

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Roy Cruz, SSG United States Army Ret. — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 02:54:53 GMT

Welcome home Sir, no words can discribe the hardship from being in vietnam and away from your love one. And to you Patricia, your devotion to your husband is beyond words itself. I THANK YOU FOR THE SERVICE AND SACRIFICE SIR! May both of you find peace.

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Diane Jean, Alvarado,Texas — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 02:55:31 GMT

What over powering joy and sorrow you must have felt, when the DNA matched. His love through those letters brought him back home to you. At last he's home. My heart and prayers go out to you.

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skip dunlavey kingston nh — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 03:10:22 GMT

Welcome home Colonel,Welcome home sir

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Rick A Hyatt, Saratoga, Wy — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 03:58:14 GMT

Not to worry.
There will ALWAYS be that "Militia," that hard-core of us MEN that will see the Flag and all that it stands for get carried forwards.
Obviously, this article proves that.
It's nothing new. It's something very traditional.

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Bill, Richmond, IN — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 04:13:47 GMT

Most pleased Colonel Scharf finally made it home, no man of honor should be left in a foreign land, may he find eternal rest for his sacrifice.

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Kathy Sweet, Earlville, NY — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 04:24:58 GMT

What a beautiful story.
May she find peace now she knows where he is.
God bless them both and isn't technology wonderful !

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Bobi — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 04:37:37 GMT

This brought tears to my eyes. What a special story that deserves to be told.

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fmartin — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 04:47:24 GMT

amen, he has finally come home

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Penny Yannayon Rancho Cucamonga CA — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 04:47:49 GMT

Welcome home Colonel Charles J. Scharf. Mrs. Scharf you are more than a devoted wife you are an inspirational woman. Sometimes you wonder why things are brought your way and today by reading your story, I believe it was GOD telling me his devotion to us gives us the strength to go forward. Thank you for sharing you story and God Bless you, your husband and your daughter.

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Neal Gillingham, Carrollton, Illinois — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 04:50:18 GMT

Having served during World War Two and the Korean War, I am ever grateful for military that has came after us to protect this great country. Welcome home, Col. Scharf, and God bless the faithful Patricia.

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FD, China — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 05:08:58 GMT

Dear Patricia Fay I'm so sorry for your loss too. I hope your child finds you again in her next life, perhaps you guys can be the best of pals. Ancient Chinese believe purpose of life is to mature into divine, so if we did not do it in one life, we incarnate again and again and again until we grow enough in soul to move into heaven and join, become the same as gods and goddesses. So I also believe that this couple in the story will be together and happy in their next life :) All would be at peace someday when no one owe others in heart, and one have to pay off all emotional debt to ascend into heaven burdenlessly, to become free of pain and sadness. I guess Heaven feel like our childhood.
Love like her is rare nowadays, peoples kept telling others to "move on, have fun" etc.......I dunno does this mean senseless fun even if our hearts mourning for the one before and also lust flying all over in the air?

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Ruby, Ashcamp,KY — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 05:14:35 GMT

Patricia, our men & women in the armed services are true heroes... then as well as now... and you, Ma'm are a one in a million lady! My kind of hero! I am also married to a Viet Nam era veteran...

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FAZ — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 05:24:46 GMT

very emotional and touching as a humane story ,on the other hand how much this man killed and how hearts he has broken ,don't gaze only on the mirror some time try to gaze on other different ethnic creatures having same hearts like you .!!!

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L Dennis aberdeen wa — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 05:31:06 GMT

i find myself still in tears at the story of this wonderful lady. for she is truly a lady devoted strong and apparently processing a heart of gold. i shall forever be inspired by her and hope one day i can look back on my life and know with out any fraction of a doubt. that i was even a tenth of the lady she is. and though i've had equally strong and devoted women in my life to inspire me i think her story of truest love and loyalty shall forever be a part of me now.just as my grandmothers taking in a foundling (my father)and staying strong despite her husband hanging himself in their home will forever be with me even if it is only in my memories.

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Jerry Lee, Lake Forest, Ca — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 05:34:30 GMT

This is a good example why America is the best. We should be proud of our country. God Bless the men and women, and the products we make. Let's all try to keep our country strong and take care of our people.

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Jim Aarestad, Albuquerque, NM — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 05:48:02 GMT

Wow! That must have been SOME spit, huh? Glad it showed a match and all worked out so well. Beautiful story. And I love the beautiful spirit shown in all of your responses; evidence of the warmth, softness, and goodness of the American people.

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Alim- Freetown — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 05:49:15 GMT

This is truly never ending and an undying love.its difficult seeing that these days.

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Tue, 12 Aug 2008 06:17:36 GMT

She truly is a Fighter Pilot's Wife!

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ROBB SARO, LAS VEGAS, NV — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 06:39:01 GMT

PATRICIA, WE AMERICAN VETS (L O V E Y O U)
ROBB SARO, A KOREAN VET

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Moses, San Jose, CA — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 07:49:41 GMT

I am currently serving in the Air Force. I salute Col. Scharf and his wife. They are the symbol of what makes our country so great. I often thing about what would happen if this were to happen to me and what my wife would do. I know that she would be like this faithful wife. We have five beautiful children which will keep her busy and would help her all her life. I pray that would not have to happen but I know that there is a call to defend our freedoms and I am there to answer that call.

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Matt Hempel — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 09:12:25 GMT

My wife and I know Patrica Scharf personally. We were so gratified when she told us Chuck had been postively identified after all these years... some closure finally for one of the most kind, authentic and classiest women we've ever known. Thank you Patricia for sharing your bittersweet story with the world... it will provide hope for many people. God bless you.

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Eleonora Godwin — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 09:14:33 GMT

Very touching story. I honor my grandfather, who served in the World War 1, every year on November 11. I will certainly remember Colonel Charles J. Scharf and his wife on this day. God Bless them both.

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Bohdan Szejner, Bonn Germany — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 10:36:56 GMT

When an American citizen learns that America does evil there is great sense of bereavement. A few days ago I had the opportunity to experience first hand, how the American consulates, probably instructed by the State Department, effectively seek attrition of American disabled people unable to afford health insurance abroad, many of them U.S. veterans. They do it surreptitiously, so their evil cannot be proven, except perhaps by Congressional hearings. They do it by surrounding the consular officials with locals, instructed to tell all those asking for help, "drop dead - there is no help." They may use different words, but their message is crystal clear: "drop dead"! Many veterans die in this way throughout the world and it is a shame of monumental proportions, and a black spot on the American conscience! So, when I read this edifying article, tears came to my eyes. There still are people in America who have heart for the veterans! There are still people who believe in America. But then people whom we elect to do evil I mentioned must never be elected again!

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frances Billings MT — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 10:57:04 GMT

What a beautiful love story! Seriously brought tears when I read it. The world could use more people like the two of them!!!

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Gerald Wingate Marietta, GA — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 11:32:29 GMT

Welcome Home Col. Scharf.
Gerald Wingate
SSG GaSDF

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RBoulter, San Angelo, Tx. 76904 — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 12:32:01 GMT

It makes me so proud to know that there are still service men and woman who believe in the great amrican dream. Your love is an afirmation of true love. NO one gave so much as you and others who continue to wait for that faithfull day when their own loved onues will be reunited in this world or the next. Your Husband anud daughter wait for you at heavens gate! God Bless.

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Wayland Crisp Chatsworth, Ga — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 13:01:44 GMT

Thank You to all those who gave there lives for our freedom, and thank you for sharing that story with us.
welcome home

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BTV, Lusby, Maryland (AME1 AW RET) — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 13:08:58 GMT

"Attention on Deck" an American Service Man has returned "Hand Salute" "Ready too". A heart warming and touching article recounting the love and sacrifice our Military family members make for their loved ones in the service of our country. Col. Scharf paid the ultimate price for our freedom "HIS LIFE" in the defense of our grear nation. Mrs. Scharf stood by her husband (believing he was still alive); 41 years had past and she stood by her husband, that's devotion and love we don't see today. Attention on Deck! Hand Salute! Ready too, An American Service members wife has laid to rest her husband an American hero, welcome home Col. Scharf.

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Sheldon Roth Omaha, NE — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 13:15:13 GMT

Thank you, Mrs. Scharf for sharing this story.

THANK YOU COLONEL SCHARF, for giving your all to our country. May God richly bless Mrs. Scharf!

Tears came to my eyes while reading this story. I never had the chance to serve my country but I saluted Colonel Scharf out of respect for him and his ultimate sacrifice!

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H. B. Kentucky — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 13:15:50 GMT

This was a very inspirational story, about the beauty that LOVE is supposed to be. I am at a loss of words at the pain that I am sure this woman has endured throughout her adult life, however she is not dwelling on the saddness of it, she is happy because he is home and now, after 41 years she can go and see him and sit beside his grave. I am honored to just read a story about a woman whose love is that strong, something all of us should strive for.
Thank you Chuck, for giving the ultimate sacrifice so that I can have the freedoms that I have. Its so sad that you had to lose your life, but I am glad that you are home.

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Susan Camoroda, Chantilly, VA — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 13:51:00 GMT

Thank you for continuing to tell this story, one that everyone needs to hear. As all have said before me, there are so many elements in it that shout of all that we hold dear: patriotism, love, honor, sacrifice, devotion....I could go on.
I met Patricia my first day here working at the Pentagon in January 2002....she struck up a conversation with me and we were 'fast friends' ever since. Patricia worked in the jewelry store at the Pentagon for a number of years and just recently retired, but I would try to find time during my day at every opportunity I had to walk by and wave, get a big Patricia hug and that wonderful, happy smile of hers....it would make my day. She is a generous woman, giving of her time and self to promote those that helped her to find her husband again and to remind us all that there is always hope, always faith, and always love. I agree...this story should be made into a movie with Patricia as the star playing herself...no one else could do her justice. Thank you Patricia for letting me into your life and sharing you and your story with me. Miss you around here.

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Judy, Stonington,CT — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 14:00:54 GMT

It is always a 'good day' when one more soldier comes off the MIA list. May the Col now rest in peace.
It was 1998 when I finally removed and placed in the grave of its owner, the POW/MIA bracelet I had been wearing since 1970. Some answers take a long,long time.
Pray for Peace and Strength.

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Gretchen Smith, Davidson, NC — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 14:21:14 GMT

What devotion on her part - a true love she knew. I, too, wept when reading this. Someday I would love to meet her - a beautiful story.

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Harley — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 14:44:28 GMT

I am 32 years old and this story made me cry, incredible. What a wonderful story (even if it made me feel like a big baby).

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Shirly Peer, Johnson City, TN — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 14:47:13 GMT

God Bless You and Your husband for the ultimate sacrifice.

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Ashvin Kumar, Dubai, UAE — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 14:59:16 GMT

Even for an Indian who has never been to the US, and for whom the Vietnam war has been confined to history books, this story was touching enough to bring tears. What a strong lady she is, truly a woman of substance, and what a lucky man he was. In her case, let's hope that the old saying comes true 'in your next life may you be re-born a woman, because you are too valuable to be wasted as a man' :-)

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Barb Baumgartner, Seattle Wa — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 15:16:38 GMT

God bless the wives and families of all our military. It is because of omen like Mrs Scharf,that our men are so strong and manage to endure.
Patricia your love is everlasting.

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Debb S — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 15:26:31 GMT

Wonderful story, faith, hope, love threw God! If a person finds either a friend or a love that lasts a lifetime, there could be no greater treasure, other then the love of God!

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George King, Monroe, La. — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 15:28:40 GMT

Touching story. Such love and devotion. As an ex navy flier, I have to believe that Col Scharf is still up there flying, loving, and attending to the duty that he held so sacred. That spirit never dies. It is the spirit of the American Fighting Man.

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D. Burns, Bellingham, Wash. — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 15:43:29 GMT

In this day and age, it is so refreshing to hear about true love. Love, tender and sweet like this, is a thing you only see in the movies. God bless you and welcome home Brother.

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Ginny Hineline, Hillsdale, MI — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 15:44:47 GMT

I married my husband in 1965 and he went to Vietnam as a Marine from 12/66 until 1/68. My greatest fear was that he would become missing in action. Hy heart hurts for Mrs. Scharf. Her husband was a handsome man and loved her very much. They will be together again in heaven.

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Bill Gillespie — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 16:25:10 GMT

I, too, salute you, Chuck.

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Samantha Starr — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 16:31:15 GMT

This one truly tugs at your heart! What devotion! These two people had to be soulmates. They'll be together in heaven...

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LB, Iowa — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 16:34:24 GMT

We forget the moments, the days, the weeks, the years of pain and anguish and loneliness in the middle of a beautiful story. May God richly bless you Patricia, for your faithfulness and sacrifice!

And to have lost your daughter, too! Those of us who have never lost a baby forget how much pain surrounds the words "miscarriage" and "stillborn". I am so glad you find peace in sitting with him and talking after all these years.

Unfortunately the sacrifices are necessary for our freedom, peace and safety. Let this story help us to reach out and embrace the family members who are worrying, wondering, suffering even at this moment!

We need to get beyond the why's and if's and should's and do what we can to support and encourage those who are giving so much to serve our country! Even to Patricia yet today.

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juules — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 16:51:54 GMT

Thank to Col. Scharf for his service to our country, and to his wife and family who so dearly gave him to us in service and death.

I am so touched by this story, what love and dedication to both family and country.

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Jeff Skinner, Tucson, AZ — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:03:10 GMT

We at www.theheroflag.com join a grateful nation in honoring your sacrifice and our thoughts and prayers are with this fallen hero.

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Lisa — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:19:08 GMT

That is the most beautiful story I have ever read. This young man, and so many others are the reason we have our freedom. Lets never forget that. God Bless this brave man and his wife too. I can not even imagine being his wife, never really knowing if he was alive or dead. The pain she went through is heartbreaking. Thank God she was able to bring him home at last. She is what love means. She is a true hero also, just as he is. And one day they will be together again, in Heaven. Thank you Chuck, for our freedom. We wont forget.

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Steven-Pensacola, FL — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:27:18 GMT

A truly wonderful heart-wrenching love story...It made a 50-something man like me weep. Peace be with you.

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jam, parrish, fl — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:38:43 GMT

Welcome home Col Scharf, welcome home. Thank you Mrs. Scharf for your sacrifice as well. I am happy that you were able to bring your Colonel home to rest. God Bless you both and your love always.

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Ric In Ct — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:39:49 GMT

WOW!!!...are there any more wonderful women like Pat left??? What a great story....her husband and daughter will see her someday and they will be a family forever and ever....God Bless

A divorced Vietnam Vet

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Prudence Lay, Sisters, Oregon — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 17:55:23 GMT

Welcome Home to a brave man who gave his all and God's richest blessings on the wife who gave her all. Thank God true love still exists in our world. It gives me hope.

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ducksinthewind, Mesa — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 18:07:49 GMT

Thank you for telling your story, and please know that you are never all alone: the Viet Nam generation paid dearly, and continues to sacrifice in memory, loss, continuing mental and health challenges, effects on families, children and diminished expectation.

The vet who said maybe it was tougher on wives and families was being most kind. The ultimate price was exacted from good men who died and good men who lived; the horror, the loss of self, and a lifetime of coping with war, is never paid in full. They just keep giving and giving.

My husband constantly amazes me, and although he has my deepest gratitude, he and I know I can never truly understand. What many wives and mothers share with Patricia should be embraced and understood as continuing heroism of Americans who really do give all. We know this world is the Lord's, we know our time here is brief as we serve, comfort and defend.

Our children are giving their lives again in foreign lands, and knowing all that we do, we support them. I thank our service men and women. I thank their families. May God bless.

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Former Marine Wife — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 18:07:52 GMT

My husband was in the Marines for nine years. I always thought that I could handle it if he died, was taken prisoner, or came home disabled - but to just be missing would be unbearable.

Military wives are made of stern stuff. We have to be.

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Kris, Grand Rapids, Michigan — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 18:09:48 GMT

In this day and age where it seems we have lost so much faith in the simple, amazing strength of pure love, I applaud Mrs. Scharf for her life long dedication to her beloved husband. He gave his life for his country, and she gave her life to honor him.
God Bless them, and God Bless America!

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Jon, Baltimore, Maryland — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 18:30:04 GMT

Wow, my heart goes out to you Mrs. Angus. I sereved in the Marines and I know what it means not to bring one of your own back home. You have a huge heart to which I look up to. May God Bless you and may your Husband Col. Angus rest in peace knowing that your love for him has never failed... Semper Fi.

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Bob Siebert Bloomington, Illinois — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 18:59:15 GMT

Special people! I was beginning to believe that the "Greatest Generation" had a lock on this kind of love and sacrifice. I'm glad that my generation is finally stepping forward to take their place in history for doing the right thing. There is hope.

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Naval Air Station — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 19:04:01 GMT

Welcome home Col. We of the Naval Air Station in Corpus Christi Salute you Sir and you wife!

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TW Elmhurst, Il. — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 19:49:31 GMT

Welcome Home Colonel. May all of us who left someone there find the closure that Patricia has found. She is
a special lady and makes a person proud of this country
and our military.

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Mrs V.Bridges-Tucson,Arizona — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 19:52:19 GMT

TO MRS.PATRICIA SCHARF AND EVERYONE THAT HAS LEFT A COMMENT.ALL IS SAYING ITS NICE TO HEAR THAT THEIR ARE PEOPLE WHO STILL HAVE A HEART,LOOK AT ALL THE HEARTFELT COMMENTS.THERE ARE PEOPLE WITH A HEART LEFT AND THEIR ALL YOU. GOD BLESS YOU ALL! THANK YOU FATHER FOR EVERYONE AND THE COL. MR.SCHARF. WE LOVE YOU!

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Marlene Dubiel, Warren, Michigan USA — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 19:58:07 GMT

God Bless you and your husband! I'm so glad he was able to be brought home. I too lost a boyfriend who would have been my husband. I had just graduated from high school. He had been my best friend since 7th grade. He volunteered his draft and lied about his age to get into the army. He was killed in Cambodia in June, 1969. I still think about him.

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john, seatle, washing — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 19:58:16 GMT

Nice to hear such stories. But Americans should also fee grieve so as to know how others feel when they loose their loved onces in all these non provocative wars fought by Americans. Oil alone will make Americans to kill Millions and justify it with military might and intelligent lies. We are all humans. To hell with you all.

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Johnny P a Viet Nam Vet — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 19:58:27 GMT

Thank you for sharing your story, Patricia, may God bless you and your lieutenant.

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L Taylor — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 20:07:40 GMT

What a wonderful story of enduring faith and love. Welcome home, Colonel. My thanks to you and Patricia for the examples you are to all of us.

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Dale — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 20:37:09 GMT

Freedom has a high price. Thankfully some men and woman are willing to pay the price. The pilot that made that annoucement sounds like a very decent man who ought to be commended.

Thank you for being willing to go.

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Nadine — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 20:42:59 GMT

Almost brought me to tears. I'm amazed at the loyalty you kept even though he was gone. WOW. If I wasn't at work I would have cried. I'm so sorry for your loss and I just wish you the very best.
GOD BLESS.

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Darlene Mezzetta, Indianapolis, Indiana — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 20:43:28 GMT

OMG how strong and wonderful you are A wonderful,brave husband and a beautiful child. How did you do it. I love you so much for yur promises kept. You truly are a wonderful child of god. God bless...you are the best.

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Rosemary, Valley Stream, NY — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 21:11:11 GMT

What a touching story -what an incredible love.
Welcome home Colonel, we are so thankful for your service, bravery and the sacrifice you both gave for our wonderful country. May God Bless You Always.

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John Keeney 411 waverly lane white oak, georgia 31568 — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 21:40:50 GMT

NOTHING CAN ENDURE MORE THEN THE LOVE IN OUR HEARTS.TIME IS THE SAME AS LOVE, FOREVER.I FEEL IN MY HEART, AFTER READING YOUR STORY, THAT THE TWO OF YOU ARE FOREVER. THANK YOU FOR SHARING THIS WITH US. TRULY YOURS A VIET-NAM VET. JK.

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Lisa, Wylie TX — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 21:42:29 GMT

What a sweet story. Let's not forget to thank all of the people who worked to make DNA testing available so that remains can be positively identified. They have helped many people through their research and progress, and brought closure to many families in pain. Bless you all!

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Gan Mukhopadhyay — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 21:54:49 GMT

Mrs. Scharf:
I cried as I read your storey. What a beautiful love storey. I salute you both - Charles J Scarf and Patricia Scharf.

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frankhorton arkansas — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 22:02:49 GMT

as a vetreran this story touched me. welcome home solder. rest in peace.

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Donna Lisa — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 22:12:56 GMT

Beautiful story. I cried. My mother always told my friends who's mothers had died that she would be their mom. She said their moms would appreciate that. So I will step in and be your daughter. Not to replace her, because that would never happen. But as an addition. I think your daughter would appreciate that. Ironically, I'm a Pilot too. I send you decades and decades worth of love and hugs! And you will be with your family again. You will walk in the sunshine together, forever.

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Sonia, El Monte, Calif. — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 22:42:22 GMT

I am so lucky to have been able to come to the United States and become an American citizen. We live in the best country in the world, maybe not perfect but nevertheless the BEST. These are the stories that make me proud to be an AMERICAN. Welcome home Col.
Scharf. God Bless you and your family.

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Arlene Zier, College Place, WA 99324 — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 23:19:05 GMT

Thank you so very much for this story. There are so many good people in this world at all times. We focus on the not so good individuals. I thank God that all who read about this brave man and woman are blessed. What strength and stedfastness of this lovely woman. Thank you again for making this event
availaable to us.

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JH, Burlington, VT — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 23:31:48 GMT

Dear Mrs. Scharf
Your husband's sacrifice was not lost on you who remained faithful to him. May it not be lost on each one of us as we remain faithful to our country and work for her prosperity.

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Jim, McCook, NE; 2 tour/2 PH Vietnam Vet — Tue, 12 Aug 2008 23:49:28 GMT

And don't forget to thank the flight attendant for her small speech.I am sure that was from the heart also.

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Jill Pehle Killeen Annapolis MD — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 00:01:38 GMT

We should all take time to Thank and remember people such as these each and every day, those who who fought for our freedom and those whp paid the ultimate price for it. God Bless all the military and their amazing families

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Kevin — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 00:03:32 GMT

I salute you Colonel. You pilots kept my young butt from getting shot off on many occassions in the Nam. I am sure you saved hundreds of men like me you never knew. Most of us have lived up to what you gave us.

Semper Fidelis
A Marine Private

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H R E — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 01:01:23 GMT

We must never forget those that died and those who survived in their service to us and to freedom for all.

And thank you to the airline crew that allowed Mrs. Scharf hear the gratitude of strangers who never knew her husband.

We thank all who have served

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Jody, Quebec, Canada — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 01:25:01 GMT

What a touching love story. It made me cry.

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Ursula Warren — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 01:26:23 GMT

This was awesome marriage, we don't have marriages like this anymore.Wow.................what a love!I have been through rough times,but this woman makes me have courage............god bless

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russ reed — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 01:29:25 GMT

Theres no greater american heroes than our people in uniform who face death.
I salute them whenever I see one , anywhere.
Even ones who saw little or no combat, they all deserve our respect. They are all part of a greater whole.
<Salutes> our service people.

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Benny Hayes, Bainbridge, Ga. — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 01:29:54 GMT

As a Electronic Tech on F-4's in Viet Nam in 1965, I have sat here and cried my heart out.

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jalee — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 01:31:39 GMT

As a wife of veteran pilot, I can appreciate this! God Bless! We lost so many so young!

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joyce — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 01:34:39 GMT

What a bittersweet love story. So sad. But she sounded happy to get him back finally and have him close. God bless them both for their sacrifices for the USA.

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Jean Turner; Woodgate, NY — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 02:03:15 GMT

God Bless Her!!! I am a VietNam Vet wife, but because of paperwork glitches, the VA says he never left the states. They treat him for all the illnesses he now has, from Nam, but no $$$$. We live on very little and my blessed family.

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Mike Stapleton, Pittsburg, Kasas — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 02:10:40 GMT

Welcome home Colonel. I salute you.

A Vietnam Vet.

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Lynne, Landover, MD — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 02:11:19 GMT

Do you ever wonder why the President(s) never send there loved ones over to fight. Bush has TWO and he started this. I'd be the first one to send one of my four boys over but it will be a cold day in hell since it's not important enough for Jenna and Barbara!

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Paulette Leachman, Saraland, AL. — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 02:19:59 GMT

It is so heart-warming to know I am not alone in mourning a husband so wonderful that the thought of making another alliance never enters my mind. My husband was not a military man because of health reasons; he tried to enlist, but was unable to do so. I am so happy that Col. Scharf is home at last and that Patricia Scharf chose to share her story. So very poignant and so sweet...there may be hope for America, after all.

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Deborah — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 02:24:04 GMT

Oh my God, You touched my heart. I hope someday you will join you husband. I honor him as I do you and the courage you have had all these years missing him and having no one to lean on. I understand somewhat my dad died young from WWII and my mom missed him so much. I missed him. I am so glad you were able to bring him home.

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DAMIEN DOUGLAS, DUBLIN,IRELAND — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 02:41:56 GMT

WHAT AN INSPIRING STORY OF LOVE, LIFE AND LOSS.ALSO OF PEACE AND ACCEPTANCE OF SACRIFICE AT THE END. IF ONLY WE COULD ALL LOVE EVEN HALF AS MUCH AS MRS SCHARF LOVED AND WAITED FOR HER HUSBAND. THEIR LOVE IS AN INSPIRATION FOR ALL PEOPLES,NOT JUST AMERICANS.

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Dick Taylor Grants Pass, oregon — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 02:46:33 GMT

A truly heartwarming and also sad story. What courage this lady has shown, and what undying love she had for her husband. God bless them all.
She is truly an inspiration

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Molly — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 02:49:35 GMT

I have a lump in my throat. What a wonderful love story with such a bittersweet ending.

God bless both of you.

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Gigi — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 03:23:53 GMT

I would have love to been on that plane that brought home your husband, I am too a proud military wife, thank you for your courage.

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BERNARD J BECKSTEIN — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 03:35:27 GMT

GOD BLESS PATRICIA AND GOD BLESS ALL OF US WHO SERVED THIS WONDERFUL COUNTRY. MAY HE REST IN PEACE. NAVY MACHINERY REPAIRMAN USS DURHAM LKA 114-BERNARD J BECKSTEIN

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LORETTA L — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 03:37:29 GMT

A TRUE STORY THAT BROUGHT TEARS TO MY EYES. IN HIGH SCHOOL DURING VIETNAM THERE WERE A NUMBER OF FELLOW STUDENTS THAT WENT TO WAR AND NEVER RETURNED TO FRIENDS AND FAMILY.

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jim corbet, Vancouver, BC Canada — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 04:01:49 GMT

What a wonderful story of unbroken love for so many years. Thank you for a brief glimpse at a very special couple. I am so glad to be a neighbor of the United States, where people with solid values such as the Scharf's continuously remind me how lucky we are in Canada to share a border with the American people. Thank you for sharing that sad but wonderful news.

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Gail — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 04:06:40 GMT

And she lost her baby, too.

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BARBARA JOHNSON WICHITA FALLS TEXAS — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 04:13:29 GMT

that is a sad story but i'm glad she found closure ,that was true love.

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Ed, Irvine, CA — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 04:26:57 GMT

This history is all the more inspiring because I know Mrs. Sharf must have survived times during these decades of loneliness and perhaps even anxious periods wondering, "why God?" But the victory is hers; Mrs. Sharf, may you be blessed with comfort and counsel through the Holy Spirit, now and always.

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CS Puyallup, WA — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 04:31:18 GMT

What a beautiful story. Patricia, thank you for sharing it with us, and I'm sorry you had to wait so long for word about Chuck. God bless you for the sacrifices of both you and your husband.

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kate shackelford, pineville, la — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 04:44:48 GMT

As I read this story and all the comments it brought tears to my eyes......not just for Patricia and the Colonel, but for so many people today that will never experience the wonder of love letters that you can hold in your hand. With text messaging, cell phones, voicemails, emails, and the like, the experience of holding, reading and touching a letter that someone you love wrote to you is lost. Not only did these letters help her find her love, but they also helped her keep it...may god bless her..

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Denise, alberta canada — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 05:24:43 GMT

You are an inspiration patricia. As a military wife whose husband served overseas, i had so many fears, and i know i could never have been as strong as you!!! I have seen that some people said that they hope they make a movie of your story, and i agree. I think that type of devotion and inspiration should be shared with the world. God Bless you , Patricia. I am happy you and your beloved are together again. Just as it should be! Welcome back home Colonel.

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Julie V., Salem OR — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 05:38:33 GMT

That is the kind of love I wanted when I got married...so rare today, so wonderful still. God bless them all. I can't type more because I'm still crying.

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Maria, Laveen, AZ — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 05:51:03 GMT

Thank you Colonel Scharf and Mrs. Scharf. Words cannot express the appreciation I feel in my heart for your service and sacrafices. May you know you will never be forgotten and I will keep you both in my heart always. Welcome home, Sir. May your souls rest in peace now.

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Gene Lindsey Comanche, Texas — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 06:04:39 GMT

Welcome home Soldier, we have been waiting for you. Job well done.

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Louie, Brazil — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 06:04:54 GMT

God bless you and the very memory of Col Scharf, from another Viet Vet. He is actually in a very nice place awaiting your arrival. You two will meet again, because a love like that is together way past the point of flesh and spirit. God Bless!

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Dee, Honolulu, HI — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 06:19:33 GMT

Thank you Col.Scharf, for your sacrifice, for your life, for our freedom. Thank you Mrs.Scharf, for your impeccable example of true love, dedication, and most of all your strength to continue on. Yours is the type of love that I aspire to find one day, you've given me hope. Once again, Thank you

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Larry Greene, Greenville, SC — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 06:30:41 GMT

"You both were very fortunate to have that deep and enduring "perfect love"---something we all wish for. Thanks for sharing it with us!!

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Shannon, Martinsburg, WV — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 06:50:37 GMT

That was a very emotional and beautiful story. I am very sorry for her lose but at least now she has peace of mind of where her love is now resting. I hope that one day i will be able to find LOVE that true. My god be with her. :)

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Joe Pike — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 07:00:27 GMT

Welcome home hero.

Mrs. Scharf, you are a wonderful woman. Your husband is proud.

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Uma Hedemark, Honolulu — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 07:38:40 GMT

What a heavenly love store, can feel that love which never dies.

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Frank Schultz, Hawaii — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 08:17:11 GMT

God Bless Mrs Scharf for her continued devotion. A love like her's is very rare indeed.
JPAC in Hawaii works dilegently in it's task. They see it as a mission of devotion to bring all home and help in the closure for the families.

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Denise White, Little Rock, AR — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 08:29:37 GMT

I thought this was such a touching story. This made me think of my father who was a Vietnam vet and there were so many times that I knew that when my father came back home from the war, I could see that he would often drift away when no one could see it but me. Mrs. Scharf, you are such an inspiration to not only me but to everyone who read your story of such great and powerful love, that yes, I had a tear or two that ran down my cheeks as I read this, often thinking of what was my father thinking when his mind drifted so far away when he looked longingly out of the bedroom window on some nights. My mother never remarried also when my father passed away in 1988, or has never reconsidered it either. So, Mrs. Scharf, I commend you for sticking to your true love and for all these years of caring about him. I am sorry for your loss of your husband & daughter. Thanks for bringing him back home...back home on AMERICAN soil again. Welcome home, sir, job well done!!

A Desert Storm Vet!

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Linda — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 10:37:45 GMT

Mrs Scharf, thank you for sharing this beautiful love story and thanks to Col Scharf for his sacrifice for our country. He truly gave his all for us, and we do appreciate him and the others that have given their all. May America never forget our heroes who keep us free. You, Mrs Scharf, are a remarkable woman. May God Bless you.

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Dennis La Palme Cocoa, Fl. — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 10:51:38 GMT

People wonder what makes America such a great country! It is citizens like Col. Chuck Sharf and his loving wife Patricia. He made the ultimate sacrifice for his country, and she honored him with her unwavering love. Welcome home Colonel. May God bless you both and the U.S.A.

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B. Phelps Crown Point, In. — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 10:56:00 GMT

Welcome home,from a two tour vet. Mrs. Scharf you are an amazing woman.

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Patti, Deland, FL — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 11:12:30 GMT

This is one of the most touching stories I have ever read...while reading it, tears streamed from my eyes. Thank you Chuck and Welcome Home! Patricia, words cannot describe the love I feel for you and your loss....

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JC Sullivan — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 11:46:01 GMT

It's a story I'd like to see in a television special.

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Tim, Gray, Maine — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 12:01:35 GMT

I, too, cried when I read this, but for different reasons than the rest of you, I'm sure. Some will hate my comments, some will understand. I cried because the vietnam war was a war of deceit and lies by the 'commanders' of both sides. There are declassified documents that prove the Vietcong were actually residents of the South, amongst other lies. This story exemplifies the human cost of war. War should be a last resort, period. Instead, we live in an era that has seen countless 'false flag' events to spark 'patriotism'. Patriotism in this sense is nothing more than burying your head in the sand. I personally knew a fallen soldier in Iraq. He died because of the lies. watch the video "iraq for sale" to learn about 'cost plus' accounting by Halliburton. They charge american taxpayers $45 for a 12 pack of cola manufactured in the middle east!!! They give their golf buddies multi million dollar contracts with no competition. This is nothing but greed, and there will be many more lonely widows who are collecting cans to pay for their retirement, while the cheney's of the world live lavishly. I am so angry, and if you aren't, I only have one question for you: Do you use a snorkel so that you can breathe with your head buried in the sand?

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Norman W. Huot Northh Billerica Massachusetts — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 12:06:02 GMT

How absolutely beautiful...Her love for her husband was and is a powerful inspiration..So much faith could only exist thru a very special love between two persons..I'm please that she was able to bring her loving husband home and give him pease and put herself at rest. God Bless You..

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Jana R, Killeen, Texas — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 12:18:43 GMT

God Bless You, Ma'am. I am a soldier, and a former Army wife, and I can't say that many women have that kind of strength, even knowing their husbands are coming home. No doubt your husband watches over you, and has all these years, from the gates of Heaven. It's women like you that give the rest of us hope. Thank you.

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Ross — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 12:24:02 GMT

Its such a blessing to see people still have a heart these days..........God Bless America

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Ross — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 12:24:33 GMT

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Jeannette Bazzetta, Woodbridge, Virginia — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 12:37:08 GMT

What a sad but beautiful story, that she finally has closure. Memories are something no one can take from us, keep those close to your heart always, and know that your husband and baby girl are looking over you, and waiting for the reunion with them and Our Creator. What a blessing to be so dedicated, her to her husband and him to his country. God Bless Our Men And Women in the military forces

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David Linville, Dayton, Ohio — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 12:46:42 GMT

Semper Fi

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John Catusco, Utah — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 12:54:34 GMT

I'm a 57 year old Marine Vet....that story brought a tear to my eye when I read what happened on the plane. I would love to be there in Heaven when Charles meets her at the gates. Both looking as they did in 1954. Charles holding a baby in his arms and starting life all over again, sharing what they had missed in a mortal life. May God bless.

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Linda B. Phila, PA — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 13:16:12 GMT

How bittersweet and sad; I don't know how I'd survive the loss of my husband and I doubt I could ever be with someone else. Patricia is a brave and strong woman as her husband was too.

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Jean Rhoads, Bloomington, Indiana — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 16:10:02 GMT

Very touching.

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Reba, Chandler, AZ — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 18:36:02 GMT

What a true show of love. I have had many people tell me that it is impossible to love like that, but I never have believed it & Patricia sure proves that it is possible. "Believe & all things are possible"

Thank you Col & Mrs Scharf

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Zebra — Wed, 13 Aug 2008 20:41:17 GMT

This story brought tears to my eyes. I'm glad Mrs. Scharf finally was able to have some closure. God bless both of them. The sacrifices that our warriors' spouses make is often undervalued and unrecognized. I can't imagine the heartache that Mrs. Scharf has gone through all these years. What an amazing woman.

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J. Zahller, Norman, Oklahoma — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 01:46:29 GMT

What a beautiful love story. My hearts breaks and I cried when I read the story. I am a native of Vietnam. I am 72. I married a US Army officer in 1960 and came to America in 1961. He was sent back to Vietnam (his 2nd tour) in 1966 and didn't come home until 1968. I stayed in the US with our 3 young children. For the 18 months he was gone, I lived with fear every day, thank God he came back. He retired in 1972, unfortunately, I lost him to illness almost 3 years ago. We were married for 45 years when he passed away. My condolences to Mrs. Scharf and my gratitude to her and her husband for the ultimate sacrifice they made. Also my thanks to all our servicemen and women. Because of their sacrifices, my children and I we have our freedom. Thank you and God Bless.

Mrs. (widow) H.V.Zahller

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T J Hall Syracuse, New York — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 03:25:55 GMT

We must not forget that his country sent him into another country to contribute to the killing of two million of its citizens. Tragedy for the history of this great country and its warriors.

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Melissa, Fort Carson, Co — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 04:58:25 GMT

Thank you for sharing your story with us, it brought tears to my eyes. It broke my heart to hear that you had also lost a child. You have my upmost respect and graditude. God Bless.

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SCOTT F. HAMILTON - MEADVILLE PENNSYLVANIA — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 11:30:57 GMT

MAY GOD BLESS YOU AND I KNOW HE IS THERE WITH YOU
AT ALL TIMES. THIS MADE ME CRY FOR KNOWING THAT
THE COLONEL IS NOW HOME AND THE HONOR THAT I KNOW MUST BE GIVEN TO THOSE WHO SERVE OUR COUNTRY. I CAN ONLY SAY THANK YOU AND MAY GODS PEACE BE WITH YOU NOW AND ALWAYS. WE MUST NEVER FORGET THOSE WHO HAVE GIVEN SO MUCH TO OUR COUNTRY. THANK YOU COLONEL MAY YOU REST IN PEACE / SAFE AND AT HOME. SCOTT - MEADVILLE, PENNSYLVANA

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COLLEEN SCHIRMER — Thu, 14 Aug 2008 16:46:35 GMT

YOU ARE A WONDERFUL EXAMPLE OF WHAT LOVE IS ALL ABOUT.
ACTIONS SPEAK LOUDER THEN WORDS.
AND YOUR ACTIONS SPEAK LOUD AND CLEAR.
THANK YOU FOR THIS STORY. AND THANK YOU FOR YOUR LOVE OF YOUR HUSBAND. YOU WERE BOTH BLESSED.
GOD BLESS YOU AND KEEP YOU IN ALL OF YOUR WAYS.
IN JESUS LOVE AND GRACE

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Bob Jones, Meredith,NH — Fri, 15 Aug 2008 17:08:19 GMT

"Healing and Closure" are words used but not sure are accurate.

Continue those POW/MIA Vigils. They work !!

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Debbie Rhoden, Jacksonville, FL — Sat, 16 Aug 2008 14:09:58 GMT

Thank you very much for your sacrifice... Lest we forget. This time leave NO one behind.

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Julie Rose, Sanger, CA — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 00:21:32 GMT

You are a beautiful soul with inspiration in love that will last forever in both yours and your husbands hearts! Welcome home Colonel Scharf and may you rest in peace! For the Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave, I salute you!

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Louise Lewis, Toms River, NJ — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 01:39:27 GMT

Thank you for sharing your story. I am a military spouse of a Gulf War Veteran & my father-in-law was in Bastogne during the Battle of the Bulge. In fact it was his commander who said "Nuts". My heart goes out to you for your devotion. When you have that much love for a man/woman who serves in the military, it's truly an honor to know that not everyone is against their duty & devotion for this country. Thank you for sharing your most gracious & touching story.

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R. Thornton, Clifton, CO — Sun, 17 Aug 2008 21:58:25 GMT

Welcome home Col. Patricia, you are one galant women. I donot know of anyone in your shoes who would have been as faithful. Grown men aren't suppose to cry, but your store brought tears to my eyes for the love you have for each other.
I lost a couple of good friends in Nam and still think of them to this day.
God bless you.

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tj Levin Bloomfield, NM — Tue, 19 Aug 2008 01:27:01 GMT

Amazing it gave me chills.

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Valerie W. — Thu, 21 Aug 2008 00:13:41 GMT

I was blessed by your story Mrs. Scharf and am so happy that you were able to finally bring your honorable husband home! The love you shared with him and have kept alive for your lifetime in no way compares to the way the world loves today.. How beautiful and pure. God bless you.