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Lynne, Lebanon, OR — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 17:49:46 GMT

Britney has had a second chance, and a third, and a fourth. She needs a big wake-up call. She has never had to pay the consequences for her actions. If she doesn't want to show up for court, she doesn't have to because she's Britney Spears. She's no better than the rest of us. Maybe she should do morgue duty and emergency room duty like Lohan and a lot more than 8 hours. Personally, I'm tired of hearing about her and her stupid, irresponsible stunts.

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WolfeHave, Seattle, WA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:01:42 GMT

Thank God there are still people like you in this world. You are absolutely right in all you've said. Face it - Britney Spears is a trainwreck waiting to happen - but what if it did happen? Wouldn't that be the saddest thing in the world? Two small boys would be without their mother. Once upon a time ago, Britney Spears had the world in her hands. Unfortunately, she has lost sight of all the important stuff in life that money and fame cannot buy. If Britney Spears was an "ordinary" person, I'm sure that she would have true friends that would step in and try to intervene - try to get her help. I pray that she finds the strength within herself to seek help. I will pray for her.

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Mandy, Cincinnati, OH — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:01:45 GMT

I am also God fearing and thank him EVERY single day for second chances. As a single mom of three, I have had way more than my fair share. I also am glad your daughters do not revere her as a role model. But I do not think she is disgusting - I feel sorry for her. I actually look at the pictures and worry for her. I guess that is the motherly instinct in me. Hopefully she will get help.

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Calvin, Philadelphia, PA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:02:04 GMT

As long as people like you keep enabling her, keep handing her more money and pretending that she is still a credible pop star, she is never going to wake up. She needs to go broke so that her entourage of exploiters stop propping her up. That moment of clarity is never going to come as long as her record company still considers it profitable to buy songs for her to whisper along to. Right now, she sees no reason, not even the loss of her children, to ever stop doing what she loves: staggering from gas station to gas station in a drugged-out haze, surrounded by paparazzi who keep screaming at her that everything is OK.

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Lynne Showers — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:02:11 GMT

This poor girl has been used as a meal ticket by everyone around her. She needs to step away from it all and find her good self again. Keeping her from her children may wake her up but do not keep them from her for long. They are the only genuine people in her life. She needs them and they need the good Britney.

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Cathy Linney, Trinity, TX — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:02:18 GMT

I have 6 daughters, some who made some horribly irresponsible decisions in their youth. I am not a Brittany fan...never was. I just find her public melt-down to be tragic. She and her sons are in my prayers.

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stlouis mo — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:02:59 GMT

it isn't up to use to judge and i don't beleive in a god it was her up bring and the cold hearts of r country that has led people to be so vile about things we make mistakes and don't have the things to deal with that she does and i don't even like her music or think she is goodlooking but we all r no where near perfect

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Brandon, Tucson, AZ — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:03:03 GMT

Great point. As people of faith we should care about her demise. And as someone who may not think she has the talent and voice of many other artists, her music is entertaining, and I must confess I have also bought the new album, and the same problem came up in my head, "why am I giving her my money?" I think it's for the hope that her having a hit, and getting back on track is worth it. Plus it is actually a great album.

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Jim T, Idaho Falls,Idaho — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:05:19 GMT

Being a hell raiser when I was young almost
killed me.I survived.Am now 74 years old.

Jim T.

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Amy, Los Angeles, CA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:06:07 GMT

kudos.

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Liz Nelson, Dudley, MA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:07:32 GMT

As a woman twice Britney's age, and as one who keeps asking herself not only "what is Britney doing to her life?" but also "why do I care?," you've put this into words for me. Thank-you.

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Kate Trapp, Antioch, CA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:08:07 GMT

Thank goodness someone is willing to say that there is a hopeful way to view this tragic drama. I say leave her alone. Some media sharks can be relentless.
I hope for someone with nothing to gain comes into her life and she can find trust and relief.

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double dee — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:08:12 GMT

I laughed at your daughter's response, since I have said the same to my 6 year old that wants to listen to her! Some people do deserve a second chance, but usually they WANT a second chance, she just wants attention. It's just sad, that there seems to be no one that can get to her. And double sad that its the kids that have to be in the middle of her distruction. If it was anyone else, they would have had those kids gone along time ago and she would be in jail for child endangerment, will it take one of those kids to pass away before someone steps in?
Get that women on some good meds and counseling.
This behavior shows that if you have enough money you can behave anyway you want-kids or no kids......

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CaliLove — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:08:22 GMT

I agree. She's a mess. Her new album is pretty good. We should be over her now and all celebrities actually...how bout some actual REAL news and stop desensitizing everyone to whats really going on...WE ARE AT WAR people...britney is just a person.

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April, Richmond, VA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:08:41 GMT

I'm glad to see someone else feels the way I do. I'm NOT a person of faith, but I am a person of humanity, and I don't understand the apparent glee people feel when discussing Britney. It reminds me of the tales you read of audiences watching people being thrown to the lions; haven't we moved past that?

Taking bets on how she will die? Are you kidding me? All I would say to ANYONE participating in these kind of disgusting practices is this: karma is a real kick in the head.

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peggy wilhelm springfield, ne. — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:08:51 GMT

I could not have said it better myself.

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Linda Upland Ca — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:09:40 GMT

As a Woman of Faith, I do Pray for Britney. However, she's on her own distruction course. As many Celebraties believe, the Law's of Man do not apply to them. She's a Prime example. To bet on her date of death is sick. I will continue to Pray for Her, and Only God himself can give her 2nd, 3rd, and 4th chances.

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Robin, Mason, Ohio — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:09:41 GMT

That us great, everyone does deserve a second chance, but I think she has had many chances to change. Those two babies she has is all the reason and motivation a mother should ever need. She needs to get help fast.
I will say a prayer for her and all of the people in this world who need it.

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David Love, Spokane, Wash. — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:10:58 GMT

Also a person of faith,I would like to add... AMEN !!

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Anonymous — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:11:05 GMT

I agree. I watched a video of Britney being hounded by paparazzi, it was a wonder she was able to get into her car. This is a girl who was raised in the entertainment business. Ever since she was a child someone has profitted from her fame. Whether it was her parents or the industry. It's not the publics job to determine her mental health or her demise. She is a human being, who from the sounds of it, just needs someone. I don't think she's found that person yet, but someone who really believes in her. I wish her the best of luck, and I also agree, that her new album is great!

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Betsy Earley, Baltimore, MD — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:11:09 GMT

I personally don't think she deserves a second chance, she's already had way too many chances with the courts, the L.A. police, her family and her fans. I think everything that has happened to her she has brought on herself.

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CLW from Arkansas — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:11:43 GMT

Britany is human just like us.Put yourself in her shoes,she can't even go for a sunday drive without someone chasing her down(recklessly)to get a picture or catching her pick her nose.So they can plaster it all over the magazines.What state of mind would you be in if you had no privacy at all?Think about it!

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Scott, Ft Myers, Fl — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:12:05 GMT

It's nice to see at least one person who wouldn't like to see the poor girl (she does have some issues) die like marilyn monroe.

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Stacy Lee, San Fransisco, CA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:12:51 GMT

Great music choice on G. Love and Slightly Stoopid. They are all great role models for America, teaching about peace and leaving out sexual references.

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cutie Lousiville, ky — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:13:08 GMT

The last I heard the person has to ask for a second chance. I haven't seen anyplace where she has wanted a second chance.

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Roninlord — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:15:12 GMT

I am not a fan of Spears, she was a hotty when she first started out and her music though not my cup of tea is good. It's easy to see a rich and famous star fall and find amusement in it, kinda gives us middle class folk some gratification. If she did not have kids I would probably not have simpathy for her, but she does. To many times in the news you hear of a mother or father being killed and leaving little ones behind. Brits parents do not seem to be much of a parental group. FOr the sake of her 2 childeren I do hope Ms. Spears can get it together. I also wish that the media would give her time so she can get her head together. I also wish Brits parents would get off there lazy butts and goto there daughter and grand children and try to help.

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Kris, Union NJ — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:15:48 GMT

I too just bought my first Britney cd. I'm her age. I agree with you and your daughter. She isn't what girls should aspire to be but she does deserve some chances, it's not right for people to wish these awful things on her.

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Shelley, Bradenton, Florida — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:15:49 GMT

I love your story. It is wonderful that you are looking at her as a person. God is powerful and hopefully if enough of us pray for her she will come around. Maybe even turn her life to Crist. Thank you for being you and sharing your story.

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Audrey - Virginia — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:16:01 GMT

They need to LEAVE Britney Spears ALONE before they drive her to suicide or something. She is just being hounded and hounded, the mind can't take but so much. And, she needs to go into seclusion and get the help she needs before she loses everything -- including her children, which are the greatest gift God gives us.

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Jean Mitchell, Rehoboth,DE. — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:17:26 GMT

As the Grandmother of two young women caught up in the same downward sprille as Miss Spears, I too am not entertained by the public exhibit of the actions causing so much pain to her children. Our family is trying our best to care for, protect and love the little souls that have been abandoned by their mothers so caught up in drug and alcohol addiction. I for one will continue to pray, while concentrating on what matters most, THE CHILDREN.

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Deb Furtado — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:19:23 GMT

Yes, I'm praying for Britney Spears as well. She and her family would most certainly benefit from an oupouring of prayers in this very difficult time.

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SuSu, Brooklyn, NY. — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:19:31 GMT

Hi, Finally I see that someone has compassion for people, instead of making a fast and harsh judgement. Yes sir you must be a man of real faith because that's what real faith means. In our so called civilized world I see people racing to show their deep hatred for people they don't even know and the resentment for others that have more than they do and wait for them to trip or even fall and it's like they challenge or dare them to stay good. We need to remember that we ALL fell short of God's grace. I hope that all the Britney's of our young girls get a second chance in our hearts and I hope that we all remember that we need to forgive to be forgiven.

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Miss Wes — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:19:55 GMT

Thank you for your refreshing comments. It is nice to know there are actually cool parents who still express themselves by listening to music and shaking their booty every now and then! I also think it is wise to write a piece that isn't full of "trashing Britney". Quite frankly, I along with a million other Americans are tired of hearing about every time Britney bends over and shows us her "stuff". Give a human being a break, right?

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Don Mars — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:20:43 GMT

People- have some compassion- she has had ZERO positive guidance in her life. Brit is old enough now to take care of herself. We need to worry about her sister. Jamie Lynn Spears is being exploited! I was appalled, disgusted, and saddened when I watched an episode of Zoe 101(episode 33,”Wrestling”,season #3,prod code 307) and saw young Jamie Lynne Spears leaning over a desk acting out a scene in which her BREASTS were blatantly and obtrusively EXPOSED for all to see…and by all I mean my 5 year old daughter. And by EXPOSED I mean that each breast was shown as it’s own separate entity, meant to entice in lustful fashion the trained eye, inviting it to oogle and gawk as we are so accustomed and expected to do. The only part left covered was her nipples. (This is not to be confused with “cleavage”, which would be when the breasts are somewhat pushed together to give a pleasing but more modest visual of a woman’s figure).
It was embarrassing and uncomfortable. When my daughter watches sit-coms aimed at adolescents on Nickelodeon channel, I expect her to be entertained by thoughtful, kid relevant stories that deal with issues kids can relate to. I don’t expect her to be taught that 16 year old girls should let their “tits” hang out of their shirts to dangle in front of the gym teacher.
The real issue here is who made this decision to intentionally exploit Jamie Lynne in this fashion. Was it the producer__________, the director, Michael Grossman; maybe her agent? Her mother!?? Where is her father? Somebody should be held accountable. This should be considered a felony and charges should be filed against all involved! This child is at risk for further exploitation. We all have seen what a lack of guidance has led to in her sisters case. Jamie Lynn needs someone to act on her behalf, not somebody who is capitalizing on her wealth. …And now she’s pregnant. Surprise-surprise…

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Shauna McLeroy — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:20:55 GMT

you are right on the mark...but contrary is the fact that we are sick in following her ever downward spiraling train wreck life, I myself read this article because the headline was Briney Spears, are we that hardwired to thrive on the tragic details of people's demise?

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Jennifer, Ashburn, VA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:21:00 GMT

I 100% believe in praying for her peace. I'm glad you made this public as I too have been wondering how I became so engrossed in such a sad story. I'm trying to re-focus my interests in something much more benefitial to me and my family, like maybe the Presidential Election.....

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Mallard Featherspoon Pondville, Arkansas — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:21:26 GMT

its her life let her live it how she chooses. Only god can judge sum1.. who is any1 to say how she should live her life. she gets paid to entertain & she is giving us a show we wont forget anytime soon

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CasaNova73099 — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:22:22 GMT

I sympathize with the writer's motive for buying BS's new album. I for one am sick of always watching/listening/reading about what feels like to me every child/teen star that I 'grew up' with throw their lives down the toilet. And, even though to a large degree it may seem like she isn't deserving of our money, at the same time BS still needs to know that there actually are a few out there who hope that eventually she sees the light, and perhaps uses that money to get the help she so desperately needs.

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M Putnam Jackson, MI — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:22:30 GMT

I think it's wonderful to hear something uplifting and positive about Britney for once. She got my symbolic vote for a second chance.

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Aimee, Phila, PA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:24:08 GMT

If buying the cd is supporting her, then what does buying all the tabloids support? The lunatics that overwhelm her, not to metion countless other 'celebrities', on a dialy basis- risking their lives and the lives of those around them with their reckless disregard for all that is private and personal. If you had cameras following your every waking moment, waiting for you fall apart, what are the chances you could hold up? Self-fulfilling prophecies are dangerous enough, but when the world is rooting for you to fail, why do you bother to try to succeed?

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Jen, Palmer, MA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:24:16 GMT

I really think that Brittany should get out of the spotlight and take care of herself both physically and mentally. It's obvious that she doesn't care enough because of her two kids because of her actions. (Don't actions speak louder than words...?) I really hope she can get the help she needs - but SHE has to do it!

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Maggie — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:24:40 GMT

We are no one to judge others. In fact it seems like the world has become so involved in the people around them that they forget that we arll make mistakes. I think we all need to pray more. This world would be a better place. Aprayer doesn't cost anything and it is the best give you can make someone in need.

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Angela, Little Rock, AR — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:26:50 GMT

As a woman twice Britney's age, and as one who keeps asking herself not only "what is Britney doing to her life?" but also "why do I care?," you've put this into words for me. Thank-you.
Liz Nelson, Dudley, MA (Sent Friday, January 18, 2008 1:07 PM)

Well said.
I am a woman of Faith, and I will pray for her as well as for any other in this shape. There are thousands more people in this world that have made continuious poor choices as well-she isn't alone rather she just happens to be int he public eye. We all are created equal in His eyes. In saying that why don't people leave her alone? ths old saying still holds truth, " if you are looking for the negative...in someone/thing...you will find it". To some that may be all that there is, however unless her personal choices directly effect you, your health, or well-being leave her alone and pray that she will decide to do what is in the best interest her boys and herself!

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Lou Anne White-Grose, Grapevine, TX — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:27:20 GMT

Sadly, I think Britney's situation is way more serious than simply watching a train wreck. Granted, she's a child of pop-star privilege, but I truly believe that what we're really seeing is a mentally ill person who CAN'T stop what she's doing because her reality is not real. It's very much like the movie star character on Sunset Strip. And while I too have her on my Ipod, if you listen to her lyrics of even her first album she has been crying for help for a very, very long time about lack of control of her life. When you have "yes" people around all the time, your ability to make rash decisions goes out the window. Bad role model? Yes, but mostly because of her way-too-hoochy attire. But her outrageous actions seem to be more akin to someone who is delusional and a true mental illness whether it's bipolar as some armchair pschychologists have claimed or severe post-partum depression. Whatever it is, I know we can all agree that she needs serious, serious help before someone gets physically hurt.

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Edie, Dallas, Texas — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:28:00 GMT

I am with you since the same thing happened to me. I have 3 daughters ages 18, 11, and 9. The older one was a fan when she was much younger, and the younger ones were a fan of the oter Spears, Jamie Lynn, until recently when I pulled the plug on Zoey 101 after the pregnancy news. After watching Britney grow in front our eyes is hard to imagined someone that had strong values as a child become what she is now. I know that her behavior has to come from some sort of mental problems. There is the theory that she has post-partum deppresion which I believe. In any case I secretly started listening to Britney's new songs. You are right, they are great. I hope that everyone starts seeing Britney as someone in need of prayers. I am a mother and I feel for her family. Hopefully a miracle happens to her and she can come out of this horrible life she is now living. After all she is only human.

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Melissa, Seattle, WA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:28:05 GMT

Very well said. I think we are too quick to judge and its really sad. If it were one of our family members or friends, we would be upset and be doing everything we could to help. Instead, most people make a mockery of this horrible situation and use it to get a good laugh. I don't know what is really wrong with Britney, but I believe she does deserve a 2nd chance, as would anyone else, and I will be here to support her 100%. Thank you for the inspiration.

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CM , Dallas, Texas — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:30:14 GMT

Nothing happens that God does not allow, He knows what it takes for all of us (to get our attention. I pray that she hears Him when deliverance comes. There's nothing like God's Deliverance when the world is watching!

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Ana Cabral - Lisbon, Portugal — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:31:11 GMT

You are absolutely right. As the mother of 20-something daughters, I have watched the public desintegration of this young woman with horror and feel nothing but pity for her. Surely the fact that she has a pack of howling papparazzi at her door who hound her everywhere she goes is greatly contributing to her destruction? It's a shame they are not prevented from doing what they are doing. When yet another Britney horror story comes out, all I can think is: "There but for the grace of God..." People should be kinder to her - she really needs help and we should be more compassionate to a person in such obvious distress - not lick our lips with glee at her self-destruction.

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Linda Lewis — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:32:57 GMT

Britney really deserves a second chance, after all she's human too, those who are taking bets on her death may very well die before her. let's be wise and say a prayer for her instead, everybody needs somebody at some point in time. May God help her.

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Lori, Houston, TX — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:33:24 GMT

I am so tired of people making it seem like they have done no wrong in their lives. For some it takes a little more time for people to realize that their making a big mistake. Im sure if there was a family member going through the same thing you wouldnt pass judgement on them. You would want to help them at bettering themselves. So all this criticism needs to stop. Im not a big fan of Britney like I used to be but Im also not GOD and in my eyes only GOD can judge me or any other person.

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T,BEAR — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:33:58 GMT

I WISH HER THE BEST AND WILL PRAY FOR HER SOUL.FAR TO MANY PEOPLE WANT TO SET IN JUDGEMENT.

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Sara, Juneau AK — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:34:38 GMT

I'm in my senior year of college, studying to become a psychologist. I believe that yes, the deservers another chance... ONLY AFTER... she is FORCED to receieve treatment. Her behavior in an average person would have already been admitted to a hospital program. She needs professional help and NO ONE, not even her family, is making her get it. The courts aren't even forcing her to get help. The courts allow her skip court dates and continue on her path of destruction. She does need to be prayed for but what she really needs is help. Now.

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Lynn A. — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:35:56 GMT

April from Richmond: you mirrored my thoughts exactly! What does it say about the human race that some enjoy seeing others "thrown to the lions"? But there it is: many people do enjoy the suffering of others. I'll never understand why because like you said, Karma may come around and get THEM next. Let's just get down to it-people who enjoy this sad spectacle are just glad that it's someone else and not themselves. That applies to many when it comes to public suffering. Everyone's turn comes, remember that!

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m, kalamazoo, mi — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:36:16 GMT

She has never been a "normal person" She has never just had a "normal life" Since she was a child she has been in show biz. starting out in the mickey mouse club. NOw into the insecure woman constantly harrassed by the paparazzi... Im not defending her, adn i dont support her actions. But until we live through the things she deals with in her life, we are no one to judge.
She obviously needs to find normalcy and balance in her life. Even if that means taking a break from the spotlight for awhile... she needs to focus on her family. People need to stop houding her
Pray for her. That is the only thing that will help.

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moonpie, Jacksonville, FL — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:37:17 GMT

why is nobody putting part of the blame on her ex-husband. Do your really believe that she and she alone
is responsible for the spiral down???? Do you not think that they didn't do drugs or party hard together???? For a man who claimed he didn't marry her for the money is sure playing a good hand at helping to destroy her. Is she goes bankrupt, who's going to work to feed the babies? No ones gives money away like Brittany.

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Danielle White,Grass Valley California — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:37:36 GMT

Those without sin cast the first stone! I have been praying for Britney to get the help she needs for awhile now,and will continue to do so. I've cried feeling how devastating it would be if she died,or was paralyzed or something in a car wreck. As one sister on this planet to another I care about what happens to Britney and want only wholeness health and true joy for her every day. I want the same for her children,and hope like heaven that they get it. I send her only blessings,not curses,nor judgement because that is harmful to her,and myself. Not to mention the harm it causes her innocent children.

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Kim St. Loui, MO — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:38:22 GMT

Sometimes people are not in a state of mind to even ask for a second chance - or know that they need one. I for one have experienced a family member who has fallen so low - and ruined relationships because of it. I cannot give up oin this person - because I know how he once was, and is capable of being again. Does this mean I endorse the behavior - no. It means I will be there to try to help if it is possible. Hopefully Britney will wake up before she loses her chance with her kids. For some people- they just don't realize unless they've seen first hand - and I hope for their sakes they never have to. But ... it would make them a lot more understanding.

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Bob,Chicago,IL — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:39:28 GMT

Britney has gotten one chance another and yet again another but she will not change.Its always easier the second time around, she needs to go broke so she can realize what she lost and how to change it so people will see that shes changed. ACTIONS ARE STRONGER THAN WORDS. So lets see if she does change

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Jack Yeobin — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:39:37 GMT

God helps those who help themselves. God listens all she has to do is ask..... until then no matter how many prayers are said for her, she's on her own.

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CJ — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:39:45 GMT

Sad case, but I do believe that her reckless behavior has a lot to do with that cold hearted man doing her wrong. She is a young lady who has lived a very fast life very fast. She has gone through so much more than the average person at her young age. Many women (sorry guys) who have gone thru divorces and hard break ups can somewhat sympathize with what she's going through. She is not hte only women that has gone through things, but she is one of few that have gove through it publicly. She doesn't know how to deal. It will be a sad day if something happens to her, everyone will be devastated.

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Amanda, Mississippi — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:41:23 GMT

I once heard someone say on tv that it takes longer for celebarties to hit rock bottom because their fall from grace is softer than "normal" people. I don't follow to closely to the Spears drama but unless you live under a rock you can't help but to have an idea of whats going on in her life. I haven't had a chance to listen to her newest album but I will even shamelessly admit that I like her newer songs. Buying or not buying her album isn't going to stop her path of self destruction. The media moving onto someone else would be a better solution. Instead of laughing at her situation people should pray for her that she receives the help she needs. Its a shame to see talent go to waste and with age her music gets better.

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Jen, Milwaukee, Wisconsin — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:41:29 GMT

CLW - although I agree with you, somewhat, I have to wonder what role Britney is playing in all of this. There are hundreds, if not thousands of celebrities who live their lives, under the same scrutiny, go out to eat, go to the gas station, all of the things that Britney does, but no one is following them. In my mind, Britney herself, along with the enabling crew she has with her, set up these photo ops with the paps - I think it's part of her mental disorder. The attention she seeks is almost constant, and it's only when she's not getting what she wants that she acts out against the people that are keeping her on the map. Also, the fact that we all crave the stories, and the horrors, etc., fuels the fire under Britney and her crew, and they create more drama.

It's truly unfortunate, the girl is talented, albeit mechanically-enhanced talent, but talent none the less. It's obvious to most people (with any kind of intelligence) that Britney is suffering from a serious mental condition, and until she admits to that, we'll continue to see the train eminently jumping the tracks - and we'll continue to watch, it's our nature. Britney is the only person who can help Britney, and I truly hope she comes to that realization before it's too late.

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Concerned, Des Moines, IA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:41:37 GMT

I'm not religious at all, I've never really liked her music, but I feel just awful for the situation she is in right now. The people who say she doesn't deserve help are the same self-rigteous people who won't recognize depression or it's ilk as medical problems and instead call people who suffer them weak-willed. She badly needs help, of a professional sort, and she very well may not even know how or to ask for it. But her actions in the last year are a screaming cry for help that no one appears to be answering with the exception of people trying to capilatize off of her. And then of course all of the people judging her, when they have never and will never be in a position to test their own mettle in the same way. Gutless.

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Jess, Parker, CO — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:42:11 GMT

Britney Spears is suffering from a mental disease. We have all forgiven other celebrities for their mental problems and/or addictions, which included paying for sex and many of them are as successful as ever. Has Britney ever had a D.U.I.? No, we really need to worry about those that think it is ok to drink and drive because they basically get away with it. There are many people around the world that are given more than just a second chance after making some terrible but conscious decisions. Her decisions are coming from a place where she doesn’t have the capability to make the right decisions. There are other celebrities of sound mind that think they can drink and drive whenever they want to, which includes chasing others down in their car while they are on drugs and alcohol, who basically get away with almost killing themselves and others.

Britney is a young woman, a young mother, who desperately needs help. No one should be betting on her life and when she will die, and to me, that is way worse than what she is doing with her own life. In fact, I wonder how that makes her feel. She is being betrayed by those who once loved her, yet turned on her when she began this downward spiral. How many times has that poor woman been betrayed, starting with her first love telling the world all about their private relationship?

For years, Britney has provided the world with entertainment through her music, and she is also involved in many charities. We all should be praying that she receives help and actually does obtain that “big comeback” we are all hoping she achieves. Also, let’s keep in mind that she has two adorable little boys who need their mommy, and if she gets better she can become the great mother she was before. None of us are perfect, but our lives are not spread all over every news outlet. She has felt betrayed and feels she has no one, and that is why she latched onto this paparazzi guy that will probably end up betraying her too. She needs her family and God. Pray for her, her family, and her little boys. They all need all the strength they can get. Pray and imagine she gets her life together, and let your thoughts of her presumed death disappear. I can’t imagine how she would feel know that her once “supporters” are supporting the idea of her death. Predicting her death is disgusting, what if it was your sister, mother, girlfriend, niece, or even aunt that is going through this? Could you imagine people treating your loved one like this? For those of you that are judging or even predicting when and how her life will end, get a grip and do something more positive with your lives.

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Megan, Portland , Oregon — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:42:29 GMT

I agree that Britney deserves to have a bit more empathy showed to her from both the public and the press. Every person is guilty of making decisions that may not have been considered sound or appropriate by others. I personally do not agree with most of the decisions that I have seen published in the media. The important thing to remember here is that you cannot always believe things that are published in the tabloids. Her face sells magazines, so I am sure that a lot of what is said about her is over exaggerated, maybe even false. It is hard to live your whole life infront of the cameras. I have heard the argument, "Well, then she shouldn't be famous." But honestly, there is no way the girl can ever try to have a normal life. If she one day decided that she was going to leave fame behind, get a normal job, and a normal home, an economic car, the world would think she was even more crazy. At this point what is the girl to do? What kind of life would it be if she were forced to stay in her home?

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lisa, Lewis Center Ohio — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:42:36 GMT

She is mentally unstable, she needs professional help. Someone needs to intervene and get her that help. She hasnt asked for second chances, because she is not thinking rational. She has probably had a nervous breakdown, and continues to spiral down hill. I cant believe her parents can do nothing.

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Lala on LI — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:42:52 GMT

Britney doesn't want to go on a peaceful Sunday drive. She WANTS the paparazzi to follow her. If she didn't, she wouldn't be aimlessly driving from gas station to gas station daily. I also don't think she even wants her kids back. I think that, like the multiple puppies she's had, she's tired of them, so she gave them away.

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BJ — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:44:06 GMT

I've been thinking a lot about Britney lately. Don't know why she is on my mind. I am not a fan. I generally do not have compassion for people who seem to have it all and throw it away because they cannot get their act together. But I have to ask myself...what has happened to her. How could a beautiful, talented, young person get so far out of control. There has to be something in her past that has affected her deeply and is still affecting her. She may not even know what that is herself. And, if you can't figure it out....you can't fix it or try to get help fixing it. I hope she slows down enough in life to find out who she really is so she can find the help she needs to get beyond this sad situation she has gotten herself into.

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edna, Philadelphia, Pa — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:44:25 GMT

I am glad I am able to see the view like you still out there. Few days after Spears break-down, her ex-husband's lawyer has made a request to have the report open to public, as if she is not humiliated enough, as if she is not the mother of these two boys. Don't forget that her ex wanted to sale their sex tape just a yeat ago before his lawyer found better way to demand more money. Yes, they virtually eat her alive because of her money. Briney might create her own down fall, but they really make a career of taking her money! The are much much worse than Britney!

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jaycee collins, LA, CA. — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:44:47 GMT

JOKE...no talent, no voice, no sense, no matter!! Who cares about this crap..think world peace!! "Q"

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Kristin, Houston, Texas — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:45:05 GMT

Well said! I continue to support Britney by purchasing her music also. I hope she gets all the help she needs. All the naysayers need to think about their own children. She is just a child herself. Thanks for writing this, Don.

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SGordon Hayesville,NC — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:45:54 GMT

I've tried to put myself in this girls shoes.I say girl because she does not behave like a woman! I have two young sons who are my world. I've battled an eating disorder and depression for years. Everytime I feel overwhelmed or start having a pity party for my self I look at my two boys and realize I have to fight with every ounce of my being not to fall back into my own self destruction because they are more important to me than being a size 2. So I don't understand why she doesn't realize how important they are to her or she is to them. They are the only two beings that love her unconditionally and she's gonna screw that up. I think she needs to leave L.A. and live like the general population, paycheck to paycheck and hopefully remember what's more important in her life....Family and Friends. That's where you'll find strength!

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A Lawson, Nashville TN — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:46:32 GMT

Britney has been warped by the trappings of fame. She realized that no one really cares about her, just what she makes possible for them. Money and lifestyle. So she cannot trust anyone to really love her for her. Who do you go to when you are losing it and you have two little ones and you don't know what to do? I guess you just lose it, in a big way. How lonely that would be, no wonder she can't stand to go home to that big house. I guess money can't buy you real love, makes being "poor" look better and better. So we should feel some pity for her. All the partying in the world won't make you whole and give you a life to be proud of. Wish she could find at least a best friend that would say "I love you but you are making a complete ass of yourself, you hillbilly, straighten up!"

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Tim Chan, San Diego, CA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:46:43 GMT

Finally, there's an honest reporter who has the personal courage to own up to being a fan of Britney's new album. It speaks volumes about the writer to be able to focus on something good about Britney and not tear her down. Thanks for praying for her and not being one "to cast a stone" and for writing something so real and honest. It took courage and integrity to face the critism of your wife and kids and not follow the mob on the Britney bashing wagon. I hope they and other readers recognize the value in your article and your actions.

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rumbler — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:46:58 GMT

Those who keep buying her music and keep putting her in the limelight continue to support and enable her behavior. She is totally and completely clueless.

Stop it. She is not worth it.

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Randy Hanson Canada — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:47:01 GMT

I Think she is taking the peaple of her fan club as well as the rest of us for a ride.
Brittny thinks she is above the law and that the world owes her a rich life.
She has had it to good to fast and needs to be put back with the rest of the working world , trying make ends meet with a small income that barely cuts it.
( That is reality)
Her kids may be best off without her in the long run.
Thank god there Father has brains.

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Jack Yeobin, South Lyon, Michigan — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:47:28 GMT

God helps those who help themselves. God listens all she has to do is ask..... until then no matter how many prayers are said for her, she's on her own.

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Nasty Nate — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:47:46 GMT

Second chance? Are you kidding?? And deprive the American people of their favorite national laugh-cow? Shameful!

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Robyn — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:48:11 GMT

..."no one to blame but herself"?? We are talking about a talented child whose parents wanted to help her succeed doing what she loves. A child who, because of that, never had the chance to live a "normal" life... never developed a "normal" sense of self, others, consequence or control. Her entire life has been saturated with excess and dominated by media, judgment and the criticism of millions. There are plenty of people to blame for her current situation. I'm not saying she is not one of them, but I think she's last on the long, long list. I'm glad at least someone believes she deserves a "second" (3rd, 4th, 5th, etc) chance.

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Robyn — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:48:11 GMT

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Allan Bailey, Corpus Christi, TX — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:48:28 GMT

I'd imagine the day to day living for her to be something few of us ever had to concieve of. Growing up as an idol and an icon with the flood of public attention has got to be incredibly stressful, almost surreal. If one of us felt like we were downing wouldn't we also be thrashing a bit? I think we can still honor a person's contribution independently of our opinions of their personal lives; something that was never our business to begin with. Best of luck B. Know you'll find your feet and stand again.

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Lori Meyer, Alden MN — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:49:22 GMT

I think you are very right. I feel sorry for this poor girl. She has no idea how to live outside of the public eye. If I could help her I would. Living in a small rural area with no media could certainly not hurt at this point! Thank you for having the courage to write about this in a much different light than what we normally see.

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DW — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:49:52 GMT

BRITTANY IS CRYING OUT FOR HELP! SOME ONE NEEDS TO STEP UP AND TAKE OVER. THE KIND OF LIFE SHE LIVES IS NOT A LIFE ANYONE WOULD WANT TO LIVE. PRAY FOR HER AND ASK GOD TO INTERVENE AND HELP HER TO CHANGE HER LIFE. FOR THOSE WHO BELIEVE IN GOD, ONLY GOD CAN JUDGE

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Judith, Clayton Ca — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:49:58 GMT

It is tragic to watch the demise of a young woman that has had everything far too soon, and hasn't had a good solid advisory system in place. Yes I believe in second chances, but the person needs to admit they need help and she isn't at that spot yet. I dearly hope she eventually comes to her senses before its too late. But with mental illness the person lives in a fantasy world unfortunately.

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Kiki Orlando FL — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:50:06 GMT

I tough the same thing, just because she is not that cute pie anymore,,come on one;s you have kids it is hard to loose those few extra pounds, especially when you have a baby in last then 2 years a part (I have the same experience) ...but the drugs and alcohol...time to say by by to that...time to act like a grown up....your not a teenager anymore......and this paparazzi come on...live her alone...she needs some alone time to be able to think and act normal...
she is not discussing ....she is a human and have feelings, and she do care about her kids..she did not have the chance to be a mom...since Kevin took them from her, I will act like crazy if some on would take my 2 boys from me (I also have 2 boys)....
Britney start going to church and seek God, get some therapy, loose some weight take care of yourself...get back in track....ones you done that ...you will be able to get your kids back....I'll be praying for
you.... and I'll be praying that the next time you run an album it will be Gospel music.....

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vancouver b.c. canada — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:50:21 GMT

I can't defend her she is pretty messed up but , I wish everyone would leave her alone and then maybe she will clean up her act.

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Beverlynn Chalmers, Seaford Delaware — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:50:23 GMT

Its amazing, you put these people on a higher level than yourself. and when then they crumble, you want to talk smack.It is not our place to judge.Just pray for the girl, When she was on top,she was American Sweetheart. You made her what she is. Leave her alone.Oh,,, now you have nothing nice to say about her. You brought her cd's, went to her shows,Tried to be like her.(do you put money in God' kingdom?) Next time you ask God for something, or need healing, or help.Should you be forgiven? Do the same to others.Pray not only for her , but her whole family. To God you are just as special to him, as you thought she was to you.

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James A — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:50:25 GMT

There is only one solution: Military service.

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sue virginia beach — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:50:34 GMT

britney spears is a troubled young woman. I am not a religious fanatic by any stretch of the imagination, but I do feel that she is one of God's children just like every one else and is as deserving of prayers and compassion as anyone else who is falling down...furthermore...perhaps we are the ones who should examine ourselves at the delight taken in her troubles...she may be an entertainer, but her life is her own...and how must it feel to lose your children? who wouldn't seek to anesthetize themselves?

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Eve — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:50:37 GMT

She may have had several chances, but there has to be something seriously wrong inside emotionally for her to act the way she is. Yes, she has money and fame, and I feel sure these things have contributed to Britneys's behavior. I still can't help but feel sorry for her and hope that she does get herself together. I sure don't think Fedderline is any better equipped to take care of the children. I am in Britney's corner on this one. Everyone deserves as many chances as it takes to get better. I don't believe said she should get what she wants regardless, but she does deserve people helping her and praying for her get better. God doesn't just give us one chance. If he did where would most of us be?

Good luck Britney, and may God bless you!

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Diana , Deltona, FL — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:51:10 GMT

It is very interesting to hear some other views...i would only like to say that I have never walked a day in her shoes (and probably would not want too) I do not have people scrutinizing everything that I do and say...I do not have cameras taking a picture of my every waking moment, even when that moment may not be a good one...She probably wants another chance, she is just being suffocated by the media and all of the people in this world that think what is going on is good TV...She is a human being and she cannot even take time to get herself together...let's face it when you need a break you can take a drive, go for a walk call a girlfriend or family member that cares about you (not about how much money you have)and get away for a little while, no not this poor girl, she cannot take a dump without everyone in her face...I know that everyone can look at this from the outside and make judgement, but try growing up and going thru the changes that lots of kids go through, except that the media is always there to judge, make fun of or just exploit you...then try to have a normal life....I CANNOT IMAGINE what this poor women has to endure everyday, even on a good day when you are trying to pick yourself up, then you walk outside and get bombarded with negativity...i wish I could give her a place to get away from all of the madness for a while,I would be willing to bet that she would be able to get back on track....The days of watching people being fed to the lions are over, but some people have not changed much...They still enjoy watching others just slowly ravaged and their spirits beaten down by the paparrazi (LET"SNOT FORGET PRINCESS DIANA)...Britney is probably not asking for another chance, she needs a freaken BREAK, leave her alone...There is a war going on and gas prices are astronomical...Health Insurance is a mess and this is a presidential year and everything that I see is about Britney Spears, President Bush must love Britney Spears, she is his deterrent from all that is really going on....The haters are probably saying well I would deal with that for her kind of money, YEAH OKAY! There is not enough money in the world to make me lose my mind, my children, my family, my life....We can always talk when it is not you or someone you know and love...LEAVE BRITNEY SPEARS ALONE, LET HER GET BACK TO SOME NORMALCY and then maybe some healing can begin, for everyone involved....GOD BLESS YOU BRITNEY AND YOUR CHILDREN :)

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Myra, Ogden, Utah — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:51:11 GMT

Drop out of sight for a while, people will forget (remember Paris?, old news) and move on to some other troubled person. Get fixed while you are on hiatus. You do not need to bring any more children into this mixed up world. I would rather see those children in foster care than with either Federline or Ms. Spears, he needs to get fixed too!

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john doe — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:51:25 GMT

very nice, for a good change. shher album is good, after all.

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Paul, Alberta, Canada — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:51:27 GMT

Why does the article have to say, "a person of faith" as though someone who isn't dependant on an ideal for validation could never understand subjectively superior morality, as though the nature of primates isn't to forgive. Take some anthropology classes.

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Lynell Hansen,Yukon, Oklahoma — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:51:44 GMT

Has anyone out there heard of an intervention? Perhaps her family members and friends could make this happen or are they too busy on being her so-called friend and enjoying all the publicity they might get hanging out with her. I think Brittany could be a beautiful and caring person if she could just get her life straightend out. I will pray for her. Her kids need her. She will wake up one day and say where in the world has my life gone. Will it be too late?

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vancouver b.c. canada — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:52:06 GMT

I can't defend her she is pretty messed up but , I wish everyone would leave her alone and then maybe she will clean up her act.

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ROURKE Paris, TN — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:53:08 GMT

Britney makes me sick.
She is definitely mental. Why does her parents not get her help ???

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anonymous, st. paul mn — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:53:21 GMT

There is one thing and ONE THING ONLY that could possibly end Britney's ever-increasingly odd behavior. That would be for the paparazzi to stop following her, the tabloids to stop documenting her every move and paying mountains of cash for photos of her to publish. But we all know that's NEVER going to happen.

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Linda — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:53:31 GMT

I love Britney, like most, I just want to reach out for her and help her. I was 16 when I had my daughter, never did drugs or anything but did make bad choices. I am about to graduate college and my daughter is 13. I am sure Britney can make some changes when she wants to and when she realizes she is ready to.

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Mike, Indianapolis, IN — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:53:40 GMT

I am a recovering alcoholic with 2 years of sobriety. I am 28 years old. I did a lot of the same things Britney has... DUI's, Public Intox, Seperation from my wife, etc... When people kept bailing me out or when the judge would give a light sentence, i was convinced I couldn't do anything wrong. It took me to be locked up in a jail hundreds of miles away from home, while on a business trip, and having everyone refuse to bail me out. I had to face the consequesnces by myself. I come from a wealthy family, so I knew they could afford it, but they didn't pay the bail. They stopped enabling me. When I was release a month later, I became homeless. THAT IS WHEN I REALIZED MY LIFE WAS A MESS!!! Because of this, I got the help and support systems that I need. Since I got sober, I have rekindled my marriage (we are having our first child this sumer), purchased a beautiful home, and my relationship with my family and friends is stronger than ever. This needs to happen to Britney if she is to get better. Britney's family and friend have to tell her they do not want her in their life until she is sober (and then actually do it). The short term is painful, but long term is a blessing. Britney does not want to get better...yet. She hasn't lost enough, nor has she realized it's her fault. Enabling an alcoholic or alcoholic personality just hurt them worse.

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Frustrated, Emmett, ID — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:54:00 GMT

How sad it is that everyone can judge Britney! Who has that right? There is not one of us that is perfect. My heart goes out to her and her kids.

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ks kate — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:54:41 GMT

I feel sorry for Britney. Paperazzi need to back off of her. If she ran over the foot of one of them, I can't blame her. They are all over her. I can't imagine having my life be a zoo everytime I left my house like hers is. They should have to stay a certain distance away from her and any other famous people. I agree, she just needs some privacy and someone who really cares about her around her.

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Concerned — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:54:52 GMT

The point is Brittney needs help. Yes, we should pray for you. I thankful for a forgiven God b/c how many time have we made mistake without being addicted to drugs or alcohol. Now, add the drugs and alcohol in the mix, you have problems. Brittany is not thinking with a clear head. She may need a million chances to get it together. She needs a strong support system and lots of prayers. Pray for her instead of beating her down, when she is all ready down.

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Marsha — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:57:07 GMT

I know Britney has brought most of what's happened to herself on herself, but I couldn't imagine having every move that I make watched either. She can't go anywhere without being followed and her picture put in the papers. She does need to get a grip on her life beofre it's to late. I don't understand why someone such as her parents doesn't have her put in a hospital for treatment. I do believe that she will end up dying because of her actions if someone doesn't do something. Why wait until she's dead??

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Matt Seattle — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:57:12 GMT

I think it is great that you want to give her a second chance, but how many of these respondents actually have any real clue of what is going on? None of you, so you should all be ashamed for passing judgement on someone based on tabloid garbage and Entertainment Tonight. I'm no fan of hers but who am I to pass judgment on anyone.

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Stephanie, Bremen, GA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:57:19 GMT

Even if you forgive Britney, she is still an unstable, self centered, immature woman who will almost certainly never learn from her mistakes as long as people continue to make excuses for her actions. When Britney decides it's time to act like an adult, THEN it's okay to give her a second chance...but until that time comes, all you're doing is enabling her current behavior.

Buying her album is a little like giving money to your drug addict cousin, and calling that a second chance. You KNOW what's going to happen with that money. Go ahead and forgive her, pray for her, but don't support her addictions by throwing more money at her.

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Dello, Oxnard, CA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:57:46 GMT

Stupid is as stupid does when it comes to the "Princess of Nothing"! I'm just waiting for her to resurrect Hee-Haw and show herself for what she really is!
Bad music, Bad manners, Bad attitude, Bad mom, Bad looking private parts, and probably bad breath (?). Maybe she should team up with the former Prince of pop and remake the album "BAD"???

If you leave it alone...it does go away!

Next!!!

Dello

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JG, Charlotte, NC — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:57:51 GMT

As a former party person myself, I agree that God can be a source of rescue from that life. I also pray for her & her family.

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wanda louisville ky — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 18:58:49 GMT

we have all made mistakes.we are all human.britney has a medical problem along with all her other problems. remember prayer and good doctors can solve all problems.

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Carolyn Hall — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:00:25 GMT

I agree with Mr. Teague; as people of faith we need to pray for healing and help for Ms. Spears. We don't want the children at risk, so for now that's out of the question. I've been an youth and family minister for 30 years and I would like to commend Mr. Teague for his response to Brittany. Many family's have "train wreck's like Brittany, but we still love and pray them back into the fold. Let's keep the children safe but let's pray that she gets the help that she's not been able to ask for yet. That's what's amazing about the grace of God, God hears even when it's too difficult for us to ask. And God has no number set on the times forgiveness is given.

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Montvale, NJ — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:00:36 GMT

The girl is mentally ill. She doesn't need to ask for a second chance. We give her one because it is the right thing to do. It is a sad awful situation for her or for anyone in her shoes. Wouldn't you want the courtesy same if it were your chld? Your mother? Your wife or husband?

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Livvy Westville, IN — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:01:35 GMT

People screw up their lives all the time. Sadly, Britney's had to do it in the most public environment possible. She's made mistakes and, for the most part, she has no one to blame but herself. That doesn't mean she doesn't deserve another chance. I hope her family and friends never give up on her. I hope America can find a better pasttime then watching Britney self-destruct. Save a whale. Recycle. Dance. Just something other than making fun of someone you don't know or understand. A little empathy, perhaps?

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Concerned and Praying, Wash DC — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:01:47 GMT

Did I agree with her life style - NO!!! Do I feel sorry for her - YES, I do. To crash and burn before millions is not something she envisioned when she did "Oops, I did it again."

My prayer is that everyone (mom and sis included) will one day be made whole again. Fame came with a prety steep price tag for this entire family, something they probably didn't negotiate in their respective contracts.

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Janel Colorado Springs, Co — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:02:05 GMT

If that were us, and we'd come to our senses and were mortified at what we'd done, we'd be begging for another chance. I don't approve of her behavior, I don't like what she's putting her kids through, I hate the fact that so many young girls used to look up to her, but I have enough empathy to know that everyone makes mistakes. Ours just aren't broadcasted in real time for the entire population of the earth to view at their leisure. I don't approve and I don't condone, but I know that if she ever gets her act together and asks for another chance, I'd be a hypocrite if I said she couldn't have it.

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ShellyBelly — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:02:24 GMT

This upsets me, some of these comments left here. People need to understand she has tons on her plate. She was raised into this entertainment business, and it's a tough one. Everyday people make these same mistakes and get thier 2nd, 3rd, and4th chances until they get it right. Who are any of you to say she doesn't? She is a person as well as all of you, who maybe has some serious mental, unstability problems and does need the help and support of her family and her fans. If this were you, would you want another chance? Give the girl a break, everyone makes poor decisions and those children need a mother regardless of how unstable she is. Kevin was a poor father in the beginning, no one rooted for him, now we all do because he has cleaned up and now is that stand up father. Give Britney a chance, she will get hit with her reality and actions soon enough. Shame on all of you to pass judgement.

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Diane Beck, Houston, TX — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:02:30 GMT

You should be commended for raising such a wonderful daughter who at 15 can see that Britney should not be a role model. That is just incredible.

I have to admit that I too have felt very badly for this misguided young lady although it didn't occur to me until today to PRAY FOR HER. Thank you for that, if more folks will take that to heart she just might have a chance.

God bless you for being a beautiful light in a world of darkness.

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Sherry White, Lavonia, Ga. — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:04:00 GMT

I completely agree with his comment about second chances. I think alot of her behavior is due to the constant pressure on her from people scrutunizing every single thing she does. I would be going nuts myself if I had to deal with that. Stress takes a toll on all of us at some point in our lives especially when we go through things like having two children and going through a divorce like she has recently. Who would be in there best mind set?? None of us are ever perfect, faultless, or without a mistake always so why should we expect her to be. It's funny how people find humor and pleasure from sitting back and watching people mess up their lives but when something tragic happens then everyone wants to act so concerned for them. That just makes for another good story! This is how sick the values of the world have gotten!! I agree with giving Brittany a second or even a third chance if that is what it takes to help her and her children lead a better life!!

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Liz Short 105 Northview Drive Boerne Texas 78006 — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:04:23 GMT

Wow. Thanks for your very real struggle with this. At the end of the day, for me, it comes down to, I cannot write Britney off because she is a human being and someone needs to care. I don't want to get to a place in life where I am apathetic or disinterested in the fact that another human makes stupid choices and possibly endangers herself or worse yet endangers her children. I think she should be held responsible for her actions and I don't have an easy answer as to how that would be accomplished. I cannot help but care and I do pray that she would get her life on track. more importantly, thanks for the way you responded to your daughter's questions and someday she will see in you a caring, thoughtful dad. That will go a long way toward a good foundation for her. Blessings.

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Carly, cincinnati, ohio — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:05:27 GMT

okay you bought her cd as she is still a train wreck. please dont use a "second chance" to justify it. you like the music. your whole story is just sad. and if you think her kids are going to be left without a mother, think faster, they are already without a mom. your daughter is smarter than you and you should be proud that she recognizes a bad role model. britney is trash. you are an enabler.

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countrygrl2 Aurora,IL — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:05:43 GMT

so sorry for her but c 'mon she is seriously ill. She is a female Micheal Jackson.She wants all that publicity!! If she does not get it she goes out so that the paparazzi can see her. She knows who is outside her windows! If see wants some privacy go rent out those islands that some stars rent for a private getaway!! She has the money.And while she is out there get help buy a doctor that does not prescribe drugs but does care and is willing to help!! GET OVER IT, God can only do so much.

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just saying...paramus,nj — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:06:16 GMT

the girl has emotional problems. SEVERE emotional problems. that coupled w/ postpartum depression is enough to send anyone off and reeling. Let's all show some compassion. I agree that she does need help. i just don't understand why her family hasn't committed her. are they afraid of stopping the gravy train?

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Brit Nee, — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:06:24 GMT

Instead of praying for someone who has been given everything and thrown it down the toilet; maybe people should get out there and DO SOMETHING for those that have never been given ANYTHING and have nothing. All of these self-destructive pop culture icons deserve no special attention and certainly not special treatment just because they are well known.

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Mimi, Jacksonville, FL — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:06:51 GMT

I am a woman of faith and I also believe that we should pray for her and others in her situation. we should also be praying for all those people making these disgusting bets on her death date. We cannot judge because we don't know how we would react to not being able to do ANYTHING without being followed by dozens of cameras...or not knowing who next to us is a real friend, including our parents. It's been said many times...those wo deserve love the least NEED it the most!

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angie,atlanta — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:20:06 GMT

EGR- Extra GRACE Required and given

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Janet, Braintree, MA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:23:48 GMT

I think the jury is still out on if her mental state is in tact or not. If she really does have multiple personalities, that is clearly a very sad situation and one that she has no control over. Personally, I think she is just a train wreck that Hollywood has got the better of and we all feed into it like its a drug. The only ones I feel bad for are the children because honestly, is Kevin Federline any better?

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Julie, TX — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:23:58 GMT

Those who have children know that they go through difficult years and have many emotional roller coasters that they travel trying to find out just who they are. In this case all of America has watched as Britney has made bad decisions and had trouble in her life. The difference between her and many others her age is that she has her own personal documentary photographers who follow her every second of every day. I make excuses for no one, but sometimes if you walk in their shoes awhile your perspective might be different. I certainly would not like to have photographers follow me around every place that I go, having a camera shoved in my face every step I take. We have all made a bad decision or taken the wrong road in our lives, thank goodness that it was not documented on film. Perhaps the media should leave her alone and let her try to work through this difficult time in her life instead of hounding her. It is difficult to make better decisions when the bad ones you have made haunt you every day in full color.

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Brit fan, NE — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:25:27 GMT

I just want to say to all of you who wrote that you don't care about Britney or want to see anything else about her that if you don't care, then why read an article with her name in the title? Why blog about it? Seems like you care a little.

I would not want to be her. I think about her when I am in a hurry and not looking my best or stumble and thank God that 100 people aren't swarming me with cameras. It is alot of pressure to have every move you make, every bad day, every slip of the tongue to be caught on camera. When you are sitting there judging her, ask yourself if you would want every waking minute of your life broadcast around the world. Probably not.

I think it would be best for her if she could remove herself from the limelight. She needs to move and focus on just being normal for awhile. Its the only way she will ever get to be part of the boys' lives.

And for the record, I loved the new cd. She still has alot of potential.

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Lottie, Sapulpa, OK — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:26:01 GMT

She keeps getting chances and blowing them off. Perhaps when she is living under a bridge, it will be bottom enough for her to stop and take responsibility and start pulling her life out of the gutter. Maybe not, maybe she will be another Hollywood failure.
We all can learn from her that fame is not so wonderful, that character is not just a name in a book, and that looking good is not BEING good.
Being a POP icon is not all it is cracked up to be.
I wouldn't want it myself or my children.

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Erick Prado, Los Angeles CA — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:28:27 GMT

Awesome piece. It had me laughing and then a bit choked up. You're right. We all need a second chance. I've never liked much of her music except for a few songs, but thanks to Don, I think I'll be buying her album as my symbol of support as well. Thanks for this Don. Gave me that warm fuzzy feeling. People are still good in this world.

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Diana Horton — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:28:48 GMT

Everyone naturally slows down to see a car wreck on the side of the road, Brittney is no different. She is a wreck. I think we all feel for her like we do anyone wrecked on the side of the road... compassion, sympathy and even "that is what you get for acting like an idiot". We can not stop watching the destruction... We should not support her behavior by buying her music - good or not. If her fans are intact, her money is coming in she can continue to justify her behavior as acceptable.

Brittney is an addict, the bottom she will have to hit before she gets help will be shocking to the non-addict, hopefully she will hit bottom soon and not end up dead. The judge rightly revoked her visitation, he took the boys out of harms way, their lives can not be entrusted to any addict - mother or not. Her kids will have the need for serious mental help as children/and later adults of an addict. She is not only reuining her life, she is setting the tone for her childrens lives...

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Mike Clark, Seattle, Wa — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:28:58 GMT

I will add her to my prayer list, and I will ask my daughters to pray for her as well. With the grace of God, she may turn her life around and be a true role model.

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Greg Fitzgerald, Whitby, Ontario — Fri, 18 Jan 2008 19:30:52 GMT

I have done a lot a bad things when I was younger, I hope that her family & true friends help her get out of this rut before it takes over her life. Like partying has given me a death sentence, and hopefully that does not happen to her but she's headed in that direction. I was never her fan but someone should get her help