Solemn ceremony honors war dead

Sandra Barr, Pleasant Grove, AL — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:10:18 GMT

Thank you. I also saw on a replay of one of the transfers tears on the cheeks of a soldier. I caught myself wanting to stand during the ceremony in my den. This is something that this country has been missing since the war in Iraq started - honoring those who have given their lives. We need never forget the sacrifices of the fallen heroes and their families.

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David Hamel — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:22:49 GMT

From my perspective, it has never been about the media and their lack of access. It has always been symbolic of the public's lack of a visible ceremony acknowledging the soldier's final return to the country he or she gave their lives to protect. Without a public ceremony of some sort, it's like saying their life wasn't worth celebrating. Personally, this restriction, coming from our own government, has been a slap in the face to all service members living and dead.

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Don — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:26:26 GMT

Ms. Kube--I spent 23 years in the Army serving this nation. I was touched by your article and thank you for your comments. Now you understand.

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t,montgomery,al — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:26:30 GMT

Amen.

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Reb_A26_3/4Cav25INF RVN 69~70 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:37:46 GMT

Amen...

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Joe Smuckatelli — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:43:15 GMT

I think it's incredible that you can turn on the TV and watch Canadian channels showing not only the return of their dead, but the ramp ceremony overseas and the trip down the "Highway of Hero's". I think we should be like Canada, it should be a national experience, with all of the accompanying tears, pride, and remembrance. Their returning dead are met by thousands of citizens, every overpass on the 150 miles or so are full of those Canadians sending off their soldiers. I have heard it is an incredibly moving, not only for the family of the dead, but the country as well. It's sharing the nations grief, something we should do here!

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Grace Yusckat, Fayetteville, North Carolina — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:45:40 GMT

"I saw my colleagues mourn for someone who they had never met and really knew nothing about."

When you cry for and mourn a fallen soldier (especially one that you didn't know), I believe that you are really mourning all of the soldiers who have given their lives for our freedom. I think that witnessing and really feeling these moments allows us to realize just how much the sacrifices these men and women have made actually mean to us.

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Don Pearce Methuen, MA — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 19:47:31 GMT

It's about time the media recognized the sacrifice that these soldiers and their families make for our freedom! The Patriot Guard Riders have been protecting and Honoring them for about 5 years. (For free) We will continue. NEVER FORGET OUR HEROES

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Henry Monsky Omaha Ne. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:03:13 GMT

Multaply by 4,941 of our young men and women who have returned home the same way.

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Josue, Mililani Hawaii — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:19:22 GMT

This story was very touching and appropriate. It brought tears to my eyes.

thank you

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Northwest — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:20:42 GMT

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Liz, Roanoke, VA — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:27:37 GMT

"Taking Chance" is a great movie, starring Kevin Bacon, that gives the full details of delivering a lost service person home.

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Heather, Bel Air MD — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:31:07 GMT

What a great story - well written and received!!

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Pat — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:31:32 GMT

HBO recently produced a film called "Taking Chance" which covered the solemn and dignified treatment given to America's fallen military personnel. It, too, brought those of us watching to tears - almost from the start of the film. Many of us, the "public", don't really seem to "get" the impact of the war we are fighting in Iraq or Afgahnistan. To my way of thinking, for those of us who don't have to face the reality of the return of the remains of a family's loved one, either the opportunity to experience the ceremony these reporters saw, or the viewing of that film, should be required watching for the Nation as a whole. These fallen heros have paid the price for you and me to be able to live in this country with it's unprecedented level of freedoms. I am humbled by their sacrifice and they have my undying respect and appreciation.

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C, Portland, OR — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:31:53 GMT

Nice to finally see the public recognition our soldiers deserve that's been hidden away from view for so long for dubious reasons.
Hope it helps the living who remain.

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Janese Chicago, Illinois — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:50:47 GMT

God bless these heroes. Seeing these images breaks my heart because these young men and women have given there lives for us still at home. I pray that this war ends soon and I pray for the souls and families of these dearly departed. I pray that these deaths will cease soon. God Bless, Janese

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Mark B. Griner — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:51:26 GMT

Please always remember that no matter how good of a story something like this is that a loved member of a family will never return to their family.
Their sacrifice helped to insure that the freedoms we cherish are allowed to prevail

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Sheldon, Hamburg, NY — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 20:56:21 GMT

My heart goes out to all families who have lost a loved one during war. It should be kept a private moment for family members only. If you have not watched the movie "Taking Chance" on HBO, I urge you to see it. The fallen soldiers are treated with repect and dignity upon their return to Dover and to their final destination. Do we really need to invade a private moment that is meant for family only?

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Dont Say you weren't warned, Reno Nv — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:03:58 GMT

The media's heartless but for reasons other then they talk about. The stalk people they harass people especially soldiers they write stories and make things up to fit their views & own agendas & what sells ads or papers. They distort the truth and always talk negatively about the war & soldiers why praising someone like Osama Barak a coward & traitor who in less then 100 days has not only bankrupted the US but weakened us not just in defense but in caving to our enemies and bowing to their demands. He's like the ACLU more worried about protecting criminals even when the criminal commits a crime then in protecting the victims or better yet preventing crime to begin with. The media shouldnt taint the solemn event at dover or anywhere because the media is not remotely at pair to be in the presents of such rare value & honor. It's like the old days you had to be noble to look at a king or a priest to talk to god. Only one person was able to look at inside the ark and supposeably only one person can talk to god in any of the major religons. Watching the event let alone standing near a fallen soldier especially a hero who gave selflessly for others without asking for personal benefit few can & should be able to stand in that kind of presents. Osama Barak & the media treat our troops like toilet paper.........

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J, Springdale, AR — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:07:29 GMT

Thank you for your article and for the compassion that you and your colleagues displayed. In the shadow and honoring our veterans as it should be for the honor of the soldier and the family. May the gaining of access to the somber ceremony be used as you have and not used for other (......) hateful reasons. And again I thank you.

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James Richardson, Oak Park, Ca — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:14:42 GMT

Ms. Kube,
A wonderfully written article, very moving. All Americans should respectfully view these ceremonies so they can better appreciate the sacrifices our men and women in uniform make for us every day.

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Sarge713, Chicago, IL — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:16:54 GMT

Thank you Courtney for the piece and your honest emotion regarding our war dead. You are credit to your profession and a true talent for NBC News.
A vet and retired police office is proud of you!

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SFC A. L. Umphfres, USA, Retired, Echo, Oregon — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:20:59 GMT

Amen.

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J.Bayes, Toronto, Ontario, Canada — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:28:41 GMT

What a touching story...as a Canadian police officer who has particpated in the "Highway of Heroes" repatriations in downtown Toronto, I have been most touched by the families waving and videotaping us as we stand at attention and salute their loved one, treating us as if we were the heroes! Your nation, our nation and the fallen soldier's families should be so proud of the men and women who have paid the ultimate sacricfice so that we can get up and do the things that we do on a daily basis. Welcome them home, they deserve it.

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Mike Garst, Kenosha, Wisconsin — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:31:24 GMT

I found your article both respectful and very tastefully done. For that I thank you. All too often all we hear about in the media is the body count or the protests that go on during the private services for those fallen hero’s. Thank you for sharing this and the reactions of those there.

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Mike Garst, Kenosha, Wisconsin — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:32:30 GMT

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Robert, Gaithersburg, MD — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:35:16 GMT

Thank-you for telling this story and allowing us to grieve for our fallen hero's the way we always should have. God bless the military and all service members.

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D Clatworthy — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:36:22 GMT

It is a very moving and touching scene.
In Canada we have always allowed the media to cover both when the fallen leave Afganastan and when they return to Canadian soil.
Also on the trip from the Air Force base to Toronto for the coroner people line the highway and all of its overpasses to pay tribute. The section of highway that all the fallen take to Toronto has been renamed in their honour.
This trip and the ramp ceromonies are well covered by the media as are the funerals if the family allows.

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B. Daniels, Lithonia, GA — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:37:10 GMT

God bless our fallen heros, the least they deserve is America's public acknowledgement of their ultimate sacrifices. Thank you for a great article, we all appreciate it.

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Rita Wilson — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:39:49 GMT

My deepest sympathy to all those who have lost a loved one killed in the line of duty. I also saw the HBO special "Taking Chance". I will never forget it; the young man who was killed was indeed treated with dignity and respect on his journey "home" to his family. I cried many hours afterwards....for all the men, women and civilians who have died in Iraq, Afghanistan and all foreign soils. It's the least we can do for their ultimate sacrifice. God Bless.

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Mark Smith, Boise, Idaho — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:40:37 GMT

During my tour in Iraq, we treated a fallen soldier in my aid station. I and one other had the honor of watching over his body through the night awaiting transport the next day to the main base for transport home. Varies people throughout the night stopped in the tent and sat in silence and prayed next to his body. One person ripped the American flag patch on his shoulder and pinned it to the outside of the covering. Another individual pinned the Combat Infantry Badge next to the flag, gave a salute and then quietly walked out of the tent. Not a single person who came through the tent that night left it without shedding a tear. I think that the people back home need to see the fallen being brought home to show them the real human aspect of the war and not just the numbers that you hear on news broadcasts, read in papers or hear on the radio. I know that I will never forget that night nor will I forget the others that I treated in my aid station who had fallen.

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Kathleen. Eugene, Oregon — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:43:46 GMT

Thank you to the families who are willing to share this very private and heart wrenching moment with us.
It allows us to pause for a moment and give thanks for the lives of these brave men and women. It serves as a reminder that freedom is not free. God bless the United States. God bless these special people and their families.

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Rebel, Oxford, Ms. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:44:10 GMT

Everyone should watch the movie "Taking Chance". You need to watch it when there are no distractions so you can watch it from beginning to end. When you do watch it, don't even try to hold back the tears. I do believe that the media should not interfere, just stay back a reasonable distance and let the family morn their loved ones. GOD BLESS AMERICA!

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Bryan Webb Norman, OK — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:45:59 GMT

I am Iraq veteran and currently serve in the USAF Reserves..>Reading this article and peoples comments made me tear and choke up. I have seen this ceremony in person and let me tell you you will never get that image out of your head. Remember there are only two people who have given their life for you, Jesus Christ and the American G.I.

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Mike Best, Aurora, CO — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:46:08 GMT

Thank you for a great article. One of the other posters mentioned the Patriot Guard Riders, a group that has been honoring our fallen soldiers for the last 5 years. I would like to add to his comment that anyone can join the Patriot Guard Riders: you do not have to be a veteran or ride a motorcycle; you only need the desire to honor those that deserve it most.

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Jeff, Adairsville, GA — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:46:41 GMT

"Posterity: you will never know how much it has cost my generation to preserve your freedom. I hope you will make good use of it." John Quincy Adams

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Joseph Hebert (U.S. Air Force) — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:48:04 GMT

I know exactly what all this feels like.
During the Vietnam Era I was the Armed Forces Bugler for the Northwest area. It is always a sad moment even after you did over 60 Funerals.

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Wayne, Tucson, AZ — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:48:54 GMT

I lost my nephew and sister in law to this war and am opposed to allowing the viewing. The reason I say this is the media was all over the family at the funeral and had it not been for the Army Survior Assistance officer keeping them at bay we just wouldn't have made it. The media is only out for a story and tries their best to glorify it, leave the families alone.

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tess, woodbridge, VA — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:54:34 GMT

I was there, in your same shoes on July 5th, 2007. I flew my son's remains back from Iraq, where he was killed in action. My younger son was also at my side. We both were serving in Iraq at the time. All i can say is that i will never forget that moment, and I still holding on to the flag that was draped over his cascet. I called the "angle fly"...my deepest condolescents to you and your family. Heros from war will never be forgoten

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pam ca — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:55:05 GMT

As a mother of a soldier in a war zone, I hope we will never have to make the decison that this family had to make. I agree that it was a moving ceremony and appreciate for the sacrafice that was given. My one concern is that someone will take these honorable and moving moments and make it into a political movement. May we never forget the sacrific of all those who have fallen for the service of their country.

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Stan, Somonauk, Illinois — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:55:31 GMT

May the Lord God our Savior provide a seat on His throne for all those that have sacrificed their lives to protect and serve our Country. May He also provide closure and peace for family and friends of our unsung Heroes. Hopefully, the media will print the truth of what is going on an d quit trying to persecute those that have done their jobs well. They don't have any idea what our Heroes are going thruough. Amen.

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Malissa, Chicago, Illinois. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 21:59:42 GMT

Thank you for this article. I served in the Navy, am married to a US Navy Submariner on his 18th year of service, and my little brother is in the Army and has been to Iraq several times. Although, I still have mixed emotions about allowing such access to the press and the civilian sector. I know that sounds terrible, but let me explain. There's mixed emotions about this war and I wouldn't want someone to try to exploit such a dignified ceremony. We in the military community take care of our own, and you are now able to see this for yourselves. I don't see that it's anyone's right to bear witness to such a tragic time in a family's life. So, I can only hope that as our fallen heroes come home that Americans will continue to pay their repsects to those that have paid the ultimate price, regardless of one's views of this war. This isn't about the press gaining access to these ceremonies, this is about a Nation that's become numb to the fact that war has a price and always has. This is about brave men and women who volunteer to serve their country and swear to protect millions of people they will never personally know. It doesn't matter how you personally feel about the military. This is about the selflessness of these brave individuals. Please do not turn this into rhetoric in order to defend your stand on the war. To do so is disrespecting each and every American that has ever fought and died for this country.

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Elizabeth Jarrard — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:00:10 GMT

My nephew, who was also my godson, was killed in Afganhistan on Feb. 10th, 2009. He was only 22 yrs. old with a young wife and 5 month old son. The Dallas Morning news did an excellent job covering the story. There were over 300 people at the Addison Airport for his arrival and all the major highways in Dallas were completely shut down while my family, friends and strangers made our way from the church to the Dallas Memorial Cemetary. Just seeing the amount of support that we received was mind blowing. Cpl Peter John Courcy deserved every bit of it. He paid the ultimate price for our country. Every solder who fights and dies for our country should receive nothing less for his/her sacrifice. If anyone would like to see the news coverage or just view the website put together to honor Peter please go to www.petercourcy.com. He will be greatly missed. God Bless Our Troops.

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Patti, Ontario, Canada — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:01:18 GMT

It is good that my American neighbours can now collectively render honours to their fallen soldiers when they come home. I'm one of the Canadians who goes to the bridges. I know how important it has become to honour our fallen heroes and show the family the support of ordinary Canadians. It's sad but important.

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Helen Highwater, BC, Canada — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:01:31 GMT

I honestly believe that if the American people had witnessed over 4,000 fallen soldiers returning home in caskets, the war in Iraq would be long over by now.

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Chris, Atlanta, GA — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:01:55 GMT

Yay for the ghouls in the media. You got your pictures of coffins. Thanks for your wonderful contribution.

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cesar gonzalez, Honolulu — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:02:13 GMT

A ver similar ceremony takes place when those soldiers are carried away from the CSH or the place where they lose their lives... After paying my respects to every single one of them in Baghdad, i had to go away and hide so that i could let go of the feelings of emptyness and impotency to change their fate... We as soldiers don't figth this war expecting public recognition... we figth it for our families and ourselves... still, it's nice to see the media recognizing our death, now let's see when they will give proper recognition to our wounded...

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James Boyd Ulrich, Newark, Delaware — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:04:47 GMT

This is the best article I have seen from any form of media in years. It should always be about the bravery and sacrifice of great warriors and for the ideals of freedom and liberty. Thanks to all who serve.

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IC1 David C. Allen, US Navy (Ret), Anderson, SC — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:04:52 GMT

It is time that the Nation sees the dignity and respect that is rendered to those who have given their all for this nation. We all should attend funerals in our area for those who are brought home. We need to show the families that we stand by them and show our respect to the fallen.

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Bob Forrest, Medford, OR — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:06:06 GMT

Thank God our President Barack Obama is not hiding the fact that our fellow citizens are being killed in George Bush's illegal war. What an insult we have all been enduring in not being able to see the return of our beloved dead who have served and given their lives for our country. Hiding our dead has been grievous.

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Mike Sledge, Shreveport, LA — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:06:27 GMT

There has been much debate about whether or not media representatives would be allowed to attend the return of our dead, and I have argued for such presence, knowing that the media gives us, as a country, the ability to mourn for those who have given their lives to their duty. I'm glad to see that the misguided policy of a media ban has been changed.

Michael Sledge, author of Soldier Dead: How We Recover, Identify, Bury, and Honor Our Military Fallen

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David Bates Boonville, Missouri — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:07:29 GMT

We cannot honor our fallen soldier's enough. "Taking Chance" was an extremely powerful & moving HBO movie. My hat is off to Kevin Bacon for bringing this story to the screen. My son's fiance's dad is also in the Patriot Guard.Kudos to them as well. Anythign we do to honor our fallen heroes is never going to be enough.

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K Holshouser — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:07:57 GMT

Thank You for a very touching article that captured the spirit of this solumn event.

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M.S. Northern Illinois. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:08:37 GMT

I can only hope that seeing these heartbreaking images will help us honor the brave men and women who pay the ultimate sacrifice for all of us to enjoy our freedoms.

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Bob Smith — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:10:02 GMT

I was disappointed in the procedure.I am a former US Marine and believe strongly tjat any society can be judged by the they care for their dead.An Honor Guard should of had troops in a full dress uniform.A Marine comes home to Full Dress Blues!!You could bet that if some high ranking official was coming back they would have been the full treatment.I thank those troops who gave their lives for us but believe they deserved more than utilities (work uniform).Semper Fi

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Dr JEElliott, macon, MO — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:12:55 GMT

The reason press were heretofore denied access was the main stream media and many politician's very biased negative political views on the wars

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Phyllis, Ft. Lauderdale, Florida — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:13:36 GMT

"Taking Chance" was phenominal...I sat and cried for all of our fallen heroes....May they rest in Peace...thank you for your story..

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Bruce Greer — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:14:51 GMT

This ceremony wasn't hidden "for dubius reason". It was out of respect for the families.

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Larry Beam, Sulphur,Oklahoma — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:17:11 GMT

Present Arms Rest In Peace

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el paso, texas — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:20:34 GMT

As an active duty Soldier I hope that Iraq also appreciates what we have done for them. I have lost good friends in this war. And to the familes of the fallen I will never forget the sacrafices you have made as well.

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Rich Wagner, Pinehurst, NC — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:26:13 GMT

Something should also be said for the fine men and women who work at the Dover Port Mortuary. I had the opportunity to work with and get to know some of them recently and I can tell you the level of pride in what they're doing and the professionalism and compassion they display in a very difficult job is nothing short of amazing. God bless them and our fallen heros.

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Ron Myers, Citrus Heights, CA — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:35:29 GMT

The actual costs of war should always be seen by those who do not fight. It is appropriate that the family has the final say as to media presence. The populace of our country needs to realize that there is a cost to everything. All give some, some give all.

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Toni Anthony — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:36:50 GMT

I too, saw Taking Chance and I had tears from the beginning to the end, I am grateful to all of those who serve and have given their life for me and my country.

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George New Hartford, NY — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:37:02 GMT

To those who who endure the pain and sorrow my condolances. As a Vietnam Vet unfortunately to many checks are cashed at the highest amount." Definition of a Veteran" A Veteran- whether active duty,retired,national guard or reserve- is someone who,at one point in their life ,wrote a blank check made payable to "The United States fo America"for an amount up to and including my life"
That is an honor,and there are way too many people in this country who no longer understand it. FREEDOM is ours thanks to those who serve.

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Toni Anthony — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:37:43 GMT

I too, saw Taking Chance and I had tears from the beginning to the end, I am grateful to all of those who serve and have given their life for me and my country.

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Bonnie, Spokane, WA — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:37:58 GMT

Lets honor our soldiers at all times, when we see them at the airports, thank them for serving, when we see them at home in our communities, thank them for serving, when they have finished their tour and are looking for a new job, help find them one. Let's support them as they did for us. And their families too as they did for ours. Their ultimate sacrafice can not be repaid but witness and dignify we can.

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Perry, Ruidoso, New Mexico — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:38:14 GMT

If you have ever carried a casket you cannot imagine the weight. Not the real weight, the real heavy-ness of that responsibilty.
The people at Dover do an honorable task every day-They respect those who gave all for us.
Good on them in their difficult duty.

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Paul L. Banados, Fort Knox, KY. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:39:49 GMT

I am a naturalized citizen and work as a professional civilian for the USARMY corps of Engineers and is very emotional for me to see our young kids during their training at our base, and leaving for the war front. Your report touched me. We need to honor and cherish their heroic and sublime sacrifice, and that of their families. Thank you for touching our lives and making me feel again so proud to be an american citizen. God bless them and their families.

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Mama Irma, Riverside, CA — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:39:53 GMT

As a mother of 3 U.S. Navy service members. I have a deep heartfelt regard for the families of "our fallen heros"
My son has returned safely from a deployment in Iraq 6 months ago, and is now preparing to leave for Afgahnistan. My daughter is also in the process of preparing for a tour of duty somewhere in the Middle-East. My youngest daughter is on a warship, that at this moment is somewhere in the Meditarrian.
I thank all of you who pray for each & every service member who is proudly serving our nation. Because, I know my children are receiving 'extra' prayers from the grateful people of the UNITED STATES OF AMERICA!
God Bless & watch over our children, husbands & family members who bravely put themselves in harms way. So that all of us on the homefront can live & sleep in PEACE!

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Brian Rieth — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:41:09 GMT

An honorable and touching report of one of our fallen, but it makes me wonder how the remains of those I knew in Vietnam were treated upon their return. We know how the rest of us were treated.

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Bernie Adams,MA — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:43:12 GMT

I was in tear reading this article.I think its not only a solemn occasion & the sense of loss that people have, I think it brings out the patriotism in a person--shown by emotions. Its hard to describe.

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G, Franklin Park, NJ — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:43:44 GMT

Thank you President Obama for allowing us to publicly grieve as well as honor those who made the greatest sacrifice for our country. I recently cried during most of a movie about the preparation process and training of the military escorts used in bringing these heroes home.

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Everett Edinburg, Va — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:44:28 GMT

Its about time America started honoring our war dead and truely understand the cost of war.
Thanks Mr Gates.

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Bobby Abernethy Verona Va. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:47:20 GMT

Just another example of the media making money off of the dead.

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Bob, Meadville, Pennsylvania — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:51:50 GMT

Never forget the fallen, these colors will never run. our country will never forget. we will fight for freedom. rest in peace, you will be remembered.

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C Sampson, Prince Albert, Saskatchewan, Canada — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:55:51 GMT

I am a Canadian and I know the painful procession down the Highway Of Heroes, from CFB Trenton to Toronto, is not about us, but about hearts and heroes. The unfailing gathering of Canadians on every bridge across the highway for 150 miles is something we Canadians are proud of. We are grateful that those ordinary people show the love and pride for our dead that the rest of us across Canada would like to do but can't visibily. One mother of a fallen soldier was totally overcome by the crowds along the highway and through Toronto. She tried to find words and couldn't. Finally, through tears, she said, "Thank you for respecting my son."I am so glad the American peope now also have a chance to recognize and respect their heroes publicly as we do.

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K. Liljegren, 15 Johnson Ave., Hudson, Ma. 01749 — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 22:59:55 GMT

This same degree of honor and dignity has been given
to every service member each time our dead are returned home. Of course, a President who never served a day in any Armed Service of our oountry would not know that. He is too busy reinventing the wheel and apologizing to terrorists. Democrat party used to help the people. Now they blame others for the actions they took. helrgeinreintushcwcwountrseeivi

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Michelle, Mechanicsburg,PA — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:00:55 GMT

Very touching...My son is stationed at Dover AF Base. He is currently deployed. I and others have been remembering our Fallen Hero's for a while. I guess because we have sons/daughters/spouses/family members serving.
I want to say that all that you are seeing isn't being put on for the media. Our Fallen have always been treated this way. If my son wasn't deployed, he'd be in the police car escorting our Hero from the plane.
I think some of us were afraid to have it in the media because of what happened with our Vietnam Hero's. I don't think that will happen this time.
Thanks to ALL that have served.

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Mark Fink, Tomah WI — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:03:54 GMT

I must add my thoughts to those before me whom I agree with. As a vet who served in both Viet Nam and Desert storm eras, I can only say that maybe now folks can understand the fellowship people in the military share with each other. We not only share the trust of guarding each others lives but also the stewardship of guarding the life we have back home. If only the thousands of vets who sit in our VA medical facilites now would know that there is a recognition of the sacrifice our brothers in arms make.

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Preston Austin, Texas — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:06:36 GMT

What is being missed here is that the MEDIA was NOT allowed to film or photograph by ORDER of the GOVERNMENT since the first Bush Administration during Desert Storm in 1990. The media has always wanted to photograph and film our returning Fallen Heroes. I served 2 tours in RVN. I sit and wonder why we do not see more of what our Service Men and Women have to endure daily in the War Zones. It is especially important that we honor those who have fallen with Grace and Dignity. We as a Nation sent these folks in Harms Way and We as a Nation should be allowed to witness our Fallen Warrior's return. Giving our SUPPORT and GRATITUDE to the Loved Ones that are suffering this grievious loss, and the knowledge that Our Nation mourns with them.

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Lou Harlow, Lenoir NC — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:08:04 GMT

While I fully understand the need for the country to share in the return of our honored fallen, there have been those in the MSM who would have used these images for political purposes. I played TAPS for US Marines that came home from SE Asia 1965-69 (high school years) and I wish the "Freedom Riders" had been around then. But that is why they are here now!! Semper Fi! (It is a two way street!) Thank you for your coverage of this honored return, with the clear understanding that the family gave permission. May no one ever push a family to agree. The reasons in the previous article from Sunday are valid. As a current chaplain, families need less stress, not more.

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donnamaria guini, New port Richey, Florida — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:11:59 GMT

I am a mother of a soldier in Irag, and all my son keeps saying is "Mom I hope the people in the US know
the sacrifice that we make for them everyday. It's no
longer about the War, it's about these brave men and women who allow us the freedom to view and voice our opionions, Please remember all our heros.
A soldiers mom.

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Spc. Jonathan Mcculloch — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:12:08 GMT

The media should be happy now, they get to show our dead coming back from Iraq. Such a great site isn't it, seeing a young american man coming home in a casket. If you journalist are so interested in seeing the death of an American soilder, then why don't you chicken cluck pissants join the military yourselves. Then your stupid fetish will surely get your feel of it. Its sad. Leave my brothers alone.

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james williams — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:14:28 GMT

As an old army Sgt. I had tears as I read your article
A military coffin carries all of us.

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C. Sampson, Prince Albert, Saskatchewan, Canada — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:14:32 GMT

A program on Fox News ridiculed the Canadian army and dishonoured our dead recently. Yet, at the ramp ceremony in Kandahar, when Canadian fallen soldiers are put aboard a Hercules plane for home, American soldiers line up along the runway and salute the casket as it passes by. I wonder what those American soldiers would say about the totally unacceptable behaviour of members of the Fox News show. Do the comedians' know Canadian soldiers (three regiments, six months at a time) have been there for seven years, with two to go? Yes, they need a break. Our soldiers are also serving now in more than 20 other countries as Peacekeepers. Our's is a small army with a proud history. American forces know that. The Canadian army deserves respect. Our dead deserve respect just as your's do. Why are the 'comedians' still on the air?

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Soldiers Are Your Friends, Independence, MO — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:14:59 GMT

Yesterday, now, and evermore feel and practice the deepest respect for those who serve our Nation in life and in death. Simultaneously, never upon ever trust the media.

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John Fowler, Boulder CO — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:16:27 GMT

I agree with Mr. Smith. The remains should be greeted by an honor guard in dress uniform. Easy enough to do, and a trivial inconvenience to show appropriate respect.

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William Field — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:21:04 GMT

The story should never be about the media. The media are simply intermediaries. Thank you for realizing this in this story, and thank you Secretary Gates for lifting the ban. It's time we honored the sacrifices of our volunteer soldiers publicly and as a nation.

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jw vernor houston tx — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:22:07 GMT

I am saddened by this exploitation of our fallen warrior. They all deswee much more respect than this.

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Tim, Portland — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:27:27 GMT

Well said, and well done by Secretary Gates at overturning the decision to hide this solemn first stop of returning heroes on the soil they pledged to defend.

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Jo Ann New York — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:35:39 GMT

I believe now that the ban has been lifted we are now Honoring our FALLEN HEROES . They are now coming home in the open PROUD not silently in shame. I feel the pain also when I see the honor guard carry the casketoff the plane, but we need to see and feel the large sacrifice that has BEEN GIVEN BY EACH FALLEN HERO.God Bless them and may their families find peace.

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SHP, las vegas — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:41:04 GMT

what is gates thinking? the families don't need our shallow and insignificant well wishes and now legalized morbid voyerism. Pres. Obama and gates will live to regret this invasion of privacy.

how sick to you have to be to WANT to see the funeral rights when you are not invited and are nothing more than a grief chaser? the movie Taking Change was a docupic about the rigts and dignities military KIA's receive from their military equals.

and shame on you who film and then comment on things your or the nosey nation business.

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Albert S. Latham Midland,Tx. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:41:10 GMT

As the father of one of the fallen from Iraq I would like to thank the troops at Dover and at all locations where our family members come to. I can't think of a harder job that has tobe dopne.
As for the press I have seen the times when they were very respectfull and other times when they should have been banned from the area or stood against a wall.

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Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:44:11 GMT

We should point out the fact that a family is given the choice whether to allow media access. This is fitting. When the ban was in place, the families had no choice. We want to respect the decision of each family who is faced with such a sacrifice.

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Karen, Felton, Delaware — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:44:35 GMT

As a native Delawarean I frequently ride by the Air Force Base and hear the C-5's as they take off and land. Over the last 18 years many of us have lost sight of what valuable cargo some of those planes are carrying. This article reminds us of those who gave everything for their country and that they should be honored by all of us. It seems that the men and women of Dover Air Force Base have always made the effort to recognize their fallen comrades-it's about time all Americans did the same.

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nano — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:46:35 GMT

Much respect for those who died fighting for their country. I don't think there's a more honorable way/honorable reason to die than fighting for your country. Exception for martyrdom to whom it may apply.

I plan on joining the Royal Marines hopefully this year.

God bless the coalition troops.

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Hugh Dickson Honolulu, Hawaii — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:46:43 GMT

Where was the escort? The fallen never, ever, travel without an escort. My experience is that the escort is always in very close proximity to the fallen if possible.

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nick angel — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:50:04 GMT

Bob Smith, how true. For two years I carried the weight at Fort Sam Houston and cemetaries throughout south Texas when in the Air Force. We were in our dress blues and proud. I was a little surprised to see the soldiers in their utes. The public probably should see a perfect ceremony such as we gave to the fallen. Eight men holding our flag firmly over the casket while it is perfectly folded. Riflemen some yards away then firing. Then the cries and tears from family and presentation of our flag. God it was awful for us.

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Skylar Schacht,TheDalles,Or — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:51:30 GMT

As a former MARINE!! SEMPER FI!!!!!!!!

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Chief Petty Officer, USN, Washington DC — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:53:56 GMT

If you've ever ran a Marathon, you notice how many supporters come out to cheer for their family and friends. Not having one out there for you while running can make you feel left out. Thank God we now have the whole nation watching our brothers and sisters-at-arms complete the ultimate marathon.

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Mickey Delcambre, New Iberia, La. — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:54:41 GMT

This article was well handled by the writer, but it was the comments that followed the article that really impressed me. The American people are the heart of the world and understand love and compassion. The war dead and especially their families are included in my morning prayers. God Bless America.

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Brenda Smith — Wed, 08 Apr 2009 23:55:55 GMT

Thank you to the family for allowing us to share in their love and support of their family member.

We give thanks daily in our home for the brave and dedicated men and women of the military that make these sacrifices every day on our behalf.

You are all in our prayers and we grieve with you.

With much love
An American Family

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John Henry — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:05:53 GMT

Thank you for your story.I think it is a way to honor all the men and women who gave all for our country!It's just a small way we can honor them.Again Thanks.

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Don Hoskin, St. George, Utah — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:07:17 GMT

Great article! Thank You! I was a combat infantryman fighting the Germans in France and Germany - WWII, the North Koreans and Chinese in Korea - 50-51 and twice as a 'Green Beret' in Viet Nam. I was priviledged to volunteer and then escort WWII dead for 6 months in 1946. I am proud of our volunteer military and I love our beloved USA. Freedom is not free - someone always pays the price.

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Hank Vreeland Libby, MT — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:09:34 GMT

All of our war dead deserve the respect shown by these comments. Thank you Spec Mejias

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Tim R. Plumley MSgt USMC (Ret) Jacksonville, NC — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:14:44 GMT

"Semper Fi"

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Jorge Ralat, Las Vegas NV — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:18:37 GMT

The fact that so many of you think unless you see it on TV.....it doesnt matter or didnt happen is rather scarey.

This ceremony take place no matter if TV cameras or reporters are there or not...thats what makes it so special...

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Tsgt Cliff Hanson, Minneapolis, Mn — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:19:54 GMT

I am in the USAF Reserves and work fulltime for the DoD. I have seen many of these ceremonies and I think it is a private time for the family. When a plane comes into the base here. We all stop and take a few seconds of our time to give tribute to the war heros. It is a very moving time for us and the family. The media and the main stream America don't need to see this we in the service takecare of our own. God bless america.

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william atwood — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:22:36 GMT

i have had the honor of hanging out with several military men and there sons.from 2001 to 2004 my son lucas joined boy scout troop 212 gig harbor wa.i soon became asst scout master.we had wonderfull time with many well organized outings.my son learned many leadership skills.about half the men were military career men.i quickly realized these men and their sons,daughters and wifes are very patriotic and upright people.my views on the military have changed in that i have much more understanding of these brave young men and women.my son lucas now nineteen,has just joined the marine core.i am very proud of him.this story of reporting of fallen soldier touch my heart deeply

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Slats, 101st Abn Div. Talbott, TN — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:24:41 GMT

"And the poppies grow in Flanders Field".... Freedom has a taste which the cowardly will never know, and a sacrifice the timid speak of only in hushed tones, fearful that any acknowledgement will bring them face to face with their own pitiful exsistance. DETAIL..Present Arms! ... ORDER Arms... We should all witness and feel the emotions of that presentation. So that we may know of the cost to keep us all free. We get out of our warm beds, eat and play and go to our jobs unmindful of the one who "stands on the wall", watching and protecting us, who never complains, who suffers silently, and provides us the opportunities that we take for granted daily. Not only Yes, but HELL YES, we should allow the media, for otherwise we would scurry round our ways, never really knowing or caring that we were blessed to be protected and provided for by those who gave the final measure. Look America, these are your Sons, Fathers, Daughters, Mothers, and Brothers in Arms who gave so that you could live. Look, in awe and in Respect and in reverent silence, and always REMEMBER. God Bless this America of Ours.

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Doug Wright — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:28:53 GMT

It means a lot when you sign your name to those papers when you enlist. This nation or any nation for that matter has free will to use you as needed.
This land needs to see some of that price that has been paid so often and so generously for how many wars and how many causes that this nation has seen fit to uphold and see through to the end. And this government with deep respect;should be forever mindful of that individual's commitment to his/her duty when they gave their all.
Don't ever wonder why an old man or woman has a tear on their cheeks when they're at an old army buddy's funeral, don't ask why old soldiers, sailors, and airmen salute the flag when passes.
I would hope reporters see more of the heart of the American Volunteer and make note of it more often and and in better pen than I.
For no one was waiting for me when I came home from Vietman except a protester whose rights I was protecting.

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Kevin Mineral Ridge OH — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:29:10 GMT

In many years of flying for the Air Force I have brought back HR's and have stood in several ceremonies at Dover. I am glad that you all appreciate what you saw. I always thought of these ceremonies like the scene in Braveheart where their saying goodbye in their own way with outlawed tunes on outlawed pipes. I think photos of the caskets draped with flags and pictures of motorcades are fine, but I don't like the public display of what I consider a private ceremony not for public consumption. Just my two cents. I live in a community that has lost their share of lives to both current conflicts and there is plenty of public display to appreciate the sacrifice these fine men and women have made. I've also been on the receiving end of loss and appreciated the outpouring of support from our surrounding community, but I think this one should be for the families and I'm with the Marine that they should be in full dress and not loaded onto a bread truck.

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Steve LeClair, Spokane, Wash. — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:29:30 GMT

I served in the U.S. Air Force from 1971 to 1975. For three years of that time I spent in the Presidential Honor Guard in Washington DC. This artical brought back so many Proud Memories I have of the Honoring Funerals we did at Arlington cemetary for the returning piolets and airmen coming home from Vietnam. What Pride we all had to honor a person for something they did in the line of duty that cost them they'er life. In Honor an Dignity that was our moto and our focus. This all took place when I was 19 to 22 year old and I will never forget those soldiers. God Bless them all.

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Soldiers Wife no name no city — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:30:05 GMT

As a military wife, everyday, is in the back of my mind about the war in Iraq. My husband is currently on his 5th tour over there. This article is so very real and moving for so may of us. It really puts things into perspective. God Bless those who served and lost their lives. You will forever be in my prayers.

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Carole — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:33:14 GMT

I watched a soldier from my city come home last week in an ambulance, alive.... That brought tears to my eyes. He was injured when a roadside bomb detonated.
I have never seen so many yellow ribbons. I think every person in our small city of 30.000 was lining the streets to welcome him home...It got me thinking again about all the ones who weren't as fortunate. We are blessed!

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LucyMarie Ft Lewis Washington USA — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:38:13 GMT

I have sent a husband off to war six times and he goes again in six months. If the unthinkable happened--you will not see his ceremony anywhere. Yes, his passing will be a loss to this nation, but it will be a *great* loss to me and after sharing so much, it will be my last time with him. As a proud wife I do not see this as an honor to the family at all, but rather one more attempt to get the families to garner support for this war on terror (which I fully support).
Shame on those of you who had to read this story to "remember" the loss of life and what our military is doing overseas.
Our First Lady has spoken about supporting military families and I urge each of you to not just voice that support. DO SOMETHING! Need an idea? Call the USO? Call a military installation. Coaches are needed for kids, hands need to be held at the VA hospitl and so much more.
Do not one of "those" people who simply reads stories like this and "wipes a tear" and then promptly forgets again.

Army Strong
Army Family Strong

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Lundy — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:45:33 GMT

Great article! God bless our troops.

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Robert Swindle, Brambleon, VA — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 00:50:30 GMT

WELL DONE, My sympathy to all the families who have lost a loved one in all the wars. From a lighter my best friend carried in Vietnam until he came home the same way. " Freedom has a taste the protected will never know". I think that is good for us all to remember.

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Awilda Mundi — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:06:56 GMT

MY CONDOLENCE TO HIS FAMILY, AND TO MY COUNTRY PUERTO RICO. THANKS FOR YOUR SACRIFICE MEJIAS. GBY

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They will continue to die NEEDLESSLY until WE LEAVE IRAQ — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:13:04 GMT

I respect the troops for their service, but let us REMEMBER that this military action was precipitated on a LIE and 4500 soldiers have died in support of a LIE started by the 43rd president.

Before someone calls into question my prior service - US Army - 1967 to 1969 (as a result of a PRIOR LIE by a different president and bad intelligence)

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Kristin Ward, Tampa FL — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:18:45 GMT

I too watched the movie "Taking Chance" with Kevin Bacon and it was an hour and a half of pure tears. The media and the American people need to see the transfers to an extent, it reminds us that all gave some and some gave all.....This is their final passage and it should be treated with the upmost respect for they gave their lives for women, men and children they will never meet.

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Tony J. Chibbaro, Greensboro, NC — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:25:07 GMT

It was best said of the Vietnam War and it is appropriate to all wars that "some gave all and all gave some." We do NOT glorify war by honoring those who gave their all. We need to honor the fallen and to mourn them and especially to NEVER forget their sacrifice on our behalf. Those who have not ever served in the military in war just do not have any idea what it is like to lose comrades in war. And those who have fortunately not lost a loved one in war just do not comprehend the deep loss of a life cut short. As a Navy veteran of the Vietnam war aboard the USS Oriskany CVA-34, I personally know what it is like to lose 44 fellow officers and shipmates in one day! Civil War Union General Sherman said it correctly when he remarked that "war is all HELL." My heart goes out to those who have lost loved ones in war. May they be consoled.

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Mark Mitchell — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:31:20 GMT

While in the Air Force I was part of a funeral Honor Guard which performed over 200 military funerals. I believe that it is important that the public be given limited access to view these ceremonies when it is done with respect. There is no greater sacrifice than losing your life while in the service of your country. America needs to be aware of this sacrifice.

No one should ever show disrespect at these ceremonies and any type of protesting should never be allowed......

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Deb Richardson, Greenville, MI — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:35:12 GMT

Thank you for your well written accounting of this most solemn and patriotic event. I found myself holding my breath as I read... and tears streaming down my face. It is way past time that we are honor the sacrifice made by these wonderful young men and women, as well as their families as we welcome them home one last time.

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Jim Fawcett, Houston, TX — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:35:52 GMT

What a great tribute to our fallen heros. All I can say that it's about time. It is too bad that Bush never understood why this ceremony is so important. I'm an old soldier and have seen it all, but this moved me more than most anything I've ever witnessed.

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marty walinsky, stanwood, wash. — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:38:03 GMT

to all of our fallen heroes.may god bless and keep you. rest in peace my heroes.everlasting thanks. amen

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Peter, New York, NY — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:46:08 GMT

Thank you for sharing your honest emotions Courtney. For all those who feared that the media would exploit the opportunity to cover these solemn and dignified ceremonies for the purpose of furthering an anti-war agenda, our minds will rest a little easier. In the end, the arrival of a fallen hero at Dover Air Base is not about whether a war is right or wrong, but it is about the sacrifice one of our brave soldiers, sailors, airmen or marines has made in the service of our country. Maybe too many of us are just too comfortable never having had to witness it or now watching it from a far.

And congratulations to you also on the quality of the comments your article has generated. If only the fervent radicals on both the left and the right who populate the other message boards on MSNBC.com could read the comments posted here, perhaps it would make them realize that these boards contribute more to our discourse when people take the time to write balanced, intelligent and thoughtful messages as opposed to the ugly partisan belligerence that is so common on this site.

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javier figueroa baldwin park, ca — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:48:27 GMT

My son Pfc Gabriel Figueroa US Army Combat Medic was killed April 3,2007 he was 20 years old. I thank you for your article specially the last paragraph.

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Steve Monmouth, OR — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 01:57:28 GMT

The returning of our fallen warriors is a ritual which needs to be open for all to grieve and perhaps for non-veterans to gain an understanding. Many Armed Forces rituals are not for anyone except those whom have served. However, honoring those returning is vital. I really appreciate and understand Canada's Highway of Heroes.

Scouts Out!

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Alex M — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:09:21 GMT

Just because I support the troops, it doesn't mean that the war in Iraq was patriotic.

The soldiers did not die protecting our freedoms of speech and right to own a gun. They died for OIL because republicans are greedy grumpy people!

If soldiers can vote, they too should be able to say no to war and go home!

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Ed T, Indianapolis, IN — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:09:58 GMT

Thank you President Obama for cleaning up another one of the bush/cheney messes. Maybe they both should go to jail for this alone. Not even counting their other crimes against America in the name of America.

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John — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:18:43 GMT

I've been to Iraq and have also done "Patriot Details" as it's called. It truly brings out the sense of pride you have for your country. I wish everyone could witness it and take to heart how much sacrifice our military does on a day to day basis.

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Chuck Engle Round Rock Tx — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:32:40 GMT

Thank you President Obama for letting everyone see what Bush didn't want anyone to see.. that this war is costing American lives.

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Steve Lucas, Denton, TX — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:35:37 GMT

OK. Now you've seen it. It's the same for everyone and always has been. Your curiosity has been satisfied. There's nothing to see here that's sensational. Nothing that can be exploited, nothing being hidden away from the public, no hiding of war casualties, etc. No hob-goblins, nobody hiding behind rocks, none of that. Everyone has seen it like it really happens. It has been going on the same way for every one of those patriots whose lives ended all too soon.

Is everybody happy now? Are you ready to give these people their privacy back? Are you ready to return the dignity to these ceremonies without the prying eyes of folks who really aren't involved in this process? There are plenty of opportunities to honor these heroes when they have been returned to their home towns. When they first touch down on American soil in the loving arms of their fellow service men and women, let them take them and care for them with the love and respect that only they can show. You've had your look.

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AK 47 — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:40:05 GMT

Finally, a story worth reading. Thanks for letting the world know that our beloved soldiers did not die in vain.
Rest in peace, soldier! You've served well and may God walk you along into His Kingdom.

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AK 47 — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:40:39 GMT

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bob brown — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:41:17 GMT

This article was well done and a credit to the reporter who filed it. It reminds us very eloquently of the sacrifices our armed forces members make on our behalf, and have been making since the Revolutionary War. We stand humbled in their presence.

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Fred, Orland Park, IL — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:41:37 GMT

The guys who came back from Viet Nam were cheated of the honor and respect they deserved, and those returning from Iraq and Afghanistan were being ignored. Whether you support the war or not, honor the warrior who sacrifices for his country. God bless the military and their families. They deserve our support, our thanks, and our prayers. To Spc. Mejias' family, I offer my prayers.

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v.davis,suitland,md — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:51:28 GMT

with all these positive comments, i wonder why so many US citizens criticized President Obama for asking Defense Secretary Gates to review the policy? and don't forget it was Mr Gates who changed the policy... the nation SHOULD HONOR and MOURN it's war dead, not just the individual families of the soldiers... also i am jealous of the way canada treats it's deceased war dead...

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Summer, Portland, Oregon — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 02:51:48 GMT

I'm glad to see that this ban at Dover has been lifted. My brother sacrificed his life in Iraq in May of 2007, and the public support and respect from the people in the town in Idaho where he was from was a great comfort to our family. The streets were lined with people paying their respects as the hearse carrying his body traveled from the small airport to the funeral home for the burial preparation. Even the high school that he graduated from bussed the student body to the airport for his arrival. You could hear a pin drop in the silence. All of our fallen heroes need to be remembered and honored. I hope that we can take a moment to thank a soldier for their service when we see them at the airport, in the mall, or where ever our paths may cross.

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Hasan, New Castle, Delaware — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 03:00:23 GMT

If media was not there at the Dover Air Force base, we'd not know about our fallen heroes. Thank you media. But, thank you Army Spc. Israel Candelaria Mejias. I just read and read, and cried. You paid the ultimate price for the Country. May God Bless your soul, and Bless your family.

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Zak Iron, MN — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 03:02:40 GMT

I just thought of this song after reading this article:

Crosby, Stills, Nash & Young -

Find The Cost Of Freedom lyrics

Daylight again, following me to bed
I think about a hundred years ago, how my fathers bled
I think I see a valley, covered with bones in blue
All the brave soldiers that cannot get older been askin' after
you
Hear the past a callin', from Ar- -megeddon's side
When everyone's talkin' and noone is listenin', how can we
decide?

(Do we) find the cost of freedom, buried in the ground

Mother earth will swallow you, lay your body down
Find the cost of freedom, buried in the ground
Mother earth will swallow you, lay your body down
(Find the cost of freedom buried in the ground)

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giovanni g. maresca-ansaldi, cooper city, florida - 33328 — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 03:02:58 GMT

I find it incredable that issues below the sacrifice of ones patriotics does not make front page story in our newspapers. Who then manipulates the news media?

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Prof R C Manghirmalani — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 03:10:52 GMT

Thank you for extraordinary services for the country, I am much grateful, and Thank you Mr. Gates and President B.H.Obama. It is about time we honor these people and help there families.They are described in abstract, an intangible, a number. A whisper of a tragedy in the voice of the evening news anchor reading the body count from the latest ambush or bombing overseas. They are the soldiers who’ve fallen in battle and whose lives are now chalked up as new additions to the list of the dead: The Soldier Dead. But what happens to these brave men and women after the brutality of war extinguishes their lives? Who cares for their lifeless bodies? Will their remains make the final journey back to the town they once called home? And why is it important to understand how the military handles the deaths of soldiers?

Unless a soldier is your family member or hails from your hometown, most of us who aren’t indoctrinated in the policies of the military have no clue about the sequence of events that follow the wartime death of a soldier. It’s been said that, thanks to television, wars are now fought in our living rooms. We see images of buildings reduced to piles of crumbling mortar and vehicles violently transformed into charred and blackened steel. We may even see the limp bodies of ‘enemy dead’ strewn along the roadside.
With unprecedented access to archival photographs and the military personnel who care for the dead, Sledge crafts a compelling and emotional history of the handling of fallen soldiers. Peppered with personal anecdotes from letters, diaries and conversations with soldiers who’ve seen their comrades die, or who’ve walked through battlefields littered with enemy dead, Soldier Dead illustrates the true cost of war, on a human scale and reminds the reader that behind each fallen soldier is a family who pays a price that can never be measured by the dollars any government spends to feed, house and arm its troops. Ways To Observe Memorial Day
Memorial Day reminds us of our duties toward the wounded soldiers and the bereaved families, orphans and widows of the dead soldiers. We should honor the dead by adorning their sacred remains with flowers and garlands and show our gratitude toward them in the following ways:

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Adorning the graves of the soldiers with flags or flowers.
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Visiting cemeteries and memorials.
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Fly the American flag at half-mast until noon.
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Fly the POW/MIA flag
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Keep silent for a minute at 3 p.m., 'National Moment of Remembrance' and listen to Taps being played.
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Take a pledge to aid the disabled veterans, widows, widowers and orphans of the dead and keep it.
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Offering thanks to the veterans and appreciating the ultimate sacrifices of the soldiers to the bereaved families personally may help too.

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giovanni g. maresca-ansaldi, cooper city, florida - 33328 — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 03:30:31 GMT

While you decide to = caching & moderation = it appears that there is a degree of censor.

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lee,ShangHai — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 03:46:13 GMT

amen

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Brandon M Newport News Virginia — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 03:50:16 GMT

This is a very well written article. I agree firmly that if the family permits, coverage should be given to our heroes. Every life is unique, and should be treated as such. God Bless our Soldiers. There is no higher calling than to voluntarily place yourself in harm's way to protect others. Rest in peace, Israel Candelaria Mejias. You will never be forgotten, nor those who shared your sacrifice.

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Mike O'Brien, Hancock, NY — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 03:55:51 GMT

My wife and I joined the Patriot Guard Riders (www.patriotguard.org) about one year ago and have attended three funerals of heroes killed in Iraq or Afghanistan. Last week we stood in a pouring rain in Elmira, NY for our fourth funeral with members of the PGR, Vietnam Vets, American Legion, VFW and others in honor of SGT. D. Espey. This young man was listed as MIA in Korea in 1950, declared KIA in 1953, finally found and returned to the US. He was laid to rest on what would have been his 80th birthday. The honor, respect, and even reverence shown the fallen by their families and communities is proof to me that the American public is well aware of the costs paid by our military and their families. What really galls me is the arrogance of the media to think that unless we see pictures of Dover AF base on the front page of the NY Times we are somehow unaware.

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Mark - Walton, IN — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 03:57:01 GMT

Sadly we will see more of these transfer take place, yet as we witness them I fervently hope the people of America fully realize the magnitude of what past leaders shielded from us. Keeping it out of the limelight has been a tremendous disservice to our fallen soldiers, their families and a truly grateful nation. America has a lot of healing to do, new forms of national pride to foster and hefty ego's that need let go. Why not let this be the catalyst to initiate the process by embracing our soldiers with the dignity and respect they have deeply earned and so richly deserve.

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Ron, Springdale, AR — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 04:02:24 GMT

The Code of Conduct, Article I says it all

I am an American, fighting in the forces which guard my country and our way of life. I am prepared to give my life in their defense.

A salute to all who have died in the defense of our c ountry and our way of life. I just hope and pray that it has not been vain.

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michael tarter bowling green,ky — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 04:35:44 GMT

I'll never forget 8-24-69 my father died in s.vietnam on that day so long ago.

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James Holland — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 04:50:11 GMT

As an old Soldier who has lost my comrades’ in Vietnam, and now this War, I have had my time with the press in Quinhon in 1965 with the lost of so many of our soldiers then as now. The heart break remains the same and lasts with us for ever. We resented a public spectacle being made by the press of our fallen Soldiers and Comrades’ then, as well as now. The hurt is deep, and many of us have to visit our VA Psychiatrist for this reason, many years after for treatment. It angers some of our guys (Veterans) even more when this occurs, and brings back flashbacks that they do not need, just so NBC and selfish journalist and the MSM can get their way.
We realize and know better than most that war is necessary, but the politicians’ do not know when to listen to the Generals and the Soldiers; they listen to the three legged stool of the State Department, where things get messed up, which causes the Soldiers to have to suffer…

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Jim Tucson AZ — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 04:59:26 GMT

I am a Vietnam era Marine,who survived the Media and it's unmercifull attack on our men in uniform.I am worried that this will be turned against our men and women as it was on us.As you see, nothing is sacred when the press smells blood. If an article can be written for a political porpose,it certainly will be. All to often, what starts out with all good intentions turns out to be tabloid fodder.Someday maybe,our troops will get all the glory they deserve.And there will not be someone trying to cash in on thier sacrifices.The families of the fallen understand this,but I'm affraid the rest of you don't have a clue.

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EDWARD MORRIS, San Francisco, CA — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 05:56:08 GMT

While sitting at my computer and seeing the flag-draped casket of the fallen hero, I felt a slight tear, and I saluted.
Thank to the families who now let us all share in the grief.
A war vet.

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JA FALLON MILL VALLEY CA — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 06:24:10 GMT

It brought back memories from my childhood when I attended a military funeral for my grandfather, Lt. Colonel Simon P. Ambraz.
As a country we need to share in the pain and the grief that our fallen hero's families feel and experience. We are not sharing in the sacrifice they make by serving for our country. This is the least we can do to honor their service and ultimate sacrifice.

God Bless!
Joel & Agata!
=^..^=

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Mel Felts, Salt Lake City, Utah — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 06:50:14 GMT

Ms Kube,
Thank you for your well written article.
I retired from the Canadian Air Force after 31 years service, and have been living in the US for the past 12 years; my son is still serving after 20 years and is a veteran of two Afghan tours. As Canadians we don't always do things right, but honoring our fallen soldiers is one thing that we do do right! I've witnessed eight lanes of traffic come to a complete halt and drivers get out of their cars in respect to a passing funeral cortege on the 'Highway of Heroes'. This and the hundreds of people on each of the bridges between Trenton and Toronto are a truly spectacular show of public support for our troops. One doesn't have to support the war, but to ignore the soldiers who fought and died for us adds insult to their death. Also, thank you to Joe Smuckatelli for his comments.
Support Our Troops - LEST WE FORGET!

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Brian Arnspiger, Prescott, Arizona — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 08:14:03 GMT

Courtney,
Your article really hit home, and I found myself tearing up as I read what you wrote. I am a Vet and retired Police Officer, and I feel so deeply for our fallen brothers and sisters. May God bless their families and give them solace in knowing the real people of this nation will never forget their sacrifice. "Blessed are the peacemakers, for theirs is the kingdom of Heaven".

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Robert,Shinnston, WV — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 10:34:07 GMT

I most generally don't read all of the stories in the news. I just read the first part then move on, but this story kept me reading. I don't know who you are, but you can write a story. I think you did a great job writing this story. I bet the family mentioned in your story raelly appreciates the words you used for your story I thank you like I'm sure everyone will or should.

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Robert, Austin, TX — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 10:48:18 GMT

It truly is a great article that expresses the emotions that many of us have felt who have gone through these ceremonies. What bothers me though, are the responses here of "Its about time we honor our fallen heroes". America has been honoring these heroes every time one of them finally does make the final trip home, it just hasn't received the national attention that maybe you thought that it should. As a recently retired US Army Soldier, I worry that this will become just as numbing of an experience as the reports of US fatalities on the news have become. I sincerely hope not, but please don't look upon this as an overdue honor, understand that this is the beginning of a sometimes very long road that family members will now have to embark upon without their love one, and respect and honor their privacy.

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Thu, 09 Apr 2009 11:26:51 GMT

Major Ronnard Green, student, Command and General Staff College, U.S. Army Combined Arms Center, Fort Leavenworth, Kansas.
The views expressed in this blog are those of the author and do not reflect the official policy or position of the Department of the Army, Department of Defense, or the U.S. Government.

I do not totally agree with the administration’s new policy that lifts the ban on media coverage of the return of remains from the war. I do not mind the lift on the ban or the media’s coverage. But I think leaving it entirely up to the family can cause some unforeseen problems. I believe the decision should be left up to the military member prior to.
Normally military members make death and remains related decisions prior to deployment using their Record of Emergency Data DD Form 93. Soldiers, Marines, Sailors and Airmen use the DD93 to decide Next of Kin to be notified in case of their death. As a soldier, I believe I should be able to decide one of the follow on my DD93: I should be able annotate my choice of the media’s right to view my remains when I return or I should at the very least be able to annotate which one of my family member’s will make the decision of whether or not the media is allowed to cover my remains returning home. If not annotated on the DD93 there are many forms that the family and military assistance will be privy to that would give the soldier control over the procedures when their remains return.
Some family members do not understand or even know what the military member’s wishes or feelings are in regards to the media viewing his/her remains. Some families may have diverging views of whether the media should be allowed to cover their son/daughter’s remains. For example, mom and dad are divorced or separated; both were notified of their child’s death in combat. Dad served in the military and believes the media has no right to view the return of the remains. Mom did not but she wants her child’s story to be told, she wants to make sure everyone remembers what her child died for. Who makes the decision? There are many situations that could cause problems or issues as the remains arrive at Dover. If a family decides that they do not want the arrival covered but the media knows who the family members are is it possible that media representatives start offering money to view the arrival. Imagine it’s the arrival of questionable death, a famous soldier, or just something with a “story” behind it.
I believe in this situation, we, the military have to help the administration make the best policy. A policy that respects our fallen military member’s wishes and ultimate price they paid to their country. By allowing the military member to make the decision beforehand, you protect the family and ensure everyone involves understands the military members true wishes.

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Ed Yingling, Indianapolis, IN — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 11:35:28 GMT

For years, quietly - respectfully, Americans HAVE
been honoring the warrior and their families.
Service organizations - Americal Legion -VFW - Legion
Riders - Rolling Thunder - Patriot Guard and many
others, have volunteered their time and service to
honor those - who have honored us. We do this at the request of the family, to ensure the service is not
interrupted and the family can mourn in peace.
More Americans should do the same. Everyone says
somebody "ought to do something". Look in the mirror - YOU are somebody. CHeck the websghts of
the afore mentioned organizations. You CAN do something, and you will walk away with more than you gave, and an honest appreciation - for what you have.

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Average Whiteboy, USA — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 11:54:59 GMT

It is great to see the media keep this solemn ceremony in perspective, keeping in mind the reason for the ceremony's original shroud of secrecy. THose of us old enough to remember, can recall the way in which the nightly "body count" was portrayed during the Viet Nam War, and how the media also "hyped" up the returning coffins, during the First Gulf War. Again, its good to see the media take a responsible stance in portraying this event for what it really is, honoring fallen heroes, and not pressing an anti-war agenda.

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Linda McCampbell, New Salisbury, IN — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 12:04:59 GMT

This is a moving and memorable account of respect for our unselfishly brave men and women of the armed forces. I thank God every day for those hero's. The comments on this article are welcome and heartfelt. God bless each and every one who commented and showed their love and respect for our fallen.

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Bob, Jacksonville, Florida — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 12:10:55 GMT

I am against the media being present at the time a loved one is reunited with his or her family. To this day I remember the look my mother had on her face when my plane left the tarmac on my way to Viet Nam. I can not imagine nor want to see the sorrow of a grieving family upon the first sight of the return of that loved one. Canada properly respects her war dead and families with the Highway of Heros,as well as, our own Patriot Guard.

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pst.ouis — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 12:27:01 GMT

Thank you is all I can say for this article. I watch the evening news every night. ONe of the issues that has always bothered me is the lack of even mentioning the war and what is going on. Just a simple statement at the end of a news cast to remind everyone what is still going on should not be difficult to do.

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Daniel J. Ford, Fayetteville, North Carolina — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 12:39:34 GMT

As a two tour vet of Vietnam, living in a military town by choice, this story helped renew my faith in the the greatest country on earth. It helps to over come our greatest sin, the sin of lacking EMPATHY for our troops. Thank you for this article. God bless America.

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PaulDR, Killeen Tx — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 12:41:23 GMT

I too shed tiers as I read this artical. I thank the reporter for her honest ending to the story and hope that the people are allowed to see this each and every time so they will realize just how big a sacrifice our men and women of the military and their familys make each and every day to insure we can do and say what we want to herein the good old United States Of America. God bless these brave fighting people and may god protect tham from harm each and every day.

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dennis winston killeen texas — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 12:52:19 GMT

Ms Kube,

I spent 24 years in the ARMY. THANK YOU

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Tom Selover, Gouverneur NY — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:10:35 GMT

I agree with all who have expressed their points of view reguarding "our" fallen HEROES! I served in the military during Vietnam, Persian 1 and Somalia. Yet, we have those who take "Freedon" for granted. Yes, it is ok to have an opinion but if not for those who have paid the ultimate satifice, those who voice their negative opinions may not be able to do so if the United States was under rule like North Korea or China. They have no "freedom of Speech". Some take to many things for grantite and the "way of life" in this country.

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Sean Kursawe, New York, NEw York — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:15:32 GMT

This is an important step forward

Sean R. Kursawe

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Tim, Centennial, CO — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:25:22 GMT

Finally, a fitting tribute for those who sacrificed the most for us and to their families who gave their best. May we never forget.

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mkw, Dallas, TZX — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:25:34 GMT

The American people should not have to witness this ceremony to understand the dignity and respect our armed service personnel deserve. The media and many people living in America do not have one ounce of the character that these individuals have earned. The media should be ashamed of how they have reported this war and used the death of soldiers to further their personal agenda. Many of the service personnel in Iraq and Afganistan did not want the media filming them alive, let alone exploiting the emotion of their death. The comments on this article serve that, as individuals, our memories are very short. The honor of these soldiers need only be witnessed by God and their families. This article is nothing but a PUFF PIECE.

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Tim, Centennial, CO — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:26:59 GMT

Finally, a fitting tribute for those who sacrificed the most for us and to their families who gave their best. May we never forget.

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Raju — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:30:37 GMT

I am a naturalized American. This takes my feelings for the folks who fight for us up a few notches. Thank you men and women who serve us.

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Alexander Williams Sr. Temple Hills, MD — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:42:20 GMT

Your article touched me very deeply and I agree with
the Secretary of Defense, America truly needs to witness their true fallen heroes. I took part in a very unpopular war and decided then that in my heart
America was worth dying for so I decided to serve 25
years in it's defense. For those that cannot relate to the pain and anguish of fallen heroes, just say a
prayer for them in your faith, hornor their family and love ones. "Remember Always They were Defenders of This Great Nation" and God Bless Them And God Bless The United State of America.

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Bob Alexander — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 13:52:06 GMT

Courtney, I am a member of the (DAWC) Dearborn Allied War Conference of Michigan Honor Guard who provides Honor Guard Services for Veterans who have passed in our area of Dearborn, Michigan. I have been a member for close to 6 years and have had the honor to be a part of close to 30 Veteran funerals. I want to thank you for your story. It truely tells the story of our group, "Honoring Those That Have Served and Their Families."I have not seen any article of this caliber before today. Everyone in our country should read this article. Thank You

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Pat Sunnyvale, CA — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 14:40:30 GMT

The returning dead should be front and center. Those who have been taken from us shall not be forgotten.
PBS has a part of the evening News Hour with Jim Lehrer that lists information about the dead warriors along with a picture. At my house, it is then that we silently stand.
Wounded warriors also deserve respect and attention. The price of freedom is visible at any Veterans' Hospital.

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cj,molalla, Oregon — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 14:44:16 GMT

Please understand the original ban was to help keep those that would disgrace the family and the fallen by boycotting and making a ruckus I can't blame anyone for the ban. As someone who has carried many to their resting place I hate to think what can of worms this is going to open.

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Wendy Scholle, Hinckley OH — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 15:14:06 GMT

Two of my three sons are in the Military. I am scared everyday that I will get the call or the knock on the door informing me that my son has died. I know they made the choice to be in the service and as a loved one I must support them but it doesn't make it easy. My oldest son is now on his 2nd tour in Iraq. If I am faced with his death, it will be open to viewing as I too believe he should be honored for his sacrifice.

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Sue, Canandaigua, NY — Thu, 09 Apr 2009 15:20:43 GMT

I am the mother of a soldier currently serving his second tour in Iraq. I echo the feelings expressed by Malissa from Chicago. I am also disturbed by the lack of media coverage of the amazing and courageous things our young military people who are alive are managing to do in Iraq and with the Iraqi people. Why is the focus on the deaths of our military men and women when we have so much to be greatful for from them all.